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How can I go through mental hurts from my height long before LL?

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Posted on Jan 8, 2021, 6:09 pm
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I think LL is really driving me crazy Cuz every moment I can't help meditating problems about my height.
I asked help for my school's psychiatrists but they were in vain...I still felt eyes fixed on me and in every place I felt I was an alien...
But I count down my LL date...at present still 3 yrs long away from it...I also gotta work hard on my study.
I dunno what methods you guys tried to overcome such mental problem.
I don't even wanna act outdoors..
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Atlas
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Posted on Jan 9, 2021, 6:37 am
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You should focus on making money to get LL instead
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Medium Drink Of Water
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Posted on Jan 9, 2021, 2:08 pm
#3
Pretend you are someone else: the body you're in now is somebody else's that you get to control for three years.  Sotry to enjoy it as best you can until your mind moves to a new body in only three years.
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tallmen
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Posted on Jan 9, 2021, 5:34 pm
#4
Wear 3 or 4 inch lifts.
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sakmadik
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Posted on Jan 9, 2021, 6:30 pm
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Quote from: Coeus on January 08, 2021, 06:09:42 PMI think LL is really driving me crazy Cuz every moment I can't help meditating problems about my height.
I asked help for my school's psychiatrists but they were in vain...I still felt eyes fixed on me and in every place I felt I was an alien...
But I count down my LL date...at present still 3 yrs long away from it...I also gotta work hard on my study.
I dunno what methods you guys tried to overcome such mental problem.
I don't even wanna act outdoors..

From my point of view you should think from another perspective. For example, since I discovered that I can have this operation I feel better because I know that if some day there comes a time when I cannot overcome those thoughts, I will be able to have an operation and change something with which I do not feel good about myself. Think of it as worse. Know that there are still 3 years to be able to operate or that this type of surgery did not exist and know that you could never change?
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Tartar
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Posted on Jan 9, 2021, 6:37 pm
#6
Enjoy sports and every other activity you'll not be able to do for long time after LL surgery. Appreciate your freedom.
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Jamesy998
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Posted on Jan 9, 2021, 7:00 pm
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LL will not magically make your problems go away. It really makes me laugh that some people will become a “new” person after LL. Height is just one aspect of someones life and there is so much more. Mate, what you need to do is learn to prioritise, LL should not be consuming 90% of your mind. I was the same as you, then I began to learn to care less of what other people think, and also started giving more attention to my hobbies and interests which took my minds attention away from LL 24/7.
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Posted on Jan 11, 2021, 9:51 pm
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Quote from: sakmadik on January 09, 2021, 06:30:06 PMFrom my point of view you should think from another perspective. For example, since I discovered that I can have this operation I feel better because I know that if some day there comes a time when I cannot overcome those thoughts, I will be able to have an operation and change something with which I do not feel good about myself. Think of it as worse. Know that there are still 3 years to be able to operate or that this type of surgery did not exist and know that you could never change?
You are right.Sometimes I feel lucky to be born in the modern times thanks to science I can change too many things that I couldn't change in old times.In old times midgets are forever midgets and that's it.What a tragedy!I feel grateful for science!I hope one day human being can enjoy height equalities cuz of new technique for growing taller and it can be the same with appearance.
Only thing that human must strive for is his possessions.
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Posted on Jan 11, 2021, 9:55 pm
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Quote from: Tartar on January 09, 2021, 06:37:19 PMEnjoy sports and every other activity you'll not be able to do for long time after LL surgery. Appreciate your freedom.
Actually in reality I seldom suffer insults about my height but when you pack into the crowd in subways for instance you'll be likely to feel inferior and weak for others are all taller than you.
It's a blessing of God that my hobbies can be enjoy indoors.
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Posted on Jan 11, 2021, 9:59 pm
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Quote from: Jamesy998 on January 09, 2021, 07:00:58 PMLL will not magically make your problems go away. It really makes me laugh that some people will become a “new” person after LL. Height is just one aspect of someones life and there is so much more. Mate, what you need to do is learn to prioritise, LL should not be consuming 90% of your mind. I was the same as you, then I began to learn to care less of what other people think, and also started giving more attention to my hobbies and interests which took my minds attention away from LL 24/7.
Neight do I think LL can wholy change one's life unless you're incredibly perfect except height.If someone has got bad appearance,bad social skills,bad possessions and etc.,i don't think his life can turn into paradise life.
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