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Anyone else not doing CLL for relationships?

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thaw1010
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Posted on Feb 12, 2022, 9:36 pm
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Don't get me wrong I'm not an incel or anything, it's just I feel like even after I get CLL, I wouldn't be interested in dating women knowing that many of them wouldn't have cared for me if I didn't get the surgery. It sorta leaves a bad taste in my mouth. I'm moreso doing this to not feel inferior to or intimidated by other dudes. Anyone else feel this way?
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Minkowski
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Posted on Feb 12, 2022, 11:05 pm
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Count me in. What's more you are not holding unhealthy opinions about love.
Actually I never believe love does not demand appearances, at least not too ugly and short anyway it's ridiculous to be delusional that if someone really loves you, she/he won't care about your appearance. But yeah everyone's requirements about appearances are not the same so it's lucky for you to have other girls crush on you even though you are short/ugly, but again, it never means relationships do not demand appearances and not have the threshold.
But being intimidated by others is kind stretching the reality or you have come across some guys with certain mental disorders or educated at a very level or other. At least I was never intimidated by others simply cuz of my height, at least I am always achieving enough respects and courtesies from others.
I am doing LL just to fulfill myself and wear off an obvious and major flaw of myself and you know I am kinda perfectionist so I do never allow myself to have any flaws like I don't accept my 2 big nostrils and unflexible hair LOL either LOL.
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ReadRothbard
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Posted on Feb 12, 2022, 11:07 pm
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I’m mostly just doing it to make up for my lost adult height via precocious puberty.
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ilovescience
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Posted on Feb 13, 2022, 12:07 am
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Quote from: five_six on February 12, 2022, 09:36:12 PMDon't get me wrong I'm not an incel or anything, it's just I feel like even after I get CLL, I wouldn't be interested in dating women knowing that many of them wouldn't have cared for me if I didn't get the surgery. It sorta leaves a bad taste in my mouth. I'm moreso doing this to not feel inferior to or intimidated by other dudes. Anyone else feel this way?

Sorry but I try to understand. You wanted to do LL because you wanted to feel your height is within the average of your friends. Not for romance?!
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Exxon
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Posted on Feb 13, 2022, 11:04 am
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Quote from: ReadRothbard on February 12, 2022, 11:07:28 PMI’m mostly just doing it to make up for my lost adult height via precocious puberty.

Basically my reason too.
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Medium Drink Of Water
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Posted on Feb 13, 2022, 3:32 pm
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Quote from: five_six on February 12, 2022, 09:36:12 PMDon't get me wrong I'm not an incel or anything, it's just I feel like even after I get CLL, I wouldn't be interested in dating women knowing that many of them wouldn't have cared for me if I didn't get the surgery. It sorta leaves a bad taste in my mouth. I'm moreso doing this to not feel inferior to or intimidated by other dudes. Anyone else feel this way?

It was definitely 50/50 for me, and now I really am scared of the same reaction from women.  You might try to meet a girl patient of your doctor while you're there.  I've found that I have a much stronger connection to and feel a lot more comfortable around fellow LL'ers of both sxxes than "outsiders" LOL.
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BetzLandLiberator
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Posted on Feb 13, 2022, 3:42 pm
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Quote from: five_six on February 12, 2022, 09:36:12 PMI'm moreso doing this to not feel inferior to or intimidated by other dudes. Anyone else feel this way?

So don't do it. LL won't fix this. There will always gonna be someone taller than you.
I was shorter than you before LL and I never felt intimidated. This is a mind issue that LL can't fix.
The issue with women LL can definitely fix.

I did mostly for women and, similarly to ReadRothbard, to recover the height I lost when I was a kid due to some health issues.
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Posted on Feb 13, 2022, 4:16 pm
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Quote from: BetzLandLiberator on February 13, 2022, 03:42:24 PMSo don't do it. LL won't fix this. There will always gonna be someone taller than you.
I was shorter than you before LL and I never felt intimidated. This is a mind issue that LL can't fix.
The issue with women LL can definitely fix.

I did mostly for women and, similarly to ReadRothbard, to recover the height I lost when I was a kid due to some health issues.

My experience was different.  LL helped a lot especially around average guys.  And so what if a 6'3 guy still towers over me?  Even they show more respect now.
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thaw1010
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Posted on Feb 13, 2022, 4:20 pm
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Quote from: ilovescience on February 13, 2022, 12:07:14 AMSorry but I try to understand. You wanted to do LL because you wanted to feel your height is within the average of your friends. Not for romance?!

Pretty much. I know it sounds weird lol
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thaw1010
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Posted on Feb 13, 2022, 4:24 pm
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Quote from: BetzLandLiberator on February 13, 2022, 03:42:24 PMSo don't do it. LL won't fix this. There will always gonna be someone taller than you.
I was shorter than you before LL and I never felt intimidated. This is a mind issue that LL can't fix.
The issue with women LL can definitely fix.

I did mostly for women and, similarly to ReadRothbard, to recover the height I lost when I was a kid due to some health issues.

Well obviously there will always be SOMEONE taller than me, but to go from the 20th to 80th percentile is a huge difference.

I also wonder if I did somehow stunt my growth. My sister is taller than me by about half an inch.
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