Quote from: Smallguy on January 10, 2015, 05:42:27 AMYeah, I don't follow the rules or PUA method neither. Most PUA are already good-looking anyway. If I had their looks, I wouldn't need to follow any method. Just be myself and succeed. I only admire successful PUA who is less than 5 feet tall, ugly and broke. If I meet a PUA like this, then maybe, I will watch his videos.
Based on your post, you seem like a sensible guy and don't seem awkward or anything. So I can't figure out why you don't get a gf of someone you like. Could it be the environment? The dating pool is small (fewer young people)? The type of women you are attracted to - they are married?
Well here... my city is like a tourist hub. There are many students visiting here from all over the world, especially from Europe and Asia. So I no longer pursue Canadian women. Canadian women are smart - they only go for guys who are equivalent in social benefit like themselves. But on the attractiveness scale, I probably rate as a 5 or a 6 (stretch). So it doesn't make sense for me to settle for a 5 Canadian girl whereas I can get a 7-8 foreign women.
Japanese women - you'll be surprised you may run into a very beautiful Japanese girl. The good thing about Japanese women is that the Japanese men are more interested in animation, video games and other kinky stuff. So when you hit on a Japanese women, they'll be surprised because they never get hit on before. Also in Japanese culture, the women don't usually say no to men. So when you pull off their pants, you can try to be polite and can say SuMiMaSen - meaning excuse me in Japan. And they will forgive you. Okay I feel like a jerk for saying this.
Korean women - are more street smart than Japanese. I like to watch Korean drama and music video so am really into Korean. I saw some really stunning ladies at the nightclub. Sometime you can try to be touchy with them and go for the kiss, and if they get offended, you can say that's how we do things here in my culture.
Swiss women - I meet some really stunning swiss students at hostel and bars. We became friends but nothing happen. I guess I'm more into asian.
To give you a sense of my rating scale, I would rate Kim Kadasian as a 1. I don't find Kim Kadasian attractive. Does anyone else feel the same way? Maybe my preference is really different from standard Americans. I find her very manly asthetically and her lips are very thick. I didn't know that thick lips are popular in America (and oversize boobs). And I may confuse her eyes for George Clooney. I would give Seulhyun, the girl below that a 10.
If you ever visit here, feel free to give me a shout and I can be your tour guide. 
I agree with you buddy. Being tall doesn't automatically give you more money or more women. Otherwise, most tall people would be wealthy and have many children, which is not the case.
The short guy who is horny and is driven enough will always win out to a tall guy who is shy, timid and possess no social prowess.
But what I find interesting about this forum and life in general is that people like to give themselves excuse for their failure... same as why one of my Chinese friend like to tell me that girls doesn't like him because of this ethnicity. But I also hang out with different Chinese guy who has success with women. Some short guys (or medium and tall on this forum) like to bring up data and stats to show why they can't be successful in life. But this doesn't apply to most of us even though we're in the similar height.
I have battled depression and anger in the past and sometimes do today. I think I'm just not getting enough opportunities. I think I should make some make friends, get some activities because my lifestyle and the way I'm living, my chances are slim to 0 of meeting someone.
I could go to a foreign country but it may be hard to have a connection with someone who doesn't
understand English well. So it would only be good for sex. I really want a Mexican girlfriend and am 28. Still look younger than I am and I believe I can still date women 21-27 if I wanted to.
I'm not right all the time but it would be nice if someone could tell me what I'm doing wrong and
how I can fix it?
