The LL dilemma

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The problem with LL surgery is that it is most beneficial to do it in your 20s since most likely you will be single and will have many more years of your life remaining(hopefully). Most people aren't mature or do not have money to do LL during this period. Later on, you will have money but the time would have passed and you would already  be married. Also, your psychological state would have been kind of set at this stage. LL will most likely be feasible now but the benefits of it will be reduced. This is the thing that I really hate and it makes me depressed. I wish the prices/timeline was not so steep. On top of that, the stigma in telling your spouse, hiding the procedure from public, the flak that you get from undergoing the procedure is insane..

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Quote from: user9999999 on June 06, 2022, 02:00:42 AMIt sucks, but at least we have it

Just having it is not enough, right? Majority of people will not be able to undergo the procedure for this reason who are otherwise excellent candidates. Even on this forum, only 10 percent may take the plunge. Even if the surgery is successful, for some people, it could affect their careers/relationships