Female - worth it?

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Hi everyone!

I am a 24 year old female with height 162-163cm.

I have the past couple of years developed height neurosis, however I very sceptical about the whole journey and losing almost a year of my life to gain max 5-8cm.

Do you think this surgery is worth for me and that it will improve my life quality?

Also to the guys of this forum; is height one the important factors when you approach a girl?

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163 cm is the avg height for women in america and majority of the countries and never have i ever thought about a girl's height to be a factor

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Regarding physical appearance, guys will look at your face way before they even consider your height. Just be glad that getting plastic surgery in the face is way easier than LL.

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Okay. To answer your last question, absolutely not. Atleast not in the way you think, girls dont need height like men. You can be short, average or tall but as long as you are a pretty girl guys will want you. The same cant be said for men. This surgery will in most cases drastically improve the way you feel about yourself and the way others perceive you, theres no denying that. But you gotta really debate on if this procedure is something you can A. Actively do and finish. And B. Actually gain something from. When guys do CLL especially if they were already good looking before it typically notice a huge rise in girls giving them attention. Wether it be through tinder of irl. But again if you are already a pretty girl i dont know if the trade off would be worth it. You said you have neurosis, if you dont mind me asking where do you live? Are the girls on average in your area very tall specifically? If your in a taller country then i can see how dysmorphia definitely kicks in and at that point id say you do whats best for your life and your future.

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Quote from: BelowTheMean on June 16, 2023, 12:15:54 AMRegarding physical appearance, guys will look at your face way before they even consider your height. Just be glad that getting plastic surgery in the face is way easier than LL.

This🙏🏽. NEVER have i ever looked at a girl and thought “wow i like/dont like her height” thats just something guys dont give a 💩 about. If OP is already a very pretty girl id truly advice against this. The mental struggle of an already average height girl going through this is just something i wouldnt wish on anyone.

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Quote from: BestOfLuck on June 16, 2023, 12:19:02 AMOkay. To answer your last question, absolutely not. Atleast not in the way you think, girls dont need height like men. You can be short, average or tall but as long as you are a pretty girl guys will want you. The same cant be said for men. This surgery will in most cases drastically improve the way you feel about yourself and the way others perceive you, theres no denying that. But you gotta really debate on if this procedure is something you can A. Actively do and finish. And B. Actually gain something from. When guys do CLL especially if they were already good looking before it typically notice a huge rise in girls giving them attention. Wether it be through tinder of irl. But again if you are already a pretty girl i dont know if the trade off would be worth it. You said you have neurosis, if you dont mind me asking where do you live? Are the girls on average in your area very tall specifically? If your in a taller country then i can see how dysmorphia definitely kicks in and at that point id say you do whats best for your life and your future.

Hi and thank you for responding!

I live in scandinavia....

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Quote from: thth82 on June 16, 2023, 12:46:32 AMHi and thank you for responding!

I live in scandinavia....

Correct me if im wrong but it does seem like your about  2 inches below the average height for a women there? If thats the case i do understand how that feels. I aswell am only around 1.5 inches below average and have booked mine because in my country girls and guys tend to be a little bit taller. Depending on your living situation and other factors i would say you should do a safe 5cm. If you decide to go more then that, thats all on you. But i personally would stick to 5cm. That way there you get a nice 2 inches and you will pre much be the average height of a women worldwide. Sticking with 5cm will ensure you  (most likely) have a good recovery and can actually
Keep the majority of your athleticism and agility. Continue to do your research, sit on the thought and make the decision that you think is right. Best of luck to you, we are all here to support ya🤟🏽

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I’m curious: How can a woman develop height neurosis? You know it has 0 effect on male attraction, so why would you care?

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What's your ethnicity?  Weight?  Body type?  Do you have a pretty face?  I think the benefit you'll get from LL depends on these.

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If you really don't like your stature, and you have the money... go for it.

This is not about "average height is X", "men like A or B"... this is about how do you feel about your body.

Also, we don't know your orientation, so "men like A or B" could not be applied here.
Quote from: TheDream on June 16, 2023, 12:59:13 AMI’m curious: How can a woman develop height neurosis? You know it has 0 effect on male attraction, so why would you care?

Because our lives are much more than reproduction.

In my case, I prefer tall women. I would not discard a woman just for being short, but tall women (even 6' tall) looks great under for my point of view, if they are tall and strong, even better.