Yes guys, it's gotten really bad... Anybody else feel this way or am I psychologically and mentally unstable at this point? To elaborate, thinking of going to the club gets me anxious. All the girls in heels, 6 foot guys, it's gotten to the point where I'm just avoiding these places because if I go I'm just going to be conducting height tests and comparing heights and not enjoying myself.
I can easily relate to this. This happened last year and it was my birthday. I avoided being in many group photos and when I was in a photo I would make sure no photo be uploaded on social media where I look short and all that. You're not alone and it's fairly common here with people on this forum I think.
I always avoid being in groups of people where I would look significantly short. Being short sure sucks as hell especially at places like weddings, parties where girls are likely to be in high heels. The beta feeling is just sooo depressing.
It's for events like these I bought a pair of 5.2 inch elevator shoes (boots) from tallmenshoes and they are extremely uncomfortable to walk in. So next I bought a pair of 4 inch patent leather dress shoes which are a bit more comfortable and do-able. But it should be noted the actual height gain these shoes give are 1 inch less than advertised, I read from expert review.
Quote from: Desktopx on December 30, 2016, 02:10:19 AMI can easily relate to this. This happened last year and it was my birthday. I avoided being in many group photos and when I was in a photo I would make sure no photo be uploaded on social media where I look short and all that. You're not alone and it's fairly common here with people on this forum I think.
I always avoid being in groups of people where I would look significantly short. Being short sure sucks as hell especially at places like weddings, parties where girls are likely to be in high heels. The beta feeling is just sooo depressing.
Oh man I fking hate photos. It's gotten so bad for me that I can't leave my house without either wearing Airmax 90's or timberland boots.. I cannot wear flat shoes. Hopefully in 1-2 years I can just hit average height (177cm) and live in peace.
Quote from: DreamOf180cm on December 30, 2016, 02:15:08 AMOh man I fking hate photos. It's gotten so bad for me that I can't leave my house without either wearing Airmax 90's or timberland boots.. I cannot wear flat shoes. Hopefully in 1-2 years I can just hit average height (177cm) and live in peace.
Sometimes the depression gets so bad when you come back home from university or party feeling all trash and beta, you sometimes wish life isn't even worth living right now and you might just die from a depression heart attack or something any moment. This was before when I sought after limb lengthening as a safe resort/ haven. Even now, the depression is pretty severe when I come back home from university sometimes and feel like crying. (Seeing 90% of the attractive taller than me girls with tall guys in groups, walking past through them in the corridor - Incredibly painful).
For the past 2 years, rarely have I ever been outside without my 2 inch insoles in my high top sneakers. I'm 23 as of now and I've been conducting heights tests and comparisons ever since I was in high school at 16 years old.
That is pretty common. I will not see my own family for this reason, but mainly for other reasons. I cant go for this surgery before university, so I will live unhappy for some more years. I would say that I am a lonely person, not just because height, I enjoy being alone.
Where are you guys from that you feel extremely short at 169-171?
Quote from: Desktopx on December 30, 2016, 02:10:19 AMI bought a pair of 5.2 inch elevator shoes (boots) from tallmenshoes and they are extremely uncomfortable to walk in. So next I bought a pair of 4 inch patent leather dress shoes which are a bit more comfortable and do-able. But it should be noted the actual height gain these shoes give are 1 inch less than advertised, I read from expert review.
I'm trying a new secret weapon now. I have timberland boots which give me ~1.5 inches. I bought 2 inch lifts so I'm going to combine the boots with the lifts to get 3.5 inches and see how it is. If it all goes to plan I will be at 5'11.
Quote from: TIBIKE200 on December 30, 2016, 02:42:13 AMWhere are you guys from that you feel extremely short at 169-171?
I'm from Canada. With my boots I'm ~5'9. I think my problem is that I just focus so much on people who are taller than me and ignore the people that I am TALLER then. It's become a vicious circle. I have friends who are 5'8 who seem so happy and don't even pay attention to their height (I might be wrong) and then there is me who is feels miserable.
Quote from: TIBIKE200 on December 30, 2016, 02:42:13 AMWhere are you guys from that you feel extremely short at 169-171?
I'm from Canada, it's not that bad when around general public in malls or restaurant with my 2 inch lifts but where the young generation is at i.e. University, parties e.t.c. things start going bad, really bad..
Quote from: DreamOf180cm on December 30, 2016, 02:47:53 AMI'm from Canada. With my boots I'm ~5'9. I think my problem is that I just focus so much on people who are taller than me and ignore the people that I am TALLER then. It's become a vicious circle. I have friends who are 5'8 who seem so happy and don't even pay attention to their height (I might be wrong) and then there is me who is feels miserable.
I was in toronto half a year ago. I am also 171. I felt better there. Also had success with women in parties and tinder. You canadians are pretty short on average. Its in your head
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