Hi,
im 39 years old from europe, im about 1,69 cm tall. Im an sport man.
I never felt that i was short until i began to work and my coworkers everyday told me that i was short. They are everyday making jokes about my height.
Im the shortest of my friends, and my wife is similar to me, about 1.68 cm tall.
When we go out and she put heels i feel very unhappy with myself because my friends are tall, even their girlfriends are taller than me. And almost everyday i have to hear some comments of my friends´girlfriends saying that im short.
I would like to be 5 cm taller. I told my wife about LL, but she doesnt support me, she says that it is a crazy.
I have doubts about LL beacause of somethings:
* my age, im nearly to 40
* i have problems with my left knee it hurts me sometimes.
* the money
* and i should to stop my job i dont know how long
I would like to know if LL is a good option for me or not, and to meet people who did it to give me their opinon.
I feel very depressed, some help please.
thanks for all your opinions.
But I feel that I have lost all my seel steem. I would never have thought about my heigh before, but lot of people put inside my mind that i´m short. I try to forget it and to move on with my life but it seems impossible.
I´ve realized that when i´m alone i´m happy. The problem appears when i´m with other people. I fell very insecure and weak next to them.
The problem started when i began to work as a police officer. It is true that some friends and girls had told me that I was short before I got this job but it had never bothered me. I had a different image of me in my mind and i was happy with myself.
All of this changed when my coworkers started to make jokes about my heigh all the time. I couldn´t undestand why they spoken about my heigh everyday I didn´t think i was so short. There were other coworkers who were about 1,73 cm heigh and I never heard anybody say they were short.
During this time, I have learned some things:
* If you are about 1,73cm you are not considered short or people see you in a different way. Your heigh will go unnoticed.
* If you are taller than the average it doesn´t matter if you are not very smart, you will get privileges.
* Most girls are obsessed with heigh and will never date a short man. They are always searching a man as tall as possible.
I seriously don´t feel like i´m a person.
I have been ashamed of me when my wife or my brother wanted to introduce me to a new friend
I find it stupid when someone reminds you of your heigh. It is obvious i´m short, why they need to repeat it? are they stupid? do they want to make you feel bad?
I risk losing my mental health... what can i do? I have decided to stay alone as long as possible. Not going out or interacting with other and spending the less time possible at work.
people.
I dont want to be the tallest man or taller than the average I only want to stop hearing that i´m short it hurts me a lot.
Are there any wasap group of people who feel the same?
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