Well i was talking to this friend of mine and her being 4'10 called me short at 5'5 as a joke. Well i know it is short but what the fk. You are way shorter than me i dont use that as a joke. It fking hurts man.
Quote from: GrowTow on January 29, 2023, 06:16:07 PMYou coming on this forum to express how you feel shows that your problem isn't your height but maybe a lot more unfortunately.
Thats odd coming from someone posting an empty diary months before surgery to seek validation. Quad lengthening at your height shows deep seated insecurity than just height dysphoria. Quad lengthening is way more crippling than bilateral. Please, take a look at yourself before judging others. Laughable that you put your quad end goal before even starting your first lengthening.
Quote from: informationispower on January 29, 2023, 08:12:44 PMWhen and where are you doing your surgery?
I can see why many people lurk and dont make diaries, too much negativity for people to have a peace of mind recovering during the surgery. Well Donghoon is not replying, probably have to find other places. I'm still trying to contact him but to no avail.
Quote from: Kanye Western on January 29, 2023, 10:33:54 PMHow do you know he's not currently living a normal life, with a good job, gf? This forum is meant to be a "safe space", where we all have same common grounds - our issues with being short.
There was no need to attack the guy like that.
Thank you. I am actually dating someone casually at the moment but unfortunately I cant seem to make it serious due to my fixation with height. And GrowTow is full of , self projectioning his own inc*ldom into others. Something is clearly not right in his head if he wants to do LL twice, so i highly doubt his issues are all height related.
Quote from: GrowTow on January 29, 2023, 09:50:22 PM
Lastly, of course I put my quad goal. Whether it takes 6 months or 6 years, i'll get it done. I didn't know there's a time frame for how far along I can set my goal.
Your a clown, ur post history indicates in 2018 u are gonna get it done next year and now its 2023 and you still dont know? Are you alright mate? No one is gonna care if you Quad LL besides yourself. It was a rant on how short guys face prejudice. I dont know how you are self-projecting your inc*ldom onto others. Nothing i said indicated misogyny. You need to grow up(literally and figuratively). You will still be sad after your quad surgery. Boo hoo not 6 ft. Im only doing tis to get to average height. Please go and cry more
Quote from: GrowTow on January 29, 2023, 10:23:49 PMsxxism??? I'm not sure where you've got that from.
Live a normal life means be social, be confident with other things. Everyone has a few insecurities, everyone on here is insecure about their height. I am only insecure about this 1 thing hence why I can live a normal life in all other ways. I have a job, I have a gf, i'm not chronically online. If someone said something to me i'd have my friends to message. I simply said it's a bit concerning that OP decided to come on here as the 1st thing.
Your funny, if your life is that satisfying you wouldnt even need to come here everyday to seek validation. Why not tell everyone you know about it? Clearly you know everyone will gaslight you and tell you height is in your head. Yeah please go and cry to your friends about how ur height affects your daily life to the point you want to break your legs twice lmao. I wouldnt let anyone but my closest friends know and even then i dont rant to them constantly, it gets annoying. Have some empathy before commenting on my thread, i didnt come here to start an argument and the first thing you commented on the thread was to insult me. Piss off
Quote from: GrowTow on January 30, 2023, 04:39:33 PMSo there must be something wrong with me to want 2 surgeries? It's normal. I'm from the UK. Average height is 178cm. With 2 operations I will be average height. I'm not aiming for the stars.
And yes, I was ready to have the surgery in 2018 but then changed my mind as I wasn't confident with any of my option. Many others also have been been on here for man years. I am doing this surgery now as I am finally ready. I am still in my early early 20s so it's perfect. Nor did I say that anyone will care if I do quads. You're making up arguments in your own brain.
I'm not sure if you've read someone else's message and thought it was me or just misunderstood me because I haven't said anything about you being misogynist and as you've mentioned yourself, you're doing your surgery to be average height, so am I. Idc about being 6ft, not sure where you got that from either.
I didn't come here to seek any validation either, none of my posts can be interpreted in any way to be seeking validation. I'm just confused as to why you've said half the things you have as I've not said anything about them. Leave it here.
Okay, im not gonna continue. Screw it. Just dont judge others prematurely based off a simple question. Hope your surgery goes well!
Quote from: GrowTow on January 30, 2023, 04:39:33 PMSo there must be something wrong with me to want 2 surgeries? It's normal. I'm from the UK. Average height is 178cm. With 2 operations I will be average height. I'm not aiming for the stars.
And yes, I was ready to have the surgery in 2018 but then changed my mind as I wasn't confident with any of my option. Many others also have been been on here for man years. I am doing this surgery now as I am finally ready. I am still in my early early 20s so it's perfect. Nor did I say that anyone will care if I do quads. You're making up arguments in your own brain.
I'm not sure if you've read someone else's message and thought it was me or just misunderstood me because I haven't said anything about you being misogynist and as you've mentioned yourself, you're doing your surgery to be average height, so am I. Idc about being 6ft, not sure where you got that from either.
I didn't come here to seek any validation either, none of my posts can be interpreted in any way to be seeking validation. I'm just confused as to why you've said half the things you have as I've not said anything about them. Leave it here.
Okay, im not gonna continue. Screw it. Just dont judge others prematurely based off a simple question. Hope your surgery goes well!
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