Quote from: Slim_tim on August 17, 2014, 12:51:53 AM
Huh you too? aww hell naww
i guess its a mental thing, im a crazy person, i really am. if i was 190cm i would still want an inch or two. how tall are you btw?
Quote from: kunta kinte on August 17, 2014, 12:56:51 AMi guess its a mental thing, im a crazy person, i really am. if i was 190cm i would still want an inch or two. how tall are you btw?
From begining 5'6-5'7 but i think i am around 5'5 now at my lowest, including my fking back that is always shifting in height..so annoying. Some days i wake up feeling pretty good about my height but then it shrinks due to gravitation or lack of quality stretch sleep and i end up feeling more introverted.
Well it dosn't matter the truth is that i am short. I don't like being judge for being short so i want average to above average height. Mainly your height would be uber perfect and i don't think i would want to be taller at that level, i don't even think i would have been aware of heightism at that height. Thats the thing that baffels me the most. Here you are complete in your creation, you can do whatever the fk you want to do, but all your life has led you is to this webbsite. Now i don't judge you each to their own ofcourse.
But seeing what i will have to go through just to get to your height, And here you are wanting to get taller who god knows what reason and you dont even need it". But i must confess. Being able to say 6'0 tall must be self worth booster.
Quote from: Slim_tim on August 17, 2014, 01:09:41 AMFrom begining 5'6-5'7 but i think i am around 5'5 now at my lowest, including my f**king back that is always shifting in height..so annoying. Some days i wake up feeling pretty good about my height but then it shrinks due to gravitation or lack of quality stretch sleep and i end up feeling more introverted.
Well it dosn't matter the truth is that i am short. I don't like being judge for being short so i want average to above average height. Mainly your height would be uber perfect and i don't think i would want to be taller at that level, i don't even think i would have been aware of heightism at that height. Thats the thing that baffels me the most. Here you are complete in your creation, you can do whatever the f**k you want to do, but all your life has led you is to this webbsite. Now i don't judge you each to their own ofcourse.
But seeing what i will have to go through just to get to your height, And here you are wanting to get taller who god knows what reason and you dont even need it". But i must confess. Being able to say 6'0 tall must be self worth booster.
i do whatever the f*** i wanna do and i dont let anything get in my way 
, im not going to go into to much details so that i dont reveal my identity. but i was and still am at a high if not the highest level in sports competition(world/european championships, cups) i go to university and i really am happy with myself and living my dream hoping i dont wake up, so if you think im not living my life to the fullest because of my height, youre mistaken my friend .
i guess with me and my height its sort of a mental illness and im not even kidding about it. i KNOW im tall enough, but in my mind i still wanna be 183-4 cm at my lowest. its not even about being more manly or taller just for the sake of being tall and desirable, in all honesty i would be happy if i did the surgery and if nobody noticed anything.
i would just like to be taller by like 4cm because it would make me happy, dont even know why it just would.
just reading this post of mine i came to realize that i really am a mentally ill person. lol xD
when are you planning to do the surgery and what do you think you will lengthen fem or tib, and what is your wingspan?
im not a native english speaker so i hope my english isnt to bad and you've understood me.
hey kunta since you mentioned it yourself that in your case it only seems to be mental, have you considered talking to a phychologist? Normally these people cant cure height neurosis since usually the height problem is based on real prejudice from others, but in your case i doubt it has anything to do with that, even you dont seem to think that way.
Also if you really are high level in sports (which i wont dispute, but you look very out of shape in the pictures) then why risk that athleticism for a few cm (i know that theoretically you will be able to recover but you will lose some of your prime years in sports and might never be exactly the same)
Quote from: kunta kinte on August 17, 2014, 01:29:49 AMi do whatever the f*** i wanna do and i dont let anything get in my way , im not going to go into to much details so that i dont reveal my identity. but i was and still am at a high if not the highest level in sports competition(world/european championships, cups) i go to university and i really am happy with myself and living my dream hoping i dont wake up, so if you think im not living my life to the fullest because of my height, youre mistaken my friend .
i guess with me and my height its sort of a mental illness and im not even kidding about it. i KNOW im tall enough, but in my mind i still wanna be 183-4 cm at my lowest. its not even about being more manly or taller just for the sake of being tall and desirable, in all honesty i would be happy if i did the surgery and if nobody noticed anything.
i would just like to be taller by like 4cm because it would make me happy, dont even know why it just would.
just reading this post of mine i came to realize that i really am a mentally ill person. lol xD
when are you planning to do the surgery and what do you think you will lengthen fem or tib, and what is your wingspan?
im not a native english speaker so i hope my english isnt to bad and you've understood me.
Nah man we are not crazy, if anything we are the intelligent people. We look, we see, we take notice, we apply the right action in order to improve our lifes. It's just that this takes time/effort and is a serious surgery. Where as when you are fat you simply look around see skinny people. "easy" just loose weight and you are set. Height is the only thing that is so complex and gives so much value to a human. So ofcourse we would like as much height as possible.
I will do the surgery pretty much when i feel my body is ready for operation. Not right now..i still need to heighten my pain sensitivity i was semi depressed for like 6 month and with that comes you know "weakness". So i have to get hard physically if im going to endure 8 CM height increase. Always and ALWAYS lengthen Tibia first, There you can stop afterwards and proportions will not be off key and you look more athletic with longer tibias.
No thats awesome!, Nothing like seeing productive people wanting to improve themselves more even though they live a great life. I guess that is the "true" you that is speaking. Really pushing you to the surgery like it's beyond your control and it must happen. Otherwise you are not really like you want to be.
Like me, i would like to stay the same height but to have the operation and have people treat me equal i would be happy lol. so fked up.
My wingspan is 5'7 i think but i don't care a friend of mine is 5'11 and he has short wingspan. When i saw him i knew i was gonna be OK!
Quote from: Wannabegiant on August 17, 2014, 01:51:05 AMhey kunta since you mentioned it yourself that in your case it only seems to be mental, have you considered talking to a phychologist? Normally these people cant cure height neurosis since usually the height problem is based on real prejudice from others, but in your case i doubt it has anything to do with that, even you dont seem to think that way.
Also if you really are high level in sports (which i wont dispute, but you look very out of shape in the pictures) then why risk that athleticism for a few cm (i know that theoretically you will be able to recover but you will lose some of your prime years in sports and might never be exactly the same)
i do look out of shape in those pics but you can be sure that is not the case, i have no reason to lie being that im anonymus, not all sports require a 6 pack or a perfect christiano CRonnie7 looking asthetics to be at the top of your game.
i know that the operation will take my out of the game for a few years but i dont worry about it because i dont see myself doing it in another 4-5 years when i graduate. manly because i live in a quite poor country that does not take care of its athletes at all, it can barely pay the loans it has taken from other rich countrys. many of our best even olympic athletes were kicked like stray dogs once they got older and it makes me sick!
so ive decided to focus on education and for that reason my carrer for the past year or two as an athlete has suffered, dont get me wrong im not making excuses and im not sad for the choices ive made. id choose education over sports carrer(at least in my country) every day of the week.
now as far as talking to a phychologist, ive tought about it but i really dont feel comfortable sharing stuff with people that i know let alone sharing them with a stranger. and i highly doubt that someone, even a professional could convince me that i dont need to do the surgery, im a very stubborn person.
have you ever been to a phychologist or something, what are your experiences and did it make you question your LL journey(if you ever did or plan on doing one)?
Quote from: kunta kinte on August 17, 2014, 02:16:13 AMi do look out of shape in those pics but you can be sure that is not the case, i have no reason to lie being that im anonymus, not all sports require a 6 pack or a perfect christiano CRonnie7 looking asthetics to be at the top of your game.
i know that the operation will take my out of the game for a few years but i dont worry about it because i dont see myself doing it in another 4-5 years when i graduate. manly because i live in a quite poor country that does not take care of its athletes at all, it can barely pay the loans it has taken from other rich countrys. many of our best even olympic athletes were kicked like stray dogs once they got older and it makes me sick!
so ive decided to focus on education and for that reason my carrer for the past year or two as an athlete has suffered, dont get me wrong im not making excuses and im not sad for the choices ive made. id choose education over sports carrer(at least in my country) every day of the week.
now as far as talking to a phychologist, ive tought about it but i really dont feel comfortable sharing stuff with people that i know let alone sharing them with a stranger. and i highly doubt that someone, even a professional could convince me that i dont need to do the surgery, im a very stubborn person.
have you ever been to a phychologist or something, what are your experiences and did it make you question your LL journey(if you ever did or plan on doing one)?
I have once or twice, actually wasn't that bad even though we never talked about anything specifik it still felt good to talk to a senior about things going on in your life.
Quote from: Slim_tim on August 17, 2014, 01:57:05 AMNah man we are not crazy, if anything we are the intelligent people. We look, we see, we take notice, we apply the right action in order to improve our lifes. It's just that this takes time/effort and is a serious surgery. Where as when you are fat you simply look around see skinny people. "easy" just loose weight and you are set. Height is the only thing that is so complex and gives so much value to a human. So ofcourse we would like as much height as possible.
I will do the surgery pretty much when i feel my body is ready for operation. Not right now..i still need to heighten my pain sensitivity i was semi depressed for like 6 month and with that comes you know "weakness". So i have to get hard physically if im going to endure 8 CM height increase. Always and ALWAYS lengthen Tibia first, There you can stop afterwards and proportions will not be off key and you look more athletic with longer tibias.
No s**t thats awesome!, Nothing like seeing productive people wanting to improve themselves more even though they live a great life. I guess that is the "true" you that is speaking. Really pushing you to the surgery like it's beyond your control and it must happen. Otherwise you are not really like you want to be.
Like me, i would like to stay the same height but to have the operation and have people treat me equal i would be happy lol. so fked up.
My wingspan is 5'7 i think but i don't care a friend of mine is 5'11 and he has short wingspan. When i saw him i knew i was gonna be OK!
im so happy that there are people like you that understand me and that i can relate to. i really do hope you will achieve your height goal and any other goal you set to yourself because a person with no goals or dreams is already dead inside.
i can already imagine you(i know its crazy talk since ive never seen you, but im really in a good mood and feel insppired) rockin that 5'8" height like a boss and getting all them babes wet!
Quote from: kunta kinte on August 17, 2014, 02:16:13 AMi do look out of shape in those pics but you can be sure that is not the case, i have no reason to lie being that im anonymus, not all sports require a 6 pack or a perfect christiano CRonnie7 looking asthetics to be at the top of your game.
i know that the operation will take my out of the game for a few years but i dont worry about it because i dont see myself doing it in another 4-5 years when i graduate. manly because i live in a quite poor country that does not take care of its athletes at all, it can barely pay the loans it has taken from other rich countrys. many of our best even olympic athletes were kicked like stray dogs once they got older and it makes me sick!
so ive decided to focus on education and for that reason my carrer for the past year or two as an athlete has suffered, dont get me wrong im not making excuses and im not sad for the choices ive made. id choose education over sports carrer(at least in my country) every day of the week.
now as far as talking to a phychologist, ive tought about it but i really dont feel comfortable sharing stuff with people that i know let alone sharing them with a stranger. and i highly doubt that someone, even a professional could convince me that i dont need to do the surgery, im a very stubborn person.
have you ever been to a phychologist or something, what are your experiences and did it make you question your LL journey(if you ever did or plan on doing one)?
I talked to a psychologists for many months before i did the surgery, he never tried to talk me out of doing the surgery because i had already decided that i was definitely going to do it because it was the only solution, my problem wasnt only mental, living in Sweden height is very important, being under average will significantly hinder your life experience.
He did help me mentally prepare for it though, the hazards and problems i where going to face by making this decision. It was very helpful this way too, it wasnt my idea to meet a psychologist but my mother insisted that i should.
Quote from: Wannabegiant on August 17, 2014, 02:46:46 AMI talked to a psychologists for many months before i did the surgery, he never tried to talk me out of doing the surgery because i had already decided that i was definitely going to do it because it was the only solution, my problem wasnt only mental, living in Sweden height is very important, being under average will significantly hinder your life experience.
He did help me mentally prepare for it though, the hazards and problems i where going to face by making this decision. It was very helpful this way too, it wasnt my idea to meet a psychologist but my mother insisted that i should.
yeah, i understand that sweden has a really high average, btw what is the average like 182-3cm? really tall and good looking people over there. . .
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