Thats just an excuse. Its predatorial. They are taking advantage of something. So it is their fault. Because they can choose not to do that..and they dont.
That doesnt work in Canada. Canada is notorious for height shaming. You have to have the full package in Canada to succeed or u wont.
The kind of discrimination that comes with height is in the subconscious mind. People will treat you inferior even without themselves realizing it. They feel like they have an edge and are far superior despite that being utterly false. That's where they don't think or realize or like to accept because its all in the subconscious. i'l agree it is definitely the worst kind of discrimination because their is no respite for it.
Quote from: Sanity on February 09, 2019, 09:50:31 PMThe kind of discrimination that comes with height is in the subconscious mind. People will treat you inferior even without themselves realizing it. They feel like they have an edge and are far superior despite that being utterly false. That's where they don't think or realize or like to accept because its all in the subconscious. i'l agree it is definitely the worst kind of discrimination because their is no respite for it.
very true
Quote from: 7231 on February 10, 2019, 11:11:31 PMvery true
It definitly is the worse kind of discrimination. But Im not sure if I agree that people dont know thei are discriminating against short people. I think that a lot of people DO know they are discriminating against short people but just pretend that they dont. But as a short dude. it gets very sad. Just looking back seeing how much of my life has negatively impact my life and the way that people treat me. it just seems that people lose their patience with me quicker. and when I do wear lifts I do get an advantage. But not such advantage that is so life changing. Maybe I will get that if I wear a higher shoe lift. But yea height discrimination is depressing.
I understand. I definitely think shoe lifts are great way to ease the discomfort in certain social situations. Either way, try not to allow height situations to predetermine outcomes. You can live an incredibly fulfilling life; meaning a life just as great as a tall man; so long that you give yourself a chance to.
i honestly cant live a fulfill life. Thats why i am so sad. I am in Canada. And people are very judgemental. They judge you on your looks. Like they judge everyone. I have had job opportunities, promotions I have been passed down. Turned down by many women. And had friends abandon me because of my height. But I didnt know it at the time. I dont know about anyone else. But my life is pretty sad.
@shortguy4cll - How old are you? What do you do for a living? Tell us a bit more about you. I understand that your height is something that is making you feel down and depressed. Being short and male has its challenges.
Quote from: shortguy4cll on February 07, 2019, 05:54:25 AMNope. The world is shallow. I dont want someone to look beyond height. But to accept me as a short person. But its not going to happen becsuse the world is very mean.
How naive.
It has more than its challenges. Its literally oppressive. It has ruined my life and negatively impacts EVERYTHING. it has completely messed up my life that I am ashamed to tell people on here on how badly i am doing in life. It is the worst form of discrimination that EVERYONE participates in, ignores, dismisses it and EVERYONE pretends height and appearance only matters in dating when it the FOUNDATION of how we will be treated in life.
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