VERY FERST STEP - INDIA - Dr. Anil Raheja

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I'll move to forti this Tuesday.. I'll start  bone marrow injection...

Mom keep crying every time she call me .. she didn't seem believe that I'm fine no matter how many times I explained for her that everything is alright  and all what I need is some time... but she didn't believe that too.. well that's why from the beging I kept all the things away from her..
but god.. it's really hits me every time she called and start crying .. she is very old , almost 60 yrs.. that's why I don't expect that she'll understand why I did LL
but at this moment all what I want is ,if she can forget about me, not for anything.. jut I don't want to cuz the pain for her anymore..

DON'T TELL YOUR MOM (specially if she was old) ABOUT LL, CUZ SHE WILL KEEP WORRY ABOUT YOU ..
JUST SAFE HER FROM THIS EXTRA PAIN

 

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Quote from: Disobedient on May 03, 2014, 06:07:12 PM
I'll move to forti this Tuesday.. I'll start  bone marrow injection...

Mom keep crying every time she call me .. she didn't seem believe that I'm fine no matter how many times I explained for her that everything is alright  and all what I need is some time... but she didn't believe that too.. well that's why from the beging I kept all the things away from her..
but god.. it's really hits me every time she called and start crying .. she is very old , almost 60 yrs.. that's why I don't expect that she'll understand why I did LL
but at this moment all what I want is ,if she can forget about me, not for anything.. jut I don't want to cuz the pain for her anymore..

DON'T TELL YOUR MOM (specially if she was old) ABOUT LL, CUZ SHE WILL KEEP WORRY ABOUT YOU ..
JUST SAFE HER FROM THIS EXTRA PAIN

 

i feel for you Diso, iv'e been there, but hidding LL from your parents specially if they are close to you is very hard, thereare so many questions left hanging, the best you could do is what I did, just adding to your regular talks with her send her pictures of you in nice places if possible or with other people, etc.. i understand maybe this is not possible for you, but you could try))
at the beginning my mom was suffering but after she saw all my picts, well PG pictures)) she understood that I was fine and she was ok after this. I know how terrible your situation is, trust me it broke my heart everytime I knew my mom was suferering because of me, i felt so selfish... all you can do is just try to brainwash your mom into thinking that you are fine.

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It must be very hard, now thats it's done you have no choice anyway, just show her that you are safe and tell her that you come soon. But yeah in this case trying to hide it was the only solution. Get back to your old life and maybe try to do something she likes when you see her. Best of luck.

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Quote from: Disobedient on May 03, 2014, 06:07:12 PM
I'll move to forti this Tuesday.. I'll start  bone marrow injection...

Mom keep crying every time she call me .. she didn't seem believe that I'm fine no matter how many times I explained for her that everything is alright  and all what I need is some time... but she didn't believe that too.. well that's why from the beging I kept all the things away from her..
but god.. it's really hits me every time she called and start crying .. she is very old , almost 60 yrs.. that's why I don't expect that she'll understand why I did LL
but at this moment all what I want is ,if she can forget about me, not for anything.. jut I don't want to cuz the pain for her anymore..

DON'T TELL YOUR MOM (specially if she was old) ABOUT LL, CUZ SHE WILL KEEP WORRY ABOUT YOU ..
JUST SAFE HER FROM THIS EXTRA PAIN

 

Yeah I'm not going to worry my friends and family about this.  It's not worth it unless you need their help maybe.  There's probably only 1 or 2 friends I can tell about this.

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RGkey

yes you're clever ..taking pictures sound as a brilliant Idea..  definitely I'll try to do that when I'll move to forti.. maybe I'll picture the food, since mom believes that everything would alright if I eat hehe

thanks RGKEY .. Really thanks your tip for sure will work and will make things better.. 

TheRisingShorty

If you have no other choice  but to tell her ..  then you have to be mentally prepare.. cuz as RGKEY said you'll feel for sometime that you're selfish
But I wonder really if staying at home while lengthening will make things better.. I mean if u stay at home then she'll be observing the amount of pain that you have and you can't lie about it.. but also it may sound good idea since she may feel much comfy that at least you're in home and she can take care of you.. of course staying at home while lengthening wont be good option unless you did the surgery in your city..


Claude

Yup..I'll try to do that..
hey claude I'm still full member.. changing to prof pic didn't help


Blackhawk

The only one I told about LL is my big sis, and she told everyone..
be aware whom you'll tell..

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Quote from: Disobedient on May 04, 2014, 04:58:53 PMClaude

Yup..I'll try to do that..
hey claude I'm till full member.. changing to prof pic didn't help

Ok im done with this site i can't stand the injustice : your pic is the essence of the word "professional"  , I mean if i saw this pic on a resume i would think : "damn i need to let this person manage the nuclear power plant im working in". See you next year when you get promoted -) and ready to walk and get your 100$.

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Your threat of leaving the forum worked.. I'm now sr. member 

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Quote from: Disobedient on May 04, 2014, 05:27:35 PM
Your threat of leaving the forum worked.. I'm now sr. member 

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I think I deserve a member status upgrade too.

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Quote from: BullSurfer on May 04, 2014, 06:02:43 PMI think I deserve a member status upgrade too.

Sorry bro you don't have a memol...memo, nemo ? whatever is the name of this "thing". Sr member is for VIP's only. Maybe you can try wearing a mask and posting some videos of you doing somekind of martial art ?