I’m 5’5, 23 years old, when I was 15 I was a top athlete and got any girl I want now I struggle to get anyone, anyone on here in myposition and had improvement? I really want to feel attractive again
Being 5'5" does hurt badly.
If they don't like 5'8" version of you, then let alone 5'5" you. It's simple logic.
There are plenty of diaries with people gaining three inches from less than 5'5 and then just killing it with women.
Part of it definitely has to do with height, some women have an adversity to "shorter men", (not all, some don't mind). There's something about not wanting a partner being slightly at the same height or shorter than you that women don't like about some guys. It's like an inmate thing for some, through no fault of their own.
But ALOT of what LL ultimately does is increase confidence. Confidence is probably likely just as important and if not even more important than physical stature centimeter gains. 5'5 sucks, but there are plenty of guys at that height that fare very well in life and have very good relationships. It's controversial for me to say, but lack of confidence is the main reason for many short guys' trouble and not actual short stature, barring dwarves. I firmly believe this, and I too once blamed my physical height for all my troubles. But honestly it's definitely very hard to see the difference between the two sometimes.
Not to say heightism doesn't exist, it certainly does, but many dudes really lack the confidence in themselves to live life as a short guy. Myself included. There is fundamentally no reason why a 5'4 guy should live subparly and pity themselves and be depressed. Heightism exists, but it's way more of a confidence problem imo than truly heightism like the guys here make it to be.
LL can definitely give you that confidence if you've exhausted all other options, I've seen plenty of diaries reiterating the same words I've said, so the knowledge above isn't my own words, it's other members
I seriously feel bad for you guys. Women has never been such a problem for me. I don't understand, if you are doing it for women, you are an incel unfortunately. I'll be doing it for myself. My own aesthetic. I want to be in love with the guy when I see at the mirror.
Best Regards, sorry for the truth
I feel as though when you hit about 5’7 height neurosis goes away and so do a lot of height related girl problems
Quote from: A on August 04, 2020, 10:14:44 AMI seriously feel bad for you guys. Women has never been such a problem for me. I don't understand, if you are doing it for women, you are an incel unfortunately. I'll be doing it for myself. My own aesthetic. I want to be in love with the guy when I see at the mirror.
Best Regards, sorry for the truth
I see what you're saying, and I absolutely I agree with you in many ways but you could've definitely said it in a much less degrading way.
Quote from: ghkid2019 on August 04, 2020, 05:26:42 PMI see what you're saying, and I absolutely I agree with you in many ways but you could've definitely said it in a much less degrading way.
You are right, I'm sorry. I just don't understand it, but everyone has their own thoughts and emotions which are completely different than the others. So even though it doesn't make sense for me, you have the rights to think like that and take action regarding to that. I'm sorry again. Just, if anyone is doing this procedure, keep in mind that you are doing it to be stronger (mentally) and to love yourself way better. When you look at the mirror, you'll smile. When you are buying new clothes, you'll see it now looks well and fits your body. Women and the other stuff are completely useless IMO.
Everyone, please just do it for yourself. Do it to kill your neurosis. Do it in order to feel confident about the guy you see when you look in the mirror.
edit: If you are short or average and lacking confidence just because of this (like me),
there is almost NOTHING in this world which could cover this up except being a millionare like Dan Bilzerian.
That guy is literally one of the richest persons in the world and i'm pretty sure he doesn't give a fk about his height, because he can do whatever he wants and he can get any girl he wants, etc.
Nobody just do it for himself, if somebody feels to be short is just because there are people taller.
There are tons of benefit being taller and who does this surgery has MANY reasons to go into it.
For girls is surely better just because most of girls doesn't want a guy shorter than them (this is a simple and known fact) so you'll have an higher number of girls to meet.
I'm actually doing it for myself. To look better for my standarts etc. Everyone likes my appereance already lol. Nobody called me short or anything.
I just want to love myself. I hate my height too much that It makes me unable to love myself.
edit: and you know what, if you can't yourself, there's literally below 0 reasons for you to live. So, I either suicide or have to love myself. The only situation i'd love myself is when i look at the mirror and I feel that I look tall.
Yes. Women like tall men. Stay tuned for more breaking news at 11:00. 
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