Between Limb Lengthening Surgery and Suicide

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Quote from: Alajmi on October 25, 2017, 08:02:06 PMFirst of all thanks for your wishes of luck.. i do need it
In my country the height average is 180 cm 5.9 feet, am trying to make something here by going though the surgery to get myself back to society standers "a lot of people would maybe thing it's stupid, but thats the world we live in" and i think it will make me happy person
 what do you mean by two surgeries?

Fémur And tibia, that is why I want to know the average there, according to some users is like 170, then you would be average with just 1 ll. If I were you I would do two surgeries, to be completely good with myself, becuase from 163, 174 is very different.

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163 cm is a pretty good height for a man, you don't need to undergo a LL and have   your legs broken considering that you are a healthy man, think in others things and search some help with some psychologist. There are plenty of men with your height healty, affluent and happy. think about it shotta

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Bruno Mars has your stature and he is very happy and he even doesn't thinks about height and whatnot

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seriously man ur thinking of suicide at 163 is insane. that is not a bad height special for asains. I visited kuwait and middle east last year and around 50% of the natives I see at the airports and malls are same as my height or shorter. Im 165

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Quote from: Alajmi on October 25, 2017, 08:02:06 PMFirst of all thanks for your wishes of luck.. i do need it
In my country the height average is 180 cm 5.9 feet, am trying to make something here by going though the surgery to get myself back to society standers "a lot of people would maybe thing it's stupid, but thats the world we live in" and i think it will make me happy person
 what do you mean by two surgeries?

5'9 isn't that tall atleast u aren't in germany. after the surgery you will be 5'7 barefoot add some dress shoes and you should be 5'8 1/2-5'9 you'd have no problem getting a job or girlfriend. look around the "limb lengthening doctor" part of this website and search for a doctor that is in your budget range and most importantly a doctor that has good credentials and a good personality. it is bullcrap that they are discriminating you, a knowledgeable lawyer, who is just as qualified as a taller man. its complete bullcrap. the law firm should be completely ashamed of themselves. life is much bigger than height my friend, once you are done with the limb lengthening process you can resume your lawyer profession and live a normal life. suicide won't even cross ur mind anymore.

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Quote from: wvcivc on October 26, 2017, 12:53:19 AM163 cm is a pretty good height for a man, you don't need to undergo a LL and have   your legs broken considering that you are a healthy man, think in others things and search some help with some psychologist. There are plenty of men with your height healty, affluent and happy. think about it shotta

LMAO

163 cm is a pretty good height for a man?

Come on mate, seriously? Why are you even on this board? And suggesting psychology... honestly, this isn't the time or the place for these sorts of platitudes. OP is having suicidal thoughts based on the way OTHER PEOPLE treat him due to his stature. This isn't something that can be solved by having a psychologist spout a bunch of feel-good platitudes at him.

If psychology, money, status, or ANY of the coping mechanisms you're talking about (I see you mentioned Bruno Mars in a later post) was in any way an effective means of resolving height neurosis, Tom Cruise and Roberty Downey Jr. wouldn't wear 3-inch lifts every time they go out in public.

Really. Everyone is a full-grown adult on this forum. We can face reality without security blankets in the form of comforting lies. Let's not blow smoke up each other's asses, especially not when we're dealing with people who are suicidally depressed due to their short stature.

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Yea you know I'm the first one to say "life isnt that bad as a short guy", but honestly if your really considering taking your life then theres no pep talk that anyone can give that will be good enough.

Get LL. Get external tibias because you can get it sooner with your budget.

Look into Dr. Parihar, he is reputable and cheap with externals. Barinov has also had good results, (besides RGKey but most people had decent results) and also cheap (i think he might be cheaper than parihar when accommodation is calculated). I would choose Dr. Parihar but I think you might be going a little over your 20k budget once everything is set. But honestly i havn't looked into the exact costs for a while now.

You're not alone here brother. I havn't gotten LL yet but I've been researching LL for a long time. I'm also 160 cm so i know the feeling of being short. Feel free to PM me bro if you have any questions or just want to talk.

Just don't take your life. Life gets better, those that have had LL can vouch for that.

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Quote from: Zeo on October 26, 2017, 05:42:46 AMYea you know I'm the first one to say "life isnt that bad as a short guy", but honestly if your really considering taking your life then theres no pep talk that anyone can give that will be good enough.

Get LL. Get external tibias because you can get it sooner with your budget.

Look into Dr. Parihar, he is reputable and cheap with externals. Barinov has also had good results, (besides RGKey but most people had decent results) and also cheap (i think he might be cheaper than parihar when accommodation is calculated). I would choose Dr. Parihar but I think you might be going a little over your 20k budget once everything is set. But honestly i havn't looked into the exact costs for a while now.

You're not alone here brother. I havn't gotten LL yet but I've been researching LL for a long time. I'm also 160 cm so i know the feeling of being short. Feel free to PM me bro if you have any questions or just want to talk.

Just don't take your life. Life gets better, those that have had LL can vouch for that.

I guess that I can express my opinion about this thread , and I think that 163 cm is a pretty good height for man , it's a normal height, it doesn't make him  a dwarf, I travel the world and I have seen many men with 163 cm or less in all parts of the world,In EUA, Europe, Asia and america. How many men are in your country with 163 cm? I bet that there are millions of it,then imagine if every  single of these men want to proceed to LL? It cannot be possible to carry out by obvious motives