whom to tell about surgery

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if doc tells that telling someone is compulsory whom to tell

1) parent
2) brother/sister
3) cousin
4) uncle/aunty

who will keep it secret4life and dont tell others??

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Quote from: toyz on November 05, 2022, 08:04:59 AMif doc tells that telling someone is compulsory whom to tell

1) parent
2) brother/sister
3) cousin
4) uncle/aunty

who will keep it secret4life and dont tell others??

I feel this is different by person like your question is basically the equivalent of saying " What is your favorite food? ". Obviously you should tell the person that you trust the most and that you know will keep it a secret if it needs to be. For me I told my parents and gf but noone else since for me I am 100% sure my cousins will gossip a lot about it.

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Quote from: JJ299 on November 05, 2022, 08:28:27 AMI feel this is different by person like your question is basically the equivalent of saying " What is your favorite food? ". Obviously you should tell the person that you trust the most and that you know will keep it a secret if it needs to be. For me I told my parents and gf but noone else since for me I am 100% sure my cousins will gossip a lot about it.

How did your gf reacted? Mine thinks I am crazy but still supports me

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I'm not telling a single person. Too risky and even my family members love to gossip.

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I will be doing this in secrecy. lengthening 7-7.5cm at most.

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How much are you lengthening?  Think you can really keep it a secret?

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Thing is the doctor forces all his patients to inform some family member and get consent.

I am not sure whom to tell. I dont trust anyone to keep quite and not tell others.

is there a way to make a family member understand to not to tell anyone??

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Maybe hire someone to pretend to be your family member?  I'd imagine that the doc won't be running a background check.

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Find another doctor. It’s really none of his business.

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Im telling nobody but am almost certain I cannot gaslight my dad.  Hes extremely perceptive and I will go from being shorter than him to taller than him.  So that will be fun to deal with.  My mom and sister will have no idea theyre too short.