So here what’s happen, as I mentioned b4 that I told my sis about the surgery and how it’s compulsory to have an escort for at least few days in order to get permeation so the gov will pay for all medical expanse + accommodation..
Well my sis came (she was here 10min ago), but not b4 telling everyone in home! She said I did what the best for you! She completely denied the fact that I told her million times that I don’t want anyone to know..!
Her intention was to make me back to home, set for few weeks then fly to Germany or US to get better treatment.. of course dad, bro all of them would help in that… sound good, right?!!!
No, not for me, god …how much I hate the censorship ! why do they think that I’m really in need for their help! And why in the hell they think I won’t survive without them! I told her no, I’m not going back home! Not now..! and not after you told my everyone… we spent around 3hours just arguing about this ..
And she told me something like I’m kind of selfish to not consider their feeling and do what I want ..!!
So now I won’t get the help from gov since I don’t have escort..! and I’ll defiantly not gonna agree to get back home to let my family take care of me and send me to US or Germany..
It’s not that I don’t want to get better treatment, but not in this way.. I could accept help from the gov cuz that consider as my right, but I’ll never accept it from my family.. !!
God, the next few days will have so much drama , I knw that .. ! I’m not even doubt that all my family could come here just to convenes me to go back.. !
VERY FERST STEP - INDIA - Dr. Anil Raheja
Hey Diso, I think it's time you accepted your family help. Every one needs help sometimes, it's not a sign of weakness. I wish you the best.
oh believe me they don't wanna help....
they want to convenience me that I'm not good enough to handle or to make my own Decision!
and funny how UAE seems to be so close to India ! dad just arrived 2h ago
he came kissed my forehead, said that he is sorry to see me like that and guess what he wants me of course to go back NOW! no matter what
so do they care about me !! I would say fk no! he just don't want ppl to say that he's
careless to let his daughter had surgery in India !!!
so I told them that I'll go back but this would be the last thing I would obey him on, and I don't want to see him or anyone again.. and it would be better if I'd mange to change my family name ..
don't want to relate to him anymore... fk I'm not 12 yrs old !!
loaded with ultracet , have plane to catch in the morning .. so better to sleep now
Hey Diso,
I understand your feelings I think. I am independent and I'm not going to tell my family when I do this procedure. But it sounds like your family really wants to help you. Your dad got on plane to a foreign country to come and help you. Of course he cares. Right now you need to focus on what is best for you long term.
Best of luck to you Diso. I hope you can get the proper medical treatment soon.
Update :
since my visa expired , I couldn't go home 
, Huh.. so dad and sis returned without me..
Hi Blackhawk, you're right I should focus on what the best for me.. that's why I would try to get a report from hospital (medical advice) stated that it's better for me to stay here rather than going to anyplace without prior medical plan from other hospital or clink.. ..
and that would help me... in which way? well just in case if I thought to sue dad in future..
You sure are disobedient. 
Hello diso,
Im from kuwait im intersting in doing the surgery in india
Can you send me your email
hi hadi
I'm not sure if I'm in position to give you any advice since obviously I made a bad choice to choose rah.
no thing new to say..
I just fixed an appointment with Dr. Naveen this Monday at 11:30AM
and I visited some doctors one is in forti, the other is in Apolo hospital, all of them agreed that the best thing to do right now is to do more pt, and do bone graft .. and wait for 6-7months more..
if dr naveen will suggest the same, I will go to forti hospital and start pt, and bone graft.. I will stay there too since it's seems to be much better than hotel..
I think I can stay 6 months more here in india, if that would ended up with good outcome..
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