the disagreement from patient about CLL

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Hi, is anybody facing the problem when discussing the CLL with parents or other relatives? Do you have any idea to convince parents of this surgery? I am facing this problem since, in my country, due to lack of regulation and supervision, in the earlier years, many patients accepted surgeries under quacks, leading irreversible damage to the body, and now the CLL is forbidden. The doctor would only do the LL for patients with limb discrepancies or other disables. So even I consult orthopedics doctors with my mom (she is a doctor as well), they are extremely conservative, the complication is the most concern, they always talk about the risk of infection and other vessel or nerve damage, then underestimate the necessity of this kind of cosmetic surgery for a normal people. I feel really headache about that since even I said I will do the surgery with Dr. P or donghoon who are excellent in this field, they just ignore it!!. So, it is hard to explain the expertise about Dr. dong hoon or Dr. Paley if they just disregard the importance of height and focus on the risk itself.   
PS. without support from them, I could not afford the surgery in a few years, cuz my career would start nearly the late 20s, besides I do not want to break the relationship with them, because of this thing.

If you have any idea or facing the same problem, talk about it here.

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no， I come from China

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Hey, thanks~

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Hey, I am 25 years old now, and I am still studying...  and might get my job when I am 28. So, it would be a little bit late for me to do the surgery if I collect money from 28

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So am I