Struck out again because of height

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Quote from: ilovescience on April 04, 2022, 03:17:14 PMMy age is close to your age. In America do you see many men their heights around 6 feet tall who are also born in the early 80s.

I think the younger generation is taller. Older generations will be shorter as people lose height as the age. In general, white men are about 5'10 but I definitely see a lot of them that are well over 6ft.

I come from a taller family and even the women in my family are my height. My grandmother was 6ft🤣.

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Quote from: NotTall84 on April 04, 2022, 02:55:33 PMI don't want a lot of matches, just someone to date. It was t this hard when I was younger. I blame social media and it's obsession with height. Every man has to be 6ft+ otherwise they are a "manlet".

If you’re doing online dating you’ll need quite a few matches to convert one to an actual date because women on there are flaky. The height obsession in online dating is overrated, esp if you’re 5’9”. I’ve never heard anyone use the term manlet except on Reddit and bodybuilding forums. Maybe get off the internet and try interacting with some people in real life and you’ll have better luck.

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Quote from: informationispower on April 04, 2022, 01:20:50 PMMy man, you are 37 years old yet you write like you are 16. Ghosting happens all the time in online dating and being 5'9 is not the reason. I am 5'7 and was never ghosted because of it but I was ghosted many times and I myself ghosted as well. About how do you compete with 6'3, you don't since its not a height competition
I think that is not true. If you were Brad Pitt those women will have nothing to do but to just drool for you and ride onto your dk in a harsh.

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Quote from: BelowTheMean on April 04, 2022, 09:50:47 PMIf you’re doing online dating you’ll need quite a few matches to convert one to an actual date because women on there are flaky. The height obsession in online dating is overrated, esp if you’re 5’9”. I’ve never heard anyone use the term manlet except on Reddit and bodybuilding forums. Maybe get off the internet and try interacting with some people in real life and you’ll have better luck.
I know Reddit is kinda sthole after I took a look at r/short, r/LGBT and similar subs. But what is happening to bodybuilding forum? Mind elaborabating it? I am not a native American so not very knowledge at memes. Is that an affiliation of incel forums?

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Online dating sucks.  I made an account 2 months ago and haven't been on one date yet.

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Quote from: Medium Drink Of Water on April 05, 2022, 12:23:46 AMOnline dating sucks.  I made an account 2 months ago and haven't been on one date yet.

Online dating is extremely toxic, don't be hard on yourself. Get some great photos (active and social life) and you'll do well.

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Quote from: BelowTheMean on April 04, 2022, 09:50:47 PMIf you’re doing online dating you’ll need quite a few matches to convert one to an actual date because women on there are flaky. The height obsession in online dating is overrated, esp if you’re 5’9”. I’ve never heard anyone use the term manlet except on Reddit and bodybuilding forums. Maybe get off the internet and try interacting with some people in real life and you’ll have better luck.

Ahh good memories of BB.com and the misc. It helped me get into lifting but reinforced the idea Im a manlet. TBH, a lot of online culture seeps into the real world, but people dont communicate it  as much in real life. I have been called short, but that is because my family is full of taller people.

I do agree, reading forums, especially ones where a lot of the guys are "black-pilled" is bad for the mental health of a person.

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Quote from: PerfectBody on April 05, 2022, 12:38:55 AMOnline dating is extremely toxic, don't be hard on yourself. Get some great photos (active and social life) and you'll do well.

Honestly I'm glad there've been no takers, given the rogues' gallery freak show I see every time I look.

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Quote from: Medium Drink Of Water on April 05, 2022, 02:04:04 AMHonestly I'm glad there've been no takers, given the rogues' gallery freak show I see every time I look.

Yeah, it’s pretty bad. And the few hot ones on there get thousands of likes so they literally have infinite choice. I’ve always done better dating in person. Heck, even when I was limping around a few months after my initial surgery last year I managed to get some numbers. I find that the online matches I get are lower quality overall as well. Still, being a dude you gotta cast a wide net, so like all of you I maintain a profile on some apps as well heh

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Quote from: BelowTheMean on April 05, 2022, 04:55:55 PMYeah, it’s pretty bad. And the few hot ones on there get thousands of likes so they literally have infinite choice. I’ve always done better dating in person. Heck, even when I was limping around a few months after my initial surgery last year I managed to get some numbers. I find that the online matches I get are lower quality overall as well. Still, being a dude you gotta cast a wide net, so like all of you I maintain a profile on some apps as well heh
I've hitherto seen very rare woman putting off their make-ups and posting selfies without fliters on social media like Douyin, Kuaishou, etc.. So who is inspring them to all the time make various requirements for males? They even don't dare expose their real faces and statures, always decorating the pics with various photographies and make-ups. I think something existent on this planet is distorting their self-identities/self-perceptions. N o wonder my country China's males are gradually losing sexual interests in females.