Quote from: Thorfinnn on May 21, 2021, 05:41:21 PMSo do you live up to the “voice and important mannerisms”, status and money they all want. Wanting women who only care about all of these superficial things is not worth the time.
That is a very common coping mechanism.
AKA "the grapes are sour". If you can't have something, you pretend you don't want it.
Fact of life is, we all are attracted to certain features due to genetic programming.
Women prefer strong, tall men that look like they can dominate other males. So not only you have to be taller than her, you have to be taller than other men in region. In Netherlands a guy with 6'1'' just does not cut it.
You can call it shallow all you want, but it's nature and all women and men alike are programmed by nature.
I'm not fooling myself. If I don't live up to standards, then it is my fault not theirs. They are just going according to their program.
Coping and pretending you don't want those women is just a delusion to save pain.