I know this is a little irrelevant to my LL experience but in a way it has to do with my life post LL lol
So im feeling like s**t today!!! all sentimental and s**t!!!!!! f**k!!! so for the last 2 weeks i have been with 3 girls and I feel like s**t!! i miss my ex girlfriend so f**king much!! i think been with other girls without a real connection make things worse for me, i thought i would feel better, well i did while i was doing it but afterwards it was terrible, because it was nothing compared to what I had with my ex!! our relationship was so amazing such a strong connection, just great!! So i feel like crying today!! im heart broken, tomorrow will be another day a and a better one I hope. My legs still stiff and the mornings aare rough when standing up. I dont even have real desire to talk to any girl at all, but then again I think im just letting my self down because it is easier, next week i will make a big effort to keep my mind busy. Sometimes i dont know what is worst, having no girls at all or having girl problem such mine, heart broken and s**t,,, well i have been in both sides and i just dont know. when i have no girls, then at nights i would just masturbate and think about my ex and feel like a completely loser!! but then having meaningless sex is awful afterwards cuz you feel like u will never find such amazing connection as you did with that girl!! so both are bad! on the positive side, im glad that i have such problem and it could be a lot worst
9 centimeters on tibias with Dr. Barinov, Volgograd-Russia
Hey bro I understand how you feel, Even though height might be a problem of the past, we still just like everyone else have to deal with these more common problems like girls and relationships..
I dont know why your relationship with that girl didnt last, but seeing other girls even if it isnt for sex would be a good idea, maybe try to meet new people and make new friends, do activities etc, stuff unrelated to the relationship to keep you busy.
I have a problem too that i cant stop thinking about a certain girl (though in my case its not love or deep connection, more like it doesnt feel finished)..but im sure it will be way easier to deal with this when i can start living like normal again, even if i never see her again.
Basically this girl i met about 2 years ago, she met me when i wasnt even close to my potential, and of course she saw me as a friend because i wasnt good enough back then for anything more. I broke contact with her eventually because she was quite disrespectful at times, she tried very hard to get me back, trying to adulate/flatter me alot but i kept my distance because i didnt want her to see me until i was taller (and of course with the height problem gone i would have started to dress better and work out to get a better body)
Now it has been so long and she has stopped contacting me, and i think im to proud to get in touch with her because she might try to act "Hard to get" now as som sort of payback. But i want her to at least see me in person once again so she will notice that im not short without knowing how it happened. If leg lengthening didnt take such an awful long time i would have been able to finish this experience with her already.
I just have to hope i run into her some day..
Quote from: Wannabegiant on September 08, 2014, 03:07:30 AMHey bro I understand how you feel, Even though height might be a problem of the past, we still just like everyone else have to deal with these more common problems like girls and relationships..
I dont know why your relationship with that girl didnt last, but seeing other girls even if it isnt for sex would be a good idea, maybe try to meet new people and make new friends, do activities etc, stuff unrelated to the relationship s**t to keep you busy.
I have a problem too that i cant stop thinking about a certain girl (though in my case its not love or deep connection, more like it doesnt feel finished)..but im sure it will be way easier to deal with this when i can start living like normal again, even if i never see her again.
Basically this girl i met about 2 years ago, she met me when i wasnt even close to my potential, and of course she saw me as a friend because i wasnt good enough back then for anything more. I broke contact with her eventually because she was quite disrespectful at times, she tried very hard to get me back, trying to adulate/flatter me alot but i kept my distance because i didnt want her to see me until i was taller (and of course with the height problem gone i would have started to dress better and work out to get a better body)
Now it has been so long and she has stopped contacting me, and i think im to proud to get in touch with her because she might try to act "Hard to get" now as som sort of payback. But i want her to at least see me in person once again so she will notice that im not short without knowing how it happened. If leg lengthening didnt take such an awful long time i would have been able to finish this experience with her already.
I just have to hope i run into her some day..
yes you will man, she probably feels similar to you, and im sure that the fact that you are avoiding her is killing her!! she prob wats you even more!!! so if you see her again and she is still single she will be all over you!!! and ull be taller nicer and more secure about ur self, win win situation. Just dont let ur self been stock with only this girl as im trying to do the same. so thank you man for your words!)) I appreciate them! u r right i need to do that. and my relationship finished because of the whole long distance situation, since she was in Russia and even if we marry she still needed another year to finish university do it was too much!((( anyway the past is the past
Quote from: RGKEY on September 08, 2014, 03:19:39 AMyes you will man, she probably feels similar to you, and im sure that the fact that you are avoiding her is killing her!! she prob wats you even more!!! so if you see her again and she is still single she will be all over you!!! and ull be taller nicer and more secure about ur self, win win situation. Just dont let ur self been stock with only this girl as im trying to do the same. so thank you man for your words!)) I appreciate them! u r right i need to do that. and my relationship finished because of the whole long distance situation, since she was in Russia and even if we marry she still needed another year to finish university do it was too much!((( anyway the past is the past
Yeah it is possible 
, im sure she still thinks about me from time to time, but unlike me she is able to move on since she is free to do whatever she wants, like traveling and stuff. Right now she is abroad with her friends enjoying life..She also has so many friends and im sure many dudes are hitting on her :p
First impressions are hard to change when it comes to girls..even though i would have changed a whole lot physically, it doesnt change the fact that she friendzoned me when we first met and as we all know its hard to get out of that.
One important thing though is that she has really bad eye sight (she said so herself) and i only had one quite bad photo of me on facebook when we first met, and we only met in person about 5 or 6 times, while mostly talking a lot on the phone and stuff. So i dont think she even properly knew how my face looked back then to be honest xD my skin is more healthy now too (i had some pimples in bad spots back then too)
After i stopped seeing her i added some way better photos to my facebook and i know im easily on her level in terms of facial aesthetics. She started to adulate me around this time, complimenting my looks and stuff (saying i had seductive eyes and stuff) but despite of that im almost sure she still only wanted me as a close friend lol..since she still has the image of me as shorter than average and skinny xp...
Although, im sure even if she found me very attractive when she saw the new me, she would be to scared to try to flirt with me since she is afraid i would reject her as payback, and i think i would be to proud to show interest in her again after i already got rejected...
Okey man i understand why that would have been difficult with the long distance thing.. you seem to love russian girls (i agree they seem awesome, great looks and personality) maybe you should consider moving there? (although its cold)
Anyway im sure you will get over it, you dont seem to have any problem attracting girls my friend, you will find someone even better, and i think it will happen when you are not even looking for it!
Quote from: Wannabegiant on September 08, 2014, 04:13:07 AMYeah it is possible , im sure she still thinks about me from time to time, but unlike me she is able to move on since she is free to do whatever she wants, like traveling and stuff. Right now she is abroad with her friends enjoying life..She also has so many friends and im sure many dudes are hitting on her :p
First impressions are hard to change when it comes to girls..even though i would have changed a whole lot physically, it doesnt change the fact that she friendzoned me when we first met and as we all know its hard to get out of that.
One important thing though is that she has really bad eye sight (she said so herself) and i only had one quite bad photo of me on facebook when we first met, and we only met in person about 5 or 6 times, while mostly talking a lot on the phone and stuff. So i dont think she even properly knew how my face looked back then to be honest xD my skin is more healthy now too (i had some pimples in bad spots back then too)
After i stopped seeing her i added some way better photos to my facebook and i know im easily on her level in terms of facial aesthetics. She started to adulate me around this time, complimenting my looks and stuff (saying i had seductive eyes and stuff) but despite of that im almost sure she still only wanted me as a close friend lol..since she still has the image of me as shorter than average and skinny xp...
Although, im sure even if she found me very attractive when she saw the new me, she would be to scared to try to flirt with me since she is afraid i would reject her as payback, and i think i would be to proud to show interest in her again after i already got rejected...
Okey man i understand why that would have been difficult with the long distance thing.. you seem to love russian girls (i agree they seem awesome, great looks and personality) maybe you should consider moving there? (although its cold)
Anyway im sure you will get over it, you dont seem to have any problem attracting girls my friend, you will find someone even better, and i think it will happen when you are not even looking for it!
Dont fantasize about scenarios like that for all you know she might not even remember you and has been banged my multiple guys already and is living life to the fullest and then you at a measly 5'10 is not gonna wow her unless you got a body to match what you want to achieve.
Or she might be mad into you we dont know but stop worrying about these stuff you are already past the hard part now is the time to relax back and just enjoy the ride.
Quote from: Slim_tim on September 08, 2014, 04:20:37 AMDont fantasize about scenarios like that for all you know she might not even remember you and has been banged my multiple guys already and is living life to the fullest and then you at a measly 5'10 is not gonna wow her unless you got a body to match what you want to achieve.
Or she might be mad into you we dont know but stop worrying about these stuff you are already past the hard part now is the time to relax back and just enjoy the ride.
Yeah i know there is no way to know for sure, all i know is that she tried really really hard, suk up to me to get me back for the duration of over 6 months, i responded of course but i was quite cold and distant. Then i said something which im sure was a bit hurtful to her, and then she stopped contacting me, although she did *like* some photos i put up on fb even after that..
I can almost guarantee she is still thinking about me, although it could easily be negative thoughts since i technically ditched her, although she knew she had it coming after how she behaved at times.
And yeah i think probably she has had some other dudes during this time since it is so easy for girls, but i know she is single and she isnt that type of girl who sleeps around a lot (she doesnt even drink at all at parties/clubs).
without sounding to much like a douche I can say for sure that im very different from most guys out there though (im adopted and my ethnicity is very rare in Sweden), i have a very masculine face, a very dark voice and i would say my features are very good and very unique. She can definitely find conventionally better looking dudes but they would all be very different from me, she will have a very hard time finding something similar at least.
But like i said, the only reason im thinking about her so much is because i couldnt finish it because of LL taking so long, and because im unable to pursue other girls in my current condition, much will be different when i get out of these frames.
Quote from: Wannabegiant on September 08, 2014, 04:34:23 AMYeah i know there is no way to know for sure, all i know is that she tried really really hard, suk up to me to get me back for the duration of over 6 months, i responded of course but i was quite cold and distant. Then i said something which im sure was a bit hurtful to her, and then she stopped contacting me, although she did *like* some photos i put up on fb even after that..
I can almost guarantee she is still thinking about me, although it could easily be negative thoughts since i technically ditched her, although she knew she had it coming after how she behaved at times.
And yeah i think probably she has had some other dudes during this time since it is so easy for girls, but i know she is single and she isnt that type of girl who sleeps around a lot (she doesnt even drink at all at parties/clubs).
without sounding to much like a douche I can say for sure that im very different from most guys out there though (im adopted and my ethnicity is very rare in Sweden), i have a very masculine face, a very dark voice and i would say my features are very good and very unique. She can definitely find conventionally better looking dudes but they would all be very different from me, she will have a very hard time finding something similar at least.
But like i said, the only reason im thinking about her so much is because i couldnt finish it because of LL taking so long, and because im unable to pursue other girls in my current condition, much will be different when i get out of these frames.
well atleast you are not me attracting more guys then girls. Androgynous face fml. Would love that masculine jaw xD
Quote from: Slim_tim on September 08, 2014, 04:40:38 AMwell atleast you are not me attracting more guys then girls. Androgynous face fml. Would love that masculine jaw xD
Well if you become tall through LL and bulk up, that is enough to be considered manly to most girls even if your face isnt that masculine, some girls prefer guys with more balanced features too, Justin Bieber almost looks like a girl and he is still considered super hot by millions (lol i dont care if he is famous he cant even sing any good)
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For wat i read on one of your posts, it seems to me that you werent taking control of the situation with that girl, even if she was very atracted to you and even willing to date you, most girls wont take any steps, you have to lead them into it. Very rarely girls will come up front and do the seducing job for you, they will go as far as "oh you are nice" "you are cute, attractive" and that is it my friend, if a girl tells you that then you are in a safe position, all you need to do is just to escalate things physically and verbally so you dont get stuck in friend zone. Girls have to much pressure to be judge or to be seem as easy girls, girls hate that and for that reason would never reconized s**t verbally and might even reject you verbally even when her actions indicate so much interest on you. So as long as she gives you compliance then you are good. Yeah I'm also sure I will find the a nice one for me when the time is right. I invested a lot on leaning about girls and their screwed up minds hahaha, but it was all worthy
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