whom to tell about surgery

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I told everyone. Gossip about what? be the coolest person they know. Be confident guys!
You have the guts to spend this money and go through all this pain and scared to tell your friends and family? 😂😂

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Quote from: lessthanavg8300 on November 05, 2022, 10:14:13 PMIm telling nobody but am almost certain I cannot gaslight my dad.  Hes extremely perceptive and I will go from being shorter than him to taller than him.  So that will be fun to deal with.  My mom and sister will have no idea theyre too short.

start wearing big boots with lifts around your dad 24/7 to get him accustomed to at least a 2 inch height increase, he will start asking you in the beginning and then get used to it, then you can do the surgery

Quote from: rafi2296 on November 06, 2022, 06:39:42 AMI told everyone. Gossip about what? be the coolest person they know. Be confident guys!
You have the guts to spend this money and go through all this pain and scared to tell your friends and family? 😂😂

you are a braver person than i am. im horrified by the thought of anyone finding out. i feel like it would be the death of my social life and id be forever ridiculed for this

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in my case people around me had
a). a minimum cosmetic intervention like nose job and they know the feeling of getting over an insecurity so they understood 100%
b). they had a minimum surgery that involved pain and they treat me good knowing how painful was for them , imagine how painful my surgery was.
c). friends and family who didn’t liked the idea but because they love me they accepted and been supportive (p.s. i told my family after the surgery to don’t keep them in stress during )
d). people who judged (oh, you did this for what? are you happy being disabled for so long now? you don’t look taller)

you say, yes . fk them.  people who will treat you bad are not your friends and you should take the opportunity to notice  and get them out of your life. people who love you will always be supportive.

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Nobody. If I told someone I would make them sign a legal NDA