I'm 18-years-old, and I'm on the higher threshold of short at about 5'7. Having Apergers, it was pretty hard for me to attract women throughout most of my highschool. Back then, I only had one girlfriend. However, I don't know how much to attribute to my height rather than my disorder, and vice versa. The past year, during which I've greatly improved my social skills with the opposite sex, I've had little-to-know interest pursuing a relationship, or even casual encounters, with the opposite sex; I just don't really care about them anymore. Outside of my "occupation", women never approach or talk to me-- I am the one initiating conversation. I always thought that this was simply a normal thing, but my best friend told me that he actually has women approach HIM! I was absolutely shocked!
So, for those short men whom are mentally-normal, what's it like to try to get a girlfriend.
Quote from: KirP1 on November 25, 2014, 11:22:31 PMi have problems to get girls at 5´5 . i dated some girls but a lot of others reject me because of my height. The girls i dated were girls that doesnt care a lot about height. but definitely is difficult to find them. at 5´7 is much more easy.
When i wear lifts that make me like a real 169cm tall i really notice it , and i dated girls a lot more easily.
169 cm is about how tall I am naturally, and I've never actually had a girl call me short. There was a female friend of mine who once did jokingly, but she was also about four inches taller than me.
It is also important to remember that one is going to rarely see an asian man with a woman period, because Asians are only about 3% of the nation or less. That could be a reason why you don't seen many white women with Asian men.
Quote from: Ajax2thousand20 on November 27, 2014, 05:56:56 AMIt depends but it's also preference. I had an African American female friend who lived in China for a year and she did not date any men because she told me she "only dates black men" which is a typical attitude of women of that race. On an interracial dating stat, the majority of women of all races ideal partner was someone of the same race as them except for an Asian women who's ideal partner was white. An Asian man from Asia or USA is most likely going to marry an Asian woman as for an Asian woman is more likely to marry a white man. The rest of the human races are more likely going to marry someone of their own race ( and yes a black man is still more likely going to marry a black woman regardless of them increasing in interracial dating).
What the fk? Some women are so weird. I could care less the race of the woman I date. If she's hot and we click, I'm in. 
Especially if you are alpha as fk, being 5'6-5'7 won't tend to hurt your dating pool.
Srs?
Here comes the ll misc crew lol
Just like that horrible thread I started on old forum . It was awful.
I'm the macho short guy. fk the musical .
Quote from: zhent on December 24, 2014, 02:40:25 AMI'm 5'8ish. I shrink to 5'7.5 at evening but I'm 5'8 in morning / with shoes on. I found out few things with regards to romance/relationships.
1-Shorter the girl is more likely she will be more obsessed about height. Girls 5'6 and above were less caring about my height than say girls below 5'3, 5'4 (Ironically I also prefer tall women, as all humans want to create offspring in the middle)
2-Having been to both sides of being very fit/muscular and obese, I would say that short guys do not have the luxury of being unfit/ungroomed. And there are tremendous differences between being fit / well groomed and being the opposite. Being short kinda exaggerates all your negative traits. I found out that for women a fat short guy is far more repulsive than a fat tall guy.
3-I find it easy to get laid, hook up, but I had struggle in relationships. And my height was always one issue, if not the main. I'ma quite a serious and untalkative person so I can't attribute my success in getting laid to my personality, and it mostly happened in environments where physical attractiveness reigned over personal charm (Clubs, Frat Parties etc) What I think is this: If a girl likes you she will dismiss your height for the short term. If she likes blondes and you are blonde, if you are her type, if she finds you cute etc etc and it will only be a "casual thing" she will likely ignore your height. I'm sure there were plenty of women who did not find me attractive solely on my height but still that did not prevented me from having fun with women. Being fit also helped a lot.
4-Where my height prevented me was in relationships. In almost every serious relationship I had, my height come into discussion more than once. I never even had a height obsession before my first serious relationship (which was after few hookups). In relationships you become a status symbol for the women you are dating, she will show you off to her friends (which will regularly talk how short you are and/or how tall their bf is) and to her parents (sometimes they too will join in the banter). After my break ups (some good / some very bad) I asked either to my ex or to her friends etc about what did she find bad about me, and in all instances my height come into the question.
Of course height is an attractive trait for women but I think if you are just into having sex your height will be much less of an issue than if you are searching for a serious relationship. You get an easy pass on your height by being a boytoy/fkbuddy than being a boy friend.
Some might say this is anecdotal, and I would agree but I also find out many other fellow short guys (Not short short but still shorter than average, I would say guys between 5'6-5'9 ) had struggles in relationships. My family/friends say that "If your girlfriend cares more about your height than you personality etc etc, then you shouldn't date with her in first place", but It does not start like that, I think they ignore the height issue at first as in a hook up but after few weeks, (also with constant peer pressure) they kinda think "I can do better" and began fall out in love with you.
TL/DR : I found out that hooking up with women in short term far more easier than having a long term relationship.
I don't think anyone would make fun of my height to me, besides for a few morons. Man or woman, I'd break their nose.
Quote from: Outgrown on January 13, 2015, 12:21:08 AM
This made me cry a little
Yeah, I saw that. But, come on, we are all aware that some women are phucking retarded. I mean, rejecting a good looking dude because he is short is like a guy rejecting a hot young lady with a nice ass because her boobs are too small. There are always morons in the world.
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