possible? What's the most ideal/safest way of doing it (methods and cm per tibia and femur)

im from the looksmax.net forum which many of you have probably heard of but they all encouraged me not to go with the surgery... but i live in denmark and the height requirements of women is super high so even just getting a girlfriend and living a normal life is very difficult. I am not disrespected on a daily basis but my height isnt up to the standard. I'm 20 years old and have saved up money but need to save up a lot more.. Need some direction.. thanks