I'm recently working out my dating résumé and I wanna assure my attributes are good enough and my requirements are realisitc via this forum
Me:(After surgeries):
Height: 175cm tall barefoot at night
Weight: 67kG
Gender: Male
Want: Female
Appearance: Slightly above average
Family revenue: ＄2.5k per month in Shanghai
Personal revenue: $2k per month in Shanghai
Education: Graduate
Location: Xuhui District in Shanghai
Likes: Science, Engineering, Learning languages, Music, Sing, Reading.
Dislikes: Exercises
Personalities: Introverted Rational Emotional Humorous Sarcastic Insistent Intellgient
Requirements:
Height: Not taller than 168cm
Weight: Not heavier than 60KG
Permanent Residence:Canada or America
Belief: Capitalism and Individualism
Appearance: Not too ugly
No other requirements.
Quote from: Audous on October 22, 2021, 08:21:24 AMIt's quite difficult to move to US, borders are quite restrictive, I don't know about Canada. Green Cards (Permanent Residence) are really difficult to obtain. Either have a masters degree and be in a specialized field or marry someone from there. Your best bet is to marry someone who has citizenship within the US if you want to move legally. Your requirements for a girl is good but I don't know how difficult it will be to find someone.
That's why I wanna choose girls who have Canadian or American PR as the shortcuts to immigrating into Canada or America. And yeah eventually my aim in my dating resume is to marry with girls like this. But actually I also want my dated girls to be intelligent cuz I'm also convinced somehow that girl's intelligence is very charming and unique.
Quote from: Bantem on October 22, 2021, 08:39:32 PMIf you wanna get a girl in the US or Canada, it's gonna come down to your looks
My looks are not bad and I was never rejected by my appearance but only my height.
Quote from: dexter1930 on October 23, 2021, 09:46:38 AMis Shanghai liveable? Chinese girls are pretty from many movies I've seen. I would love to visit Shanghai one day
Yes but just liveable for only China.
Quote from: Body Builder on October 23, 2021, 10:01:29 AMWith that income in China I realy wonder why you like to move to usa, a country that is decaying more and more each year amd where that income is minimal.
Also, your height is ok now but with 67kg I really believe.you would be skinny, something no woman want. Better work out amd be at least 71-72 kg with some extra muscles.and you will look better, because women want strong bodies with good heights.
Anyway, I strongly believe that staying there with a good income for there and a height taller than average for China is the best way to get some women. In usa your chances, especially as you are an asian, are much less.
Acutally rather than American or Canadian Caucasians, I'd like marry with American born Chinese girls in all honesty and that's what I'm actually dying for. There are complicated and countless reasons why I'm contriving for immigrations and can't clarify them here cuz of fears that some aggressive compatriots will accuse me of being traitor or similar stuffs. Shanghai is also problematic in some aspects although indeed it's the most liveable city in China, except for its horrendous purchasing prices.
One of the reasons, if you are really interested, is the environment, but still complex. Just let u know that income is not my anxiety source otherwise I won't dare require my wife's height and weight, just 'her gender'.
Quote from: ilovescience on October 23, 2021, 01:38:26 PMIf you're interested in visiting places or cities with Chinese, Shanghai is a good choice. I would also recommend you to visit Taipei, Taiwan, and Singapore. Both of which are as good as Shanghai.
Shanghai is the third place in the amount of overseas visitors but during the pandemic, it's not a good option to move here or there
Quote from: Highest on October 23, 2021, 01:33:26 PMA girl said to your face that you are too short?
I can remember two yrs ago, I just posted my selfie in a taxi in a very awful light condition that can devastate my appeal from appearances on a forum, then a girl hooked me up and asked my height for more than just being strangers to each other, but after i said I was only 162cm, she just disappeared without any traces and that hurt me a lot. Day by day, I'm really feeling more and more girls' horrendous obsesions with men's heights rather than their appearances and wallets, and I made up my mind to do LL. Remember height can destory even Leonardo, Delon, and Giant Rock.
Quote from: Elhemioe on October 24, 2021, 03:12:36 PMLiterally no girl's gonna want you with such a resume buddy. You're giving dumb requirements and you clearly show that you're only interested in the visa so ... I mean why would you want your girlfriend to be precisely under 168 who cares if your girlfriend's taller than you.
Besides, you might want to consider Australia or New Zealand rather than Canada or USA if you're going to get a visa through marriage anyway. Australia and New Zealand are closer to China than Canada, and they both have a superior human development index compared to the USA. Not to mention that the quality of life is SIGNIFICANTLY better, since the NZ and Aus's environement is in much better shape, and that they also have public healthcare and school systems, as well as a higher minimum salary and more compulsory vacation for employees.
You'll regret moving to the US.
Thx. Eventually I'm not so obsessed with marriages and even romances. I designed this resume just cuz Chinese parents are paying most emphasises on offsprings LOL. If they won't care whether I wanna marry or not with random women, I won't even consider marriages cuz in my perspective, marriage is just time-killer.
Do you know which country is most developed in Speech-language pathology? I think USA is the answer and that's why I'd like to choose USA as my immigrating destination. I have a very mild stutter and to make short story, I wanna donate my cadaver to random institute that is most expertise and devoting itself into stutter. And stutter was proven induced from psychological and linguistic-neurological disorders so I wanna donate my brain and body for speech-language pathologists for researches.
Stutter is not that simple as we always think. Stutter is eventually related to abnormal brain structures and few researches are there to treat and cure stutter, letting down nearly all of people who stutter into despairs and griefs.
In China, in 2007, there was one undergraduate youngster who stuttered commited a robbery in a bank and he claimed that he suffered from stutter like cancer patients suffering from cancers. Stutter will somehow influence negatively on one's career and romance, out of question, won't it? So I'm really dying for cadaver donations to sacrifice my body's not being complete and sound for further researches.
For all abovementioned reasons, I opted for USA, and Canada for its convenience into USA and liveability in part of my lifetime. For this reason, I'll likely choose Japan as my destination, too.
As long as random countries demand voluntary donations, no matter what they demand me to donate, I'd rather live my rest of life in a garbage than just lounging at home but being a bystander of all stuttering sufferers, so the human development index or livabilities in random countries are not necessities for me at all.
Quote from: Elhemioe on October 24, 2021, 11:30:27 PMI didn't know all that it's actually very interesting and very noble of you !
https://www.uts.edu.au/asrc
Seems like Aus and Nz have a bunch of study centers revolving around stuttering
Thx. I think America appears to the best country, cuz America is the establisher which has developed the longest history in speech-language pathology.
Quote from: pandemic_exploiter on October 25, 2021, 06:01:30 AMRelatable not long ago an attractive girl who seemed interested in me eventually pointed out she was 2 inches taller than me. lol. I'm sort of in the same boat as you now, but won't set a height max (and up the weight max 
) for women so my kids come out larger
Yeah so I gotta do this surgery. In addition, height is devastating my self-confidence although it sounds not masculine enough.
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