I know i am taller than many here but I have same problem: unhappy with my height. I was unhappy with my face too and changed it with bimaxillar surgery; now i look more or less as i want and i am quite happy of it. Still there is the height problem.
I should be average in theory but i feel a bit shorty most time. I would like only 4/5 cm not more! Only to achieve the average/tall end.
Do you think I am crazy for this? I usually check my height when I am out and compare it with other guys of my age; most time i feel they are a bit taller than me.
I cannot sustain the expense of this soon but when i will have enough money it will be one of the first things i will do. I am generally fit and healthy so i think i wont have complications.
Also i have long and big chest and short legs so i am a perfect candidate for this surgery! All the people when see pics of me from chest up they say i look like a 183/5 cm guy. Maybe this is because my mom is short (153) and my dad tall (181) so i took half from each one.
Hello guys, i am back here after some time. Many things happened in my life and now i am starting again to think to this procedure. I am not convinced completely because i am aware of the risks (even if I would go with the safest surgery and the safest lenght which is under 5 cm). The real reason i am here is that I am deeply convinced we should always think we have just one life and we should NEVER accept something we are not really satisfied with. We should always pursue our dreams. Now, being tall is one of the things i have always wanted (together with many others i am working on, like being social/popular, having a decent career, having pretty girls like you...) so why should i give up? Why should i accept something i dont completely like for the rest of my life?
Oh I forgot to tell you that i am Italian (central northern Italy, Florence maybe you know) but here i assurde you, i am slighly under the average and Anyway i am perceived by ANY girl as being shorty... I know it is nonsense because in theory i should be on the average side, but i guess the reason is that if you are really short you simply dont exist for many girls, so me, i am on the short side of those "taken into account" by girls...
I will not deny that the idea of being taller comes out also (not only) for a personal "revenge" against all those girls who did not show me any interest because i was not tall/attractive enough... Now, i have changed my face and I think I am enough attractive (not a model of course) but still not tall enough... Being taller than average would complete the process.
hello, i am still here and still considering Limbs Lenghtening.
It is not an obsession since i can live "ok" even at my height. But i often see taller people around me and i feel like I really would like to be taller, even just 3 cm more. I also have dated some women in the last months/ years and I have been confirmed, even more than i thought, how height is important to their eyes. I just spent a week end with a croatian woman (anyway, croats are among the tallest europeans, i know, but it means something anyway) who constantly reminded me that she only dated tall guys (over 185 cm), and how a "short guy" (for her i was short) could not be considered handsome even with a cute face. This girl was an annoying bitch, I know, with some height obsession, but with ANY girl i have met I have always had this feeling of them workshipping tall guys. This does not mean you do not have a chance if you are an average guy (if you are below average, your chances become much slimmer for my perception), but in that case you lose the big big height bonus and you have to show some other supernatural ability to compensate... like, perfect face, super fit body, charming conversation, a lot of money etc... Also, speaking with other female friends, they have all secretely confirmed me that height is maybe the first thing they notice from a guy after facial aesthethics. I do gym regularly and I never had the impression my fit body impressed them much, or not even close to how a TALL body would do that. If you have average muscles and you are not fat, you are ok for them.
So i know it may sound crazy and i dont need it but i keep thinking this: " i have one life, only one, should i try to live it at the best of my possibilities or just go with what people say it is "ok", just with the idea of avoiding any risk?" for my experience, i know many people who just do what they are supposed to do, get used to what they dont like, and they are extremely unhappy innerly... i am one of those people. I have always tried to accept anything that i could not change and i did not lead a good life. I have never been really happy, i have always been alone, sad, with zero friends, and rejected from most "quality" women. I tried to pursue a career but had to give up on that because a very stupid thing i did which caused me legal problems and so problems with my profession, so i could not even have satisfaction on that field. Anyway i did not like that job so maybe it is a new opportunity. Now i am trying to change career, I have the possibility to have some kind of passive income monthly (i am not rich, just normal) thanks to some properties my family gave me so maybe this is the good and only moment to do this thing, now or never again!
I want to point out that i have gone to psychologist and i felt they were just a waste of money, i do everything i can to lead an active life, i have a girlfriend (now, my first one, even if honestly would never been my choice if i could choose better), i have hobbies, i do not have friends but i have many virtual friends some of them i even met sometimes, also i am 32 now and i am not in an age where "hanging out with friends in the clubs" is really a priority, but just a nice addition. I will start soon again my acting school and will travel as soon as i can. So, you see, i am not one of those guys who completely obsess over one only thing (in this case LL). I try to do the best in my life with what I have.
My family does not support me, i am completely alone in this, but it has never supported me even in my jaw surgery and the outcome of that was definitely worth it. So why should not it be the same with this?
My question is: which is the surgery which is fastest and safest option? I am thinking to LATN for thighs, at first i read about LATN for lower legs but i read it caused knee pain... other advices? maybe from "average" guys like me who actually did surgery? i am thinking to go to some russian doctor anyway to save money but being safe
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