Fat women starting to become "attractive", but us short men?

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Quote from: TomD on December 29, 2014, 08:59:44 PMThis is the brutal truth most of us short guys simply cannot accept because , well, its disgusting.

We look at a fat woman and go OMG , but we dont realize women look at short men and say the exact same thing 

Seems unfair doesnt it? Fatsos can go on a diet to get rid of their weight. Its a stupendous challenge but it can (and should be ) done.

Us shorties have 'no reason to live' according to the song which was immortalized  during the 1970s.

Well guess what? Now we can do something about it. 

Not true.

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Quote from: Hallijah on December 29, 2014, 09:42:33 PMwhen I see a short guy acting cool I simply cannot take him seriously

Confident, self-assured guys, whether tall or short, don't care what other people think.

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Quote from: ReadRothbard on December 29, 2014, 09:54:32 PMConfident, self-assured guys, whether tall or short, don't care what other people think.

Everyone cares what other people think. Your statement was one of the things I used to tell myself . Too bad it wasnt true.

Quote from: ReadRothbard on December 29, 2014, 09:53:31 PMNot true.

You havent explained why.

Quote from: Hallijah on December 29, 2014, 09:42:33 PMwhen I see a short guy acting cool I simply cannot take him seriously

I do, but then again I am a short guy. I am sure fat women think other fat women are cool as well.

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Quote from: TomD on December 29, 2014, 10:22:23 PMEveryone cares what other people think. Your statement was one of the things I used to tell myself . Too bad it wasnt true.

Quit being such a self-depricating garmin.

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Quote from: TomD on December 29, 2014, 10:22:23 PM
I do, but then again I am a short guy. I am sure fat women think other fat women are cool as well.

Pretty much the reason this whole movement is going on.

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Quote from: TomD on December 29, 2014, 10:22:23 PMEveryone cares what other people think. Your statement was one of the things I used to tell myself . Too bad it wasnt true.

You havent explained why.

I do, but then again I am a short guy. I am sure fat women think other fat women are cool as well.

As a short guy, especially the younger you are, you're going to hear   from people.  But it doesn't matter how short or tall you are, there will always be people that don't like you.  A lot of haters out there.  Don't give a fk what any of them think.  Just live your life.

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Quote from: TomD on December 29, 2014, 10:22:23 PMEveryone cares what other people think. Your statement was one of the things I used to tell myself . Too bad it wasnt true.

You havent explained why.

I do, but then again I am a short guy. I am sure fat women think other fat women are cool as well.

Self assured people care what others thing, but they only care what quality men and women think--not low IQ mongrels with no character or principles.

Since you're the one making the claim that short men are equal in attractiveness to fat women, it is up to you to prove it--not for me to disprove it. However let me say this: there are plenty of 5'6-5'8 male strippers that do well in mainstream clubs and agencies, but how many fat females strippers do you see?

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Quote from: ReadRothbard on December 30, 2014, 01:16:17 AMSelf assured people care what others thing, but they only care what quality men and women think--not low IQ mongrels with no character or principles.

Since you're the one making the claim that short men are equal in attractiveness to fat women, it is up to you to prove it--not for me to disprove it. However let me say this: there are plenty of 5'6-5'8 male strippers that do well in mainstream clubs and agencies, but how many fat females strippers do you see?

i have long stated my reasons. You are the one who said I was wrong. Stands to reason you might want to state your reasons to. I didnt ask you to 'prove it'. Surely you have reasons why you disagree. 

So from your post you think if you simply hide out with 'high quality' people who have high IQ's then they wont judge you for being short. You honestly believe that? . The world doesnt work that way. 

Attractiveness is not an IQ issue. It takes many forms . However, our physical height is one of the most basic attributes we can have. Its a fundamental fact of life. For women its their weight. If you disagree, then fine. I havent found any evidence to suggest otherwise.  I read your example as bending logic to try to win an internet argument.

I found that the younger we are the  more bent out of shape we get when challenged on our insecurities. Makes sense no? If you thought size didn't matter you would not be hanging out on this forum. This forum is for guys who see their height not only as an issue but a drastic problem.

I think the fact we are here  excludes us from those who take the 'high road' regarding height . So when I see you guys try to apply it, its a non starter but I understand where you are coming from.

I found the more intellectual well off folks judged the crap out of me (and each other) far more than the poor uneducated ones did. I found the poor and uneducated far friendlier to me as they were in no position to snub anyone.

My .02

p.s. You know plenty of short male strippers?

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Quote from: Blackhawk on December 30, 2014, 01:00:01 AMAs a short guy, especially the younger you are, you're going to hear crap from people.  But it doesn't matter how short or tall you are, there will always be people that don't like you.  A lot of haters out there.  Don't give a fk what any of them think.  Just live your life.

People get bent out of shape when they are confronted with things within themselves they do not want to face.

Finding out you are fundamentally unattractive to attractive women is not something any man wants to hear. However, if we hear it or not doesn't change the fact one iota.

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Quote from: TomD on December 30, 2014, 06:35:56 AMi have long stated my reasons. You are the one who said I was wrong. Stands to reason you might want to state your reasons to. I didnt ask you to 'prove it'. Surely you have reasons why you disagree. 

So from your post you think if you simply hide out with 'high quality' people who have high IQ's then they wont judge you for being short. You honestly believe that? . The world doesnt work that way. 

Attractiveness is not an IQ issue. It takes many forms . However, our physical height is one of the most basic attributes we can have. Its a fundamental fact of life. For women its their weight. If you disagree, then fine. I havent found any evidence to suggest otherwise.  I read your example as bending logic to try to win an internet argument.

I found that the younger we are the  more bent out of shape we get when challenged on our insecurities. Makes sense no? If you thought size didn't matter you would not be hanging out on this forum. This forum is for guys who see their height not only as an issue but a drastic problem.

I think the fact we are here  excludes us from those who take the 'high road' regarding height . So when I see you guys try to apply it, its a non starter but I understand where you are coming from.

I found the more intellectual well off folks judged the crap out of me (and each other) far more than the poor uneducated ones did. I found the poor and uneducated far friendlier to me as they were in no position to snub anyone.

My .02

p.s. You know plenty of short male strippers?

You never stated any evidence for your position that short men are equal to fat women in repulsiveness. All you have done is make self-assured statements.

Smart, quality people are far less likely to judge you for your made up "flaws" than people with no character. They are more likely to judge you on things that actually matter or have significance.

Also, you are invoking strawmen and ad hominems. Obviously height does definitely matter, but it's not the end of the world in terms of being physically attractive.

As for short male strippers, here:http://www.blogto.com/film/2012/06/confessions_of_a_male_stripper_in_toronto/