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Does anyone feel like its harder to make friends being small? or its just me? I dont particularly have friends to hang out, although im nice to people. I have a good relation with most people, but they dont call me to hang out.  Im in university now, and i guess i got a bad class, but i dont feel having luck making friends in life after height became important.  by the way im 1,60. Seems like if i dont this LL, i will have a crappy lonely life. ahah Is it just me?

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It was for me initially. I'd say the biggest reason was because I felt that they would out right reject me because of my height. Which was stupid reasoning. I soon realized most people don't give a   about your height if you come of as nice and genuinely interesting; they might point it out and make light of it, but it never gets to me.

Sure women could be a whole separate thing, but when it comes to making friends, I think it's more about getting out of your shell and taking a risk. I will say this, when taking to girls I don't really try per say. I genuine just try to meet new people for the sake of meeting new and interesting people out there.

I will say this though, considering the nature of your university, you could either be making real long-term friends, or just acquaintances. For me it was definitely the latter, but I was ok with that.

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Quote from: czvw on October 13, 2016, 01:51:03 AMDoes anyone feel like its harder to make friends being small? or its just me? I dont particularly have friends to hang out, although im nice to people. I have a good relation with most people, but they dont call me to hang out.  Im in university now, and i guess i got a bad class, but i dont feel having luck making friends in life after height became important.  by the way im 1,60. Seems like if i dont this LL, i will have a crappy lonely life. ahah Is it just me?

guys don't throw everything on height, trust me your personality and pocket bring you everything.

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czvw,
The problem is in your mind and it will grow and prevent you from making friend if you will keep pausing your life until you become more inches taller after the CLL.

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If you're in school I would try to be as outgoing as possible and join some clubs you're interested in. It's easier to make friends with people who share the same interests as you etc.

like alu said, romantic interests can be a whole different thing, but finding friends isn't really dependent on your looks or height. I can definitely relate to how crappy sometimes the social experience of a short guy can be in college, but it didn't prevent me from meeting some of my some of my best friends.

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Thanks guys, I really apreciate the answers from people who actually understands it. Im trying hard to meet new people, make new network, and hope it isnt too late. Still does anyone feel uncomfortable talking to a taller women? ahahah

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Quote from: czvw on October 14, 2016, 01:15:47 AMThanks guys, I really apreciate the answers from people who actually understands it. Im trying hard to meet new people, make new network, and hope it isnt too late. Still does anyone feel uncomfortable talking to a taller women? ahahah

no not at all, i was dating tall women in my height, taller in heels, but when i put height in my mind and made it a mental issue, am the one who decided to leave. its nothing but mental issue

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Yeh true that, but some women put height as their dating requirements ou dating sites for example, i thinks its more of a issue for them then for us...

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Quote from: czvw on October 16, 2016, 01:08:25 PMYeh true that, but some women put height as their dating requirements ou dating sites for example, i thinks its more of a issue for them then for us...

Exactly. Besides the only thing you know about the other person when browsing dating website is how they look so obviously people will be picky.

Women that purely focus on looks mostly end up in toxic relationships anyway.

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Quote from: czvw on October 16, 2016, 01:08:25 PMYeh true that, but some women put height as their dating requirements ou dating sites for example, i thinks its more of a issue for them then for us...

Well I mean I can't blame them if they say they want someone who's like at least 2-3 inches taller than them. I personally wouldn't date a girl who's big... would that make me shallow?

I feel it's a problem when we try to limit ourselves to only this one specific minority group: 6ft+ for girls. And skinny fit girl for me (guys).