thanks for all your opinions.
But I feel that I have lost all my seel steem. I would never have thought about my heigh before, but lot of people put inside my mind that i´m short. I try to forget it and to move on with my life but it seems impossible.
I´ve realized that when i´m alone i´m happy. The problem appears when i´m with other people. I fell very insecure and weak next to them.
The problem started when i began to work as a police officer. It is true that some friends and girls had told me that I was short before I got this job but it had never bothered me. I had a different image of me in my mind and i was happy with myself.
All of this changed when my coworkers started to make jokes about my heigh all the time. I couldn´t undestand why they spoken about my heigh everyday I didn´t think i was so short. There were other coworkers who were about 1,73 cm heigh and I never heard anybody say they were short.
During this time, I have learned some things:
* If you are about 1,73cm you are not considered short or people see you in a different way. Your heigh will go unnoticed.
* If you are taller than the average it doesn´t matter if you are not very smart, you will get privileges.
* Most girls are obsessed with heigh and will never date a short man. They are always searching a man as tall as possible.
I seriously don´t feel like i´m a person.
I have been ashamed of me when my wife or my brother wanted to introduce me to a new friend
I find it stupid when someone reminds you of your heigh. It is obvious i´m short, why they need to repeat it? are they stupid? do they want to make you feel bad?
I risk losing my mental health... what can i do? I have decided to stay alone as long as possible. Not going out or interacting with other and spending the less time possible at work.
people.
I dont want to be the tallest man or taller than the average I only want to stop hearing that i´m short it hurts me a lot.
Are there any wasap group of people who feel the same?
Hi gattaca
I feel really sorry for you. I have been there and did cll. Although I am not 100% satisfied with my new current height, overall I am more confident and happy about myself. 169 cm is short pretty much in any country, although it is not really super short. Some people with that height could live in a happy life but some may not.
I think ppl around you or your coworkers are not really considerate. They don't really understand how other people think and feel. Just stay away from them as much as possible. That is good for you anyway.
Regarding CLL, it is not an easy task. It needs quite some money as well as a long time to recover. Especially, if you have a profession that requires physical strength like policeman, cll could be a bad or risky choice. If I were you, I may look for another profession while saving money. At the same time, do some research about CLL. Knowledge is important. Without enough knowledge about cll, you can't persuade your wife. At first, my wife was against me doing CLL but I had enough knowledge and good plans for CLL. So I was able to persuade my wife to support me doing CLL. As a married man, you need her support!
Hope you find happiness and peace soon!
Good luck,
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