Quote from: m7liam on August 09, 2021, 12:27:05 PMHi, I can share my experience as I went from ~169-177 (this is in an Asian context). I did my surgery about a year ago so I have enough nights going out to provide some numbers.
I’m not sure my dating life for girls who were shorter than me has improved drastically. In a club, for girls who were previously shorter than me, maybe ~70% were receptive talking to me. That’s probably like 80-85% now. I think the factors here are less about height but much more focused on looks / conversation skills / confidence.
For girls who were my height or taller it’s changed drastically. This part of the population was ~15% of the pool pre-surgery (maybe like 30% including heels ie going clubbing). 0% who would have talked to me before now is about 80-85%. It’s very rare now for a girl to be taller than me so I have not felt any desire to go round 2.
I’ll also point out that conversation or confidence skills have a huge variation on my dating. On days where I’m exhausted, my pickup rate can be 10% vs days when I’m in full swing where the rate is closer to 100%.
I don’t think things have changed in corporate life but with that said I haven’t really gone to any networking events due to Covid.
Thanks, this is really helpful.
It seems like for whatever reason, I always run into girls my height or a bit taller (5'6+). So for that reason, this surgery could drastically change my mindset around these woman. Don't worry, I'm not blind to the fact height isn't the biggest factor in dating these woman but for many women, being taller in heels puts their minds at ease.
So far, would you say this surgery has been life changing for you? To bear through all the pain and post-pain, it's worth it for to be at your new height? (all factors considered, not just dating/women)
