Heartbreak is the best motivator

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Quote from: Megatron on April 29, 2021, 09:51:22 PMI feel like you should try to wear lifts and see if your luck changes with women. If it does then you're probably right that this procedure will make you happier but the worse thing you can do in my opinion is get this surgery and have a short coming with women somewhere else. Thats why i don't agree with anyone doing this procedure solely for women rejecting them. Rejection is a part of life everyone has to deal with. There isn't a surgery or a solution for everything. Sometimes you just have to learn to accept it. Worse thing you can do is put all these expectations on this procedure and not get the results you were hoping for.

It’s unfair of you to presume that someone has a short coming somewhere else and solely based on that, you disapprove of anyone doing this for solely women. Everyone is going to have some issues with themselves besides height that might be an issue when it comes to finding a mate. But height can put you at a massive disadvantage, to the point where regardless of having or not having other flaws it doesn’t matter because you will be immediately written off.

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Quote from: 10cmOnTibiaOrGTFO on April 29, 2021, 08:09:31 PMhow the fk did you get 8cm though on tibias wihtout crippling?

No tibias for me, concerned about scarring with externals and internals are overpriced compared to femurs.

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I don't think he assumed that. By his wording he was saying only that it should be considered, and that lift were good for understanding better what to expect.

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Quote from: Serilium on April 29, 2021, 10:01:39 PMAnyone who saids they didn't do LL for women even a small %, is lying. We are humans. Wanting more attraction from the opposite gender is natural and i guaranteed to be at least one of the reasons you do LL. Even if minor part- it is still a reason.

Totally agree; well said.

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Quote from: Dr3am3r on April 30, 2021, 03:39:51 AMI don't think he assumed that. By his wording he was saying only that it should be considered, and that lift were good for understanding better what to expect.

Yeah exactly. Just think it would be devastating to put all these expectations and not getting a good enough return. Also if a woman rejects you cause of your height is that really the type of woman you want? Once you get taller what will she want next? Every case is different but just something to consider at least. Maybe I’m different cause I’m in my 30’s. Your priorities change. I have been discriminated too though by women on my height. It sucks but it is what it is. If you’re gonna get with a woman long term you should probably let her know you got this done tho tbh.

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Quote from: Megatron on April 30, 2021, 10:41:58 AMYeah exactly. Just think it would be devastating to put all these expectations and not getting a good enough return. Also if a woman rejects you cause of your height is that really the type of woman you want?

Although I am one of the people who say do this for yourself to feel better within your own body etc. I gotta disagree with that though. The girl is not a bad person if she rejects a male for his height. Yes looks are not everything but they are an important fundamental that can ruin a lot in social interaction, unfortunately. You will not want a 200lbs girl either, no one does except you have a specific fetish. The same goes for height in males - it's pretty equivalent. The only tragic thing is changing height requires a devastating dangerous surgery that can get you end up in the wooden box while losing weight is infinitely easier (compared to LL).

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Quote from: Megatron on April 30, 2021, 10:41:58 AMYeah exactly. Just think it would be devastating to put all these expectations and not getting a good enough return. Also if a woman rejects you cause of your height is that really the type of woman you want? Once you get taller what will she want next? Every case is different but just something to consider at least. Maybe I’m different cause I’m in my 30’s. Your priorities change. I have been discriminated too though by women on my height. It sucks but it is what it is. If you’re gonna get with a woman long term you should probably let her know you got this done tho tbh.

Sure, if 10% of women reject you for your height then you can say they're too picky, but if 90% of them reject you for your height, then that's just the norm. Besides, rejection is not the only issue. Even the women that are okay hooking up with you will still make off-handed comments about your height and use it as leverage against you.

Also, I'm not telling anyone anything. If you're asinine enough to tell your SO then go right ahead lmao.

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Quote from: Megatron on April 29, 2021, 09:51:22 PMI feel like you should try to wear lifts and see if your luck changes with women. If it does then you're probably right that this procedure will make you happier but the worse thing you can do in my opinion is get this surgery and have a short coming with women somewhere else. Thats why i don't agree with anyone doing this procedure solely for women rejecting them. Rejection is a part of life everyone has to deal with. There isn't a surgery or a solution for everything. Sometimes you just have to learn to accept it. Worse thing you can do is put all these expectations on this procedure and not get the results you were hoping for.

I partly agree with you, but few of us are tall enough where lifts make a meaningful difference. It is about +3-4 cm you realistically gain from lifts. Ofcourse if we're gonna drop 100k usd and years of recovery, we will be wearing lifts too! Hopefully the combined effort of surgery+lifts is enough to make a significant difference in life.

Though I agree, for someone who has a pleasant personality and a decent face the surgery will make most difference in their love life. They will be getting the last remaining disqualifier out of the way.

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5'5 man = 300lb morbidly obese woman