I sent this email to an LLer and I thought I'll drop it here so some of you can share your experiences:
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I want to ask some personal questions I wish you can answer. At my current height 167-168 I have a hard time attracting girls. I can have a sxxy/funny/sophisticated attitude and they consider me, but it just doesnt meet the threshold most the time. Maybe I'm not patient and have higher expectations of how I should be treated. To clarify I've had some beautiful ex's, but stature/manliness/confidence has caused problems.
Did you feel the same way about attracting girls with a short stature? And now do you see a difference with the way girls interact? Do they make themselves more open and girly for you whereas they wouldnt have before? Do you get interactions and reactions now that would rarely happen before?
Also did you become more antisocial as you were ageing, and did ll fix it? For me all my childhood friends are much taller than me and when I see them I cant connect as much as I use to, and tbh with a short stature and low expressiveness it's been hard for me to make friends and stay in touch with people I like. It's actually quite hard to be expressive with people nowadays apart from with a few close people, because of the lack of confidence I'm more factual/short responses/little enthusiasm/charisma/energy compared to before. I was the most outgoing kid from all my friends until mid high school.
Which parts of this do you resonate with and has LL helped fix these constrictions?
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Thanks
Tengo
@movie I also had a I dont give a f confidence when I was 23 but with a few rejections periodically until now, its no more about hitting the gym and a good career.
@6cmfemurs I'm not scheming for hit and run, I just dont want to be low in the food chain even though I have so much going for me. Its basically to have more options to find the right one, and as a bargaining chip to not be at the mercy of one woman. If a woman knows you have little options her monkey brain will value you less.
@allinstryde they dont judge me I know but its a mix of things that makes me less than they are and this has happened over the years. Maybe its due to how I treat myself and behave but external factors such as getting treated differently is a clear indicator. I'm happy that you feel more confident
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