Hey guys, I guess I should start out by stating my height. I kind of go right on either side of the line of 5'6" depending on time of day. Like from maybe 167.5-168.1cm or something like that. I've been really bummed about my height as I've gotten into my late 20s. It didn't bother me when I was younger but now I feel like I haven't grown up. I think about it every day. I feel like I don't look like the version of me that's in my head.
My ideal/goal height would be to add 5.5cm-6cm to be 173-173.5cm. That would be perfect. Proportion wise I kinda have a normally proportioned body with kinda short tibias, so I think this would make both my proportions and height perfect. I don't want to be huge. 5'8 no shoes 5'9 with boots would be perfect. Still be comfortable most spaces, fit comfortable in most showers, and wouldn't tower over my family.
This is however astronomically expensive. More then my college loan debt which I will be paying off for a long while. I also exersize reguarly and wouldn't want to lose mobility. My ankles are also kinda funky, as they crack a lot and sometimes the tendons get sore. I would also NEVER get the extrernal ones. It would have to be internal. Getting this would make me so happy, I'm just not sure how realistic it is. Its like a second college degree.
Hello, is this a real option for me? My situation, your opinions.
For now, I'd recommend looking into elevator shoes, and you can also add some insoles to them. From the looks of your post, it seems you might already do this to some extent, but it doesn't hurt to stress this option. For myself, the lifts greatly alleviate my height neurosis around people in daily life. Get the most outrageous height increasing shoes if you have to, as long as that gives you peace of mind.
Regarding the rest: my personal opinion is that you should focus on your higher education now (or the job prospects from it), and to only start thinking about CLL again when you feel you are both in a stable job, and in the position to land a stable job again with some ease - after all the time/career break CLL requires from most people.
EDIT: Of course, this also means not having other debts and being in the position to save for CLL (or whatever else), etc.
Quote from: myloginacct on April 17, 2018, 09:48:22 PMFor now, I'd recommend looking into elevator shoes, and you can also add some insoles to them. From the looks of your post, it seems you might already do this to some extent, but it doesn't hurt to stress this option. For myself, the lifts greatly alleviate my height neurosis around people in daily life. Get the most outrageous height increasing shoes if you have to, as long as that gives you peace of mind.
Regarding the rest: my personal opinion is that you should focus on your higher education now (or the job prospects from it), and to only start thinking about CLL again when you feel you are both in a stable job, and in the position to land a stable job again with some ease - after all the time/career break CLL requires from most people.
EDIT: Of course, this also means not having other debts and being in the position to save for CLL (or whatever else), etc.
Yea I have insoles, but it's hard to find comfortable ones I can wear and walk in. Ive bought several pairs and they are all just ok. I'm so tired of being too short. I don't think I'll have the money for this so I'm thinking a better alternative might be suicide. I don't know what to do yet as I'm having so much trouble dealing with my body.
Hold up man suicide is not the way to go! at least CLL is one option, if you put your mind to it you can get it done. People on here have started from nothing and have gone through with. There also other options, dont go down that route man!
Quote from: Android on April 17, 2018, 11:14:02 PMDon't throw words like suicide like it's nothing. If you're seriously suicidal and not trying to be edgy, you need to talk to a professional.
If you want to do tibias, get externals with LATN or LON abroad. You don't need to pony up $90k+ for Precice for that, we're talking somewhere around $20k.
Not being edgy. I want to die badly, but I am staying alive for my mothers sake. It's really hard to voluntarily stay in a body that feels like a prison though.
What are Latn and Lon? I don't think I could do externals. Especially since I hate antibiotics.
Quote from: Wheeljackg1 on April 17, 2018, 11:18:36 PMNot being edgy. I want to die badly, but I am staying alive for my mothers sake. It's really hard to voluntarily stay in a body that feels like a prison though.
What are Latn and Lon? I don't think I could do externals. Especially since I hate antibiotics.
Probably best for you to have body acceptance first with a therapist, you can even try online services. You could also call a hotline and receive some much needed support. You could even look at this thread on Reddit for support just for short people like us.
LATN (lengthening and then nailing) and LON (lengthening over nail) are weight bearing nails that are inserted and locked in place after/before lengthening with external frames. This significantly reduces time in frames. I think you have a lot of learning to do, start here.
Internals like Precice have reduced need for antibiotics, but you will be taking them. I'm afraid that next you'll say you don't have the time or can't handle pain, this is not like other cosmetic surgeries. Beggars can't be choosers, it's irrational that you can consider taking your own life but snub externals and antibiotics.
Quote from: Android on April 18, 2018, 12:02:40 AMProbably best for you to have body acceptance first with a therapist, you can even try online services. You could also call a hotline and receive some much needed support.
LATN (lengthening and then nailing) and LON (lengthening over nail) are weight bearing nails that are inserted and locked in place after/before lengthening with external frames. This significantly reduces time in frames. I think you have a lot of learning to do, start here.
Internals like Precice have reduced need for antibiotics, but you will be taking them. I'm afraid that next you'll say you don't have the time or can't handle pain, this is not like other cosmetic surgeries. Beggars can't be choosers, it's irrational that you can consider taking your own life but snub externals and antibiotics.
Why are you being so hostile towards me? What did I do to you? I've been seeing a therapist to try accept myself, but I just can't manage to do it.
Don't assume things about me. I'll find the time and if I have to deal with some temporary pain to resolve a permanent problem I understand that. I am hoping doing just 5.5cm will reduce long term pain, but what are the actual ods I will be facing long term pain at 5.5cm?
The shorter the time on antibiotics the better. I was on them long term in my early 20s and it gave me tendonitis in my wrists and a nasty candida overgrowth.
Quote from: Wheeljackg1 on April 18, 2018, 12:10:22 AMWhy are you being so hostile towards me? What did I do to you? I've been seeing a therapist to try accept myself, but I just can't manage to do it.
Don't assume things about me. I'll find the time and if I have to deal with some temporary pain to resolve a permanent problem I understand that. I am hoping doing just 5.5cm will reduce long term pain, but what are the actual ods I will be facing long term pain at 5.5cm?
The shorter the time on antibiotics the better. I was on them long term in my early 20s and it gave me tendonitis in my wrists and a nasty candida overgrowth.
I apologize that I sounded hostile, that wasn't the intent, and I hope I was at least helpful. I concluded that you were underinformed, hence the tone.
Your lengthening goal is modest and it won't break the bank with externals. The antibiotics you'll take aren't excessive, especially if you keep the pin sites clean.
Cost is the major roadblock for you, so if I was in your shoes, I'd be relieved to find such a solution. Broaden your options and you might feel better.
Quote from: Wheeljackg1 on April 18, 2018, 12:10:22 AMWhy are you being so hostile towards me? What did I do to you? I've been seeing a therapist to try accept myself, but I just can't manage to do it.
Don't assume things about me. I'll find the time and if I have to deal with some temporary pain to resolve a permanent problem I understand that. I am hoping doing just 5.5cm will reduce long term pain, but what are the actual ods I will be facing long term pain at 5.5cm?
The shorter the time on antibiotics the better. I was on them long term in my early 20s and it gave me tendonitis in my wrists and a nasty candida overgrowth.
Android isn't being hostile to you; he was using his own spare time to make these posts to try and help you a bit. He gave you a lot of information. And trust me, I understand all of your feelings.
Either way, none of us choose the hand or the upbringing we are dealt in life. We have to try and make the best of the situation we find ourselves in. Generally, and ideally, that means making your present the best it can be, and working towards one of the better futures you can achieve. I also understand your own emotions and your own head can get in the way of that, and that you may simply feel like giving up.
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