Anyone ever made up with exes? Need some suggestions!

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You're missing the entire point of my post. The point is that your view of the situation and her is extremely unhealthy dude.

You can't map out your life in terms of women and if they'll take you back. Once you let it go and just be a better, healthier person mentally you'll be surprised how many women flock to you.

It'll never get better if you keep fixating on getting her back now or some long plan to con her back after she graduates. Seriously this line of thinking is how i've seen dudes turn into stalkers and do some really fked up   without even realizing it.

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Quote from: Jayjames on January 16, 2022, 02:27:20 AMYou're missing the entire point of my post. The point is that your view of the situation and her is extremely unhealthy dude.

You can't map out your life in terms of women and if they'll take you back. Once you let it go and just be a better, healthier person mentally you'll be surprised how many women flock to you.

It'll never get better if you keep fixating on getting her back now or some long plan to con her back after she graduates. Seriously this line of thinking is how i've seen dudes turn into stalkers and do some really fked up   without even realizing it.
Sorry, I got you. I will just feel a little upset if she ghosts me after graduation but I don't mean I will do something very extreme to her just cuz she doesn't reconnect me and keep me in her mind. But still have learned something from this romance and she is a good 'teacher' LOL.

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I think part of the reason we yearn for our exes is the familiarity and nostalgia.

We tend to view the past with rose colored glasses. Some part of us wishes we could go back, if only for a day. I'm not dreaming of my ex anymore (because Pragmatically I know me dety social market value is not high enough to get her.)

It's important to have emotions, but be sure and view them with the detached logic of an indifferent bystander.

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Quote from: SuchLL on January 16, 2022, 08:07:52 PMDid she do the surgery for longer legs? I’ve seen a couple of girls who did the surgery for longer legs, not for height.

When we actually stood next to each other for the first time she was a little disappointed by how tall I was.

She wanted to look like a tall, glamorous model who's the same height as most men.  I don't remember her saying anything about just wanting longer legs but that may likely have been an additional motive.

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Quote from: Medium Drink Of Water on January 16, 2022, 10:13:35 PMWhen we actually stood next to each other for the first time she was a little disappointed by how tall I was.

She wanted to look like a tall, glamorous model who's the same height as most men.  I don't remember her saying anything about just wanting longer legs but that may likely have been an additional motive.

That's surprising. Because you weren't short prior to the surgery. You were 170, that's a good height in China.