Anyone else find ridiculous the comparison between fat girls and short guys?

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Posted on Nov 27, 2021, 9:06 am

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I read it every now and then.. that short guys are equivalent to women in terms of physical attraction.

I don't think this makes any sense, a short guy can create a huge sexual attraction as long as he is slightly taller than the girl if he is in a good shape and is decent looking. Whereas a fat woman is a clear sign of unhealthiness.. Needless to say that losing fat is not

I know that women have crazy height standards nowadays especially in dating app, but if you really dig into it, they are only looking for someone taller (not saying that height is not a big plus). The common 6' mark is only used to filter out shorter men than them especially that men tend to exaggerate their height by 1-2 inches.

Would like to know your opinion on the subject

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Posted on Nov 27, 2021, 3:46 pm

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How tall a guy would be short guy?

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Posted on Nov 27, 2021, 7:01 pm

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There's a certain initial reaction of repulsion that they both get, so I think it is a valid equivocation to some extent.

A short man in a short community won't get much of a negative reaction due to his stature. And some men like fat women. And in every case it's a matter of degree and individual preference, plus the amount of alternatives available.

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Posted on Nov 28, 2021, 6:00 am

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I used to compare short guys to patients suffering from Parkinson's Syndrome, Leukemia, AIDS, and cancers and I found out that any kind of comparison can't make any sense cuz you are just fantasizing the situations instead of experiencing them irl.

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Posted on Nov 28, 2021, 12:21 pm

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Quote from: desensitize on November 28, 2021, 06:00:25 AMI used to compare short guys to patients suffering from Parkinson's Syndrome, Leukemia, AIDS, and cancers and I found out that any kind of comparison can't make any sense cuz you are just fantasizing the situations instead of experiencing them irl.

Men..what? Ahahah

You have to reconsider that because its really an unhealthy perspective.
A short guy it's a guy with a - like a person with a bad nose .
Only difference is that one it's easy to fix and the other not and therefore we see one flaw heavier then the other .
If we could grow with a pill ,all other aspect would be enhanced more therefore good looks will have the best over height since it would be an easily achievable thing .
It's always about how exclusive a thing is but in terms of "flaws" , height it's just a bad one ofc , but as bad as a bad nose , a genetic flat ass or small shoulders or u name it .
Some features ,especially on the bone structure, impact your overall aesthetic a lot but as I said , according to me , Height is no more or less then this features it's just that its perceived impossible to obtain therefore it becomes exclusive.
But we are here with the will to achieve the "impossible" so keep your head high and don't compare yourself to those things .

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Posted on Nov 28, 2021, 1:03 pm

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Quote from: Masteryourlife on November 28, 2021, 12:21:36 PMMen..what? Ahahah

You have to reconsider that because its really an unhealthy perspective.
A short guy it's a guy with a - like a person with a bad nose .
Only difference is that one it's easy to fix and the other not and therefore we see one flaw heavier then the other .
If we could grow with a pill ,all other aspect would be enhanced more therefore good looks will have the best over height since it would be an easily achievable thing .
It's always about how exclusive a thing is but in terms of "flaws" , height it's just a bad one ofc , but as bad as a bad nose , a genetic flat ass or small shoulders or u name it .
Some features ,especially on the bone structure, impact your overall aesthetic a lot but as I said , according to me , Height is no more or less then this features it's just that its perceived impossible to obtain therefore it becomes exclusive.
But we are here with the will to achieve the "impossible" so keep your head high and don't compare yourself to those things .

Yeah and actually I have learned all you said on my own and I found myself then really absurd to hold such opinion. But in my country short men are being slurred as 'disabled' and that's why I would rather choose those diseases than being short. I dunno if you heard of toxic cultures about height in China but Chinese GenZ here are really toxic and they are thinking GenZ are taller than Chinese born in 90's by 10cm+ on average and there is 'very few' Genz under 180cm and 185cm is still a short height. I think I've mentioned that in my last post about my cousin and you have read that. I dunno how this kind of toxic thoughts took shape but I'm being tormented by these bs.
Short in other countries maybe just except South Korea is just a bad feat in dating and several special occupations demanding heights but in China short men are not deserving lives and on Internet you'll be sworn to kill yourself and I'm not making jokes..that's a matter of fact..

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Quote from: Masteryourlife on November 28, 2021, 12:21:36 PMMen..what? Ahahah

You have to reconsider that because its really an unhealthy perspective.
A short guy it's a guy with a - like a person with a bad nose .
Only difference is that one it's easy to fix and the other not and therefore we see one flaw heavier then the other .
If we could grow with a pill ,all other aspect would be enhanced more therefore good looks will have the best over height since it would be an easily achievable thing .
It's always about how exclusive a thing is but in terms of "flaws" , height it's just a bad one ofc , but as bad as a bad nose , a genetic flat ass or small shoulders or u name it .
Some features ,especially on the bone structure, impact your overall aesthetic a lot but as I said , according to me , Height is no more or less then this features it's just that its perceived impossible to obtain therefore it becomes exclusive.
But we are here with the will to achieve the "impossible" so keep your head high and don't compare yourself to those things .

Yeah and actually I have learned all you said on my own and I found myself then really absurd to hold such opinion. But in my country short men are being slurred as 'disabled' and that's why I would rather choose those diseases than being short. I dunno if you heard of toxic cultures about height in China but Chinese GenZ here are really toxic and they are thinking GenZ are taller than Chinese born in 90's by 10cm+ on average and there is 'very few' Genz under 180cm and 185cm is still a short height. I think I've mentioned that in my last post about my cousin and you have read that. I dunno how this kind of toxic thoughts took shape but I'm being tormented by these bs.
Short in other countries maybe just except South Korea is just a bad feat in dating and several special occupations demanding heights but in China short men are not deserving lives and on Internet you'll be sworn to kill yourself and I'm not making jokes..that's a matter of fact..

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Posted on Nov 28, 2021, 2:17 pm

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Quote from: MatsuO OoKi on November 28, 2021, 01:03:50 PMYeah and actually I have learned all you said on my own and I found myself then really absurd to hold such opinion. But in my country short men are being slurred as 'disabled' and that's why I would rather choose those diseases than being short. I dunno if you heard of toxic cultures about height in China but Chinese GenZ here are really toxic and they are thinking GenZ are taller than Chinese born in 90's by 10cm+ on average and there is 'very few' Genz under 180cm and 185cm is still a short height. I think I've mentioned that in my last post about my cousin and you have read that. I dunno how this kind of toxic thoughts took shape but I'm being tormented by these bs.
Short in other countries maybe just except South Korea is just a bad feat in dating and several special occupations demanding heights but in China short men are not deserving lives and on Internet you'll be sworn to kill yourself and I'm not making jokes..that's a matter of fact..

Yes I read and answeared but the 180/85 avarage story is a non-sense .
Ppl at 5"9 claim often 5'11 so that stupid myth apart , where I live all chinese are around 5'5 and 5'7 and they all are really rich and confident .
Apart from my average height , I am a model and I travelled a lot ( this "job" helped me to develop the dysphoria as well due to the heights I ve been surrounded) for photoshoots and one time for a runway too In Italy ,therefore I see when someone is confident or not and I see how ppl treat me based on my look and Chinese ppl are the one that literally could not care less .
All this to say that when ppl open their mouth they become toxic but often times they don't even meet their own standards and we already talked about how ppl claim a thing and even if u tell them "dude usare not 6ft but at most 5'10 cause we are almost equal and I am 5'9" (for example) they still claim 6 and they just bully eventually others .

I am not here to make a therapy because I am no one to tell you what's right or what s wrong but it's an insult to yourself to treat your body and yourself with this mindset .

Raise your head high, aim at your goal , pick a great surgeon , and soon I want to see you talking about how happy you are and how this life it's worth living .

This journey it's hard but once you overcome it ,I believe that you are not only taller but a way more mature and invincible person .

I look at it like this and Although I am worried to dive into this surgery as well , if that will make my life way more bright ,then what do I need to know more ?

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Quote from: MatsuO OoKi on November 28, 2021, 01:03:50 PMYeah and actually I have learned all you said on my own and I found myself then really absurd to hold such opinion. But in my country short men are being slurred as 'disabled' and that's why I would rather choose those diseases than being short. I dunno if you heard of toxic cultures about height in China but Chinese GenZ here are really toxic and they are thinking GenZ are taller than Chinese born in 90's by 10cm+ on average and there is 'very few' Genz under 180cm and 185cm is still a short height. I think I've mentioned that in my last post about my cousin and you have read that. I dunno how this kind of toxic thoughts took shape but I'm being tormented by these bs.
Short in other countries maybe just except South Korea is just a bad feat in dating and several special occupations demanding heights but in China short men are not deserving lives and on Internet you'll be sworn to kill yourself and I'm not making jokes..that's a matter of fact..

Yes I read and answeared but the 180/85 avarage story is a non-sense .
Ppl at 5"9 claim often 5'11 so that stupid myth apart , where I live all chinese are around 5'5 and 5'7 and they all are really rich and confident .
Apart from my average height , I am a model and I travelled a lot ( this "job" helped me to develop the dysphoria as well due to the heights I ve been surrounded) for photoshoots and one time for a runway too In Italy ,therefore I see when someone is confident or not and I see how ppl treat me based on my look and Chinese ppl are the one that literally could not care less .
All this to say that when ppl open their mouth they become toxic but often times they don't even meet their own standards and we already talked about how ppl claim a thing and even if u tell them "dude usare not 6ft but at most 5'10 cause we are almost equal and I am 5'9" (for example) they still claim 6 and they just bully eventually others .

I am not here to make a therapy because I am no one to tell you what's right or what s wrong but it's an insult to yourself to treat your body and yourself with this mindset .

Raise your head high, aim at your goal , pick a great surgeon , and soon I want to see you talking about how happy you are and how this life it's worth living .

This journey it's hard but once you overcome it ,I believe that you are not only taller but a way more mature and invincible person .

I look at it like this and Although I am worried to dive into this surgery as well , if that will make my life way more bright ,then what do I need to know more ?

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Posted on Dec 4, 2021, 7:16 am

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I would more liken a short man to a tall woman.

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