losing hope...

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Do you come from China?

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Quote from: Mulholland Dr on February 05, 2022, 11:13:39 AMDo you come from China?

China its not 3rd world lol

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By most standards of measurement it is.

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Quote from: Medium Drink Of Water on February 05, 2022, 05:33:07 PMBy most standards of measurement it is.

Depends on what regions of China you are discussing about if you are talking about metrocities like Shanghai, Beijing and Guangzhou, China really 'is' a 1st world country but if you are discussing about the rest regions then for sure China is 2nd, 3rd, or even worse country thereof.

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not from china

I dont want to reveal exact country but its in asia.

my intention to warn others in my situation

look at the colors in https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/B_visa#Adjusted_visa_refusal_rate

Check where YOUR country is. If rejection rate is high then you will also be like this situation

I was very serious about this. I did a online consult many year ago and was getting prepared. Saving,investing,earning passive income. Becoming fit. Everything. Finally I ready to start my journey. I apply for visa to 2 country with 100% honesty, all letters  required including medical I attached to my application. But staying for 3month+ by a third world country resident in america/europe is suspicious I think. For that long duration visa is hard. You can travel for 2 week quite easy but 3month+, no.

I want to repeat. For getting visa they want to see your job. job. job. job. job. job. job. job. job. job. job. job. job. job in home country

But to do this how can you keep your job in home country? no company will give you 3month+ vacation.

You can think "I will do remote work on laptop from america/europe". But that is illegal to do as tourist visa. So not possible. So you have to admit that you will be unemployed before starting this journey.


Just sharing my experience for other 3rd world country friends.

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I had the surgery with Doctor Betz and I stayed for 4 weeks (1 week surgery and 3 weeks after) but I think many of the patients have no problem going home 2 weeks after surgery. You shouldn't stay for 3 months because it is very expensive. You can recover back at home.

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Quote from: OnceADay on February 06, 2022, 01:14:34 PMI had the surgery with Doctor Betz and I stayed for 4 weeks (1 week surgery and 3 weeks after) but I think many of the patients have no problem going home 2 weeks after surgery. You shouldn't stay for 3 months because it is very expensive. You can recover back at home.

They stayed home during consolidation phase?

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Hard for me to feel sorry because of this sob story when the reason you're losing hope is that you're acting like a snob.

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Quote from: digital-insurance on February 02, 2022, 07:12:04 AMThis surgery is very dangerous. I am from 3rd world country I know how bad is it here.

Bad facility

No dignity for patient. I meet one patient here. He told me just before surgery anesthesia doctor was scolding him with anger for doing this surgery. Think about it. You want to consolation before surgery not scolding. During doctor consult he did not get privacy His photo and contact was share with other future patient with out permission

Only external method. External method is full of scar. How will you explain before wedding why you have scar?

They do this surgery very rarely here.Max 1 or 2 surgery per year by doctor.

My dream was to do in america or europe. I work very hard.I save 150k american dollar. I apply for visa its denied. They think I will not come back home. Humiliating experience to explain all this to the visa officer.

If you do tibias (probably best for proportions and attraction silhouette) with externals (still the best method for tibias and saffer for more than 5 cm) with modern frames and proper wires, done by a good surgeon, scars won't be big and you can treat them with laser. Also, how would a few points of scars impeach you from getting married?
Second, just do your research. There are good surgeons in Asia with affordable prices.

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Zaozari

my tibia femur almost same size so doing tibia is bad idea for proportion. Knee is too much visible while walking and in jeans. hips is not so much visible so femur is better.

scars is not the only problem but if you have change in appearance and proportion and scars then it is suspicious. I seen external scar it is brutal.

and there is less privacy in developing country. I dont know if I already shared this news. One patients photo was posted on face book without his permission. He asked doctor to remove it many times and it was removed. but no punishment for doctor. Face was a bit blur but still how can he post without patient permission?

During consultations many patients cases was discuss in waiting room itself in front of every one. every one in the room knew he was doing this and every one was staring at him.

in early 2000 everything was written on paper so privacy no big concern. But now every thing stored on computer and internet.

I think for best successfull outcome we should do internals in america/europe. Medical safety, dignity of patient, privacy all very important