Hello everyone
My name is Ajmi , 30 years old from Kuwait and my height is 1.63Cm , 5.3 in Feet ... and this is my story and request to you all...
I am a lawyer at the age of 22 i won my first case was so young not thinking of anything but money and success in my career my height caused my some Impressment from time to time, But Hey! i didn't turn an eye to it... till now...
"society requirements" everyone of us know this requirements and most of us know it's sometimes or most of the time stupid requirements, so did these the requirements do to me? .... a lot! it almost break me down, So am 30 years old that having hard time finding a partner i just can't even approach women in bars/clubs/stores...you name it without being rejected before i EVEN speak...
like 9 months ago i went to a high school here in Kuwait to do a lecture about Human law, when the students were beside me they were every tall compared to the "Lawyer" so when ever i was talking i see them with me the students in the stage giggling looking down to me... so the crowd understood it and start laughing awkwardly, At that very moment i kept saying to myself "If i break down now i will be memorized as the insecured short guy" so i tried so hard to keep my speech going to realized that now... am just hiding the issue but from myself this time...
I recently got fired from job at the law firm.... guess what is this related to?
Yes. my height
So i was in a competition with other guy for this promotion who was 2m height or so... i had way better CV and everything better than him, except for my appearance that had a role in choosing him..So i cam to our CEO asking him for a clearing for what just happened, He said " Ajmi we need the appearance in this job as a presentation of success", like i wasn't successful enough!
so i "trashed talked him out of rage" that resulted me getting fired "for good" from the firm.
So now am lonely jobless man without even a girl friend... this making me go crazy... so Either fix this or i really choose to die... i do not want to countue this life with such pain...
Now am choosing Limb-Lengthening to love this life again so i decided with the help of my mother that supported me in this decision "maybe just to keep me around"
I really need to know from your experience as a patient first and as a researcher in...
- Good doctor?
-budget friendly clinic "am jobless still"?
-good surgery technique that will help me gain 10 cm?
What do i have?
- I have time
- I have almost 20k USD
- nothing to lose
One other thing I have been around in here reading and i see these kind of "Promoting Doctors Members" as if they are "paid" to do so... Please have some decency and don't risk my health or my legs to give few more bucks... i have been though a lot.
I want to thank you guys in advanced for the help maybe the sympathy for me ... But trust me the only thing i need is your help.
Thank you all
Between Limb Lengthening Surgery and Suicide
Which height is average over there? Becuase you May need two surgeries, And that is a hell of money. Talking about suicide, think It very well, becuase there is no return, if you think you Will be Happy with this surgery, do It. I wont tell you what to do, if you dont like your Life even after surgery suicide is a free thing. Women are mostly superficial, so dont let you that that thing affects you, there are exceptions always remember. Good Luck buddy.
Quote from: onemorefoot on October 25, 2017, 07:43:14 PMWhich height is average over there? Becuase you May need two surgeries, And that is a hell of money. Talking about suicide, think It very well, becuase there is no return, if you think you Will be Happy with this surgery, do It. I wont tell you what to do, if you dont like your Life even after surgery suicide is a free thing. Women are mostly superficial, so dont let you that that thing affects you, there are exceptions always remember. Good Luck buddy.
First of all thanks for your wishes of luck.. i do need it
In my country the height average is 180 cm 5.9 feet, am trying to make something here by going though the surgery to get myself back to society standers "a lot of people would maybe thing it's stupid, but thats the world we live in" and i think it will make me happy person
what do you mean by two surgeries?
I think that no matter where you live, as long as you are close to 170+ then you will be considered "normal". You have the same starting height as me and im aiming for 170cm despite living in one of the tallest countries in the world.
go to Dr. Pilli in Italy or Dr. Parihar in India
Both very good ll surgeons that fit your budget for external tibias ll (14k for Parihar, 22k for Pilli)
if you want to do femurs via intramedullary rod, you will have to save up aroun 50k to have surgery with these surgeons
Quote from: Alajmi on October 25, 2017, 08:02:06 PMFirst of all thanks for your wishes of luck.. i do need it
In my country the height average is 180 cm 5.9 feet, am trying to make something here by going though the surgery to get myself back to society standers "a lot of people would maybe thing it's stupid, but thats the world we live in" and i think it will make me happy person
what do you mean by two surgeries?
Hey Alajmi,
You are confusing heights, 1.80cm is not 5'9 and it is certainly not the average height in Kuwait. It seems like the average height is 1.70cm, which you can achieve through surgery.
Sorry to hear about your struggles. Just know that you aren't alone; look at us, this entire community is populated with people like you.
Make a mental decision that you're going to be taller. Maybe next year, maybe three years from now, who knows. But just imagine it. It might make you feel better just to think that things can get better. You'll also need to be in good mental health, as reputable doctors require a psychological evaluation before they accept you as a patient.
Start wearing some height increasing insoles or elevator shoes. Don't go too high that it's obvious, but add a few centimeters to your height now and get used to it. It also helps others gradually get used to your new height too.
With your budget, you might consider Dr. Parihar; you're only four hours away by plane. You can read more about him in this thread. Here's his official site with info about CLL (cosmetic leg lengthening), complete with pricing, timeline, and consultation details. As MirinHeight suggested, Dr. Pili is a great option as well, though you'll need to save a little more.
Note that you won't be able to gain 10cm in one procedure, and that will mean that you either need to settle for a little less (6-8cm) or have two procedures. You can still wear height increasing shoes after the procedure as well, so if 10cm is your goal, you can reach that with one procedure. You can also consider other affordable countries like Russia; we have a few diaries on Dr. Solomin and Dr. Kulesh.
I would refrain from mentioning suicidal thoughts to your chosen surgeon, otherwise they might refuse to operate on you.
Suicide is not an option. Especially for something that has a clear solution and in your case this solution is LL.
Begin with tibias as your budget let you to do so. You could become about 1.70 without much problems and most of your problems will be gone. Noone will make jokes about your height especially at your country where I doubt if average height is more than 5.8 (maybe 5.9 at max).
If you are still not ok you can't do another one femur LL (though the price is much more) and have a really respectable height (like 5.10) which is more than average in your country and completely average on west.
So there are solutions. Go for a tibia LL asap and your life will be completely different, trust me.
Don't think of suicide as an option when you got this surgery that exists. You're at a height were you could get to 170cm or above without lengthening too much. With the current money you have you could do Tibias in Russia or in India ( there maybe some other places too) or just save up for femurs which is easier to lengthen and you can lengthen more. If you're set on having 10cm then you're going to have to do two surgeries which will take a lot of time and money, or you could just settle for one surgery and still reach 170cm and then we're shoes that make you taller.
The user Android has already mentioned some doctors which you should research, but before you decide on leg lengthening you should make your self feel better mentally.
By the the way 163cm is actually 5'4" not 5'3", hope that makes you feel
Better.
And yea kilo is right, if your surgeon or or some other doctor asks you why you want this don't mention suicidal thoughts.
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