Quote from: Audous on January 12, 2022, 10:44:34 AMMate you're 5'9 which is US national average. You haven't seen that some people on this forum are like 5'2-5'6 which obviously you can't blame them that they will feel suicidal in our judgemental society.
There is a guy going around here at 5'7 ( can't remember his nickname) who goes around the forum saying this creepy things n as I said ,some would rather have degenerative diseases then being short which makes no sense to begin with because a degenerative disease it's by definition a disease u can't solve n will prevent u from doing basic tasks so what is the porpuse of being 6'5 with such a disease ?!
Ofc feeling a certain way can be understandable as ppl kill themself for way less then this but :
A- this is not the place to use such terms because ppl here are stressed n tired to begin with because this surgery is no joke
B- Saying such statements put downs other users who might have the same height but not same feelings.
This forum is about the surgery , not for psychological issues/evaluations that needs to be addressed by a psychiatrist at those stages .
Your statement it's not with hate but how do u think someone who js 5'2 to 5'6 or even less feels reading your comment ?
This surgery it's not just for short ppl to become avarage or for avarage ones to become tall ;
It is for everyone who wants to grow psychologically n physically n the happines of someone going from 5'2 to 5'7 with 2 surgeries might be x10 times mine that I go from 5'9 to almost 6 ft .
I can't understand because I feel short at 5'9 so for me 5'7 its even shorter then my starting height but he can't understand me either so its SO personal that no one should be allowed to judge how much happiness they can gain from going from tot height to another one .
Its individual n we can relate with the feelings of each other but we can't relate with their porpuses n situations so certain extreme personal pov should remain out of this forum according to me .
This should be a safe place ,not a toxic judgmental platform to make feel ppl even shorter or worst !
I'm by no mean the best or kind guy out there but there has to be a limit here and we all should STICK to the forum n the surgery .
Personal general opinions are welcome as might help in making a better decision but the ppl going around lately are probably not even 18 n are messing everything up because actuall ppl who wants this surgery are between 20-40 with normal lifes , normal looks,normal brain,normal or even good jobs n since this forum its anonymous we have no clue to who we are talking to n since we are sensitive to this topic we might take for good the opinion of a retard kid.
Some rules should be applied ,hopefully !!