Best way to achieve respects+confidences when you cannot do LL right away?

I am not giving up my life as some guys hostile towards me thinking of me cuz I am spouting a series of extreme viewpoints on this forum and not working on other aspects of my life in great desparates. But I am lost in how to achieve respects and confidences prior to LL and I know some guys will recommend me body building but I also saw some ppl said short men don't deserve body building cuz they are gonna look like a strong 12-13 y.o kid so forget about body building.
But I gotta make a head-up I am not all the time immersed in desparate like I look like on this forum and it's just that everytime I log in this forum that means I am feeling inferior about my height and the rest of my leisure time I am feeling very well.
I worked out three ways:
1.Join in a group/association discussing about some stuffs or holding activities that you are interested in but it's better to partake in those that don't need you to socialize with others offline cuz if offline you will feel outshone about your body and then your height neurosis will crack you up but if you don't need to escape from it then whatever.
2.Reading books, learning some courses, and even solve engineering/scientific problems/puzzles to achieve intelligence confidences, or if you are not a fan of the stuffs in those veins then achieve confidences in some games is another option but it tends to damage your body and sanity if you are addicted to them.
3.Working on your face, through learning knowledges about skincare, dress-up, or even plastic surgeries. I know some guys will retort me that if you are short your face is just a breeze but now that you are suffering from self-consciousnesses led by height neurosis(a sub form of body neurosis) then improving your face can make sense thereof.
Appreciating your guys' extensions!

Life can be fun, and it is not about height.

Quote from: ilovescience on February 28, 2022, 12:39:52 PMLife can be fun, and it is not about height.

I don't think you are wrong but it is heartbreaking as hell if your height is around or even under -2SD of the average height.

About how to improve your face, I have created a thread before:
http://www.limblengtheningforum.com/index.php?topic=69358.0

Join university societies if you're in university. Fun way to kill time and make friends.

Video Games

Movies

Study random skills

Quote from: Audous on March 01, 2022, 01:39:42 PMJoin university societies if you're in university. Fun way to kill time and make friends.

Video Games

Movies

Study random skills

I found it hard to socialize with others or even set up a social circle when you are too feeling inferior about your height like me. I am also attempting to get rid of being lonely but I am always agitated about my being short inducing to others' poking fun at my height or disrespecting me due to my height.. Yeah it pretty sucks as hell but I am changing my tactic——I am fixated on those short guys who have something in common with me. But I found no one. So it's kinda thorny.

Quote from: Audous on March 01, 2022, 01:39:42 PMJoin university societies if you're in university. Fun way to kill time and make friends.

Video Games

Movies

Study random skills

Nostalgic. I remember when I was a university student, I could see many people buying DS and playing it during the free time. Video games is a good way to make friends.

Strength training and getting to a low bodyfat is pretty much always going to be the best non-surgical thing you can do for your looks/self-esteem.

Quote from: ReadRothbard on March 02, 2022, 04:01:44 PMStrength training and getting to a low bodyfat is pretty much always going to be the best non-surgical thing you can do for your looks/self-esteem.

Is strength training same as weight training in the fitness center?

Quote from: HeightWarCaptain on March 02, 2022, 08:49:02 AMI found it hard to socialize with others or even set up a social circle when you are too feeling inferior about your height like me. I am also attempting to get rid of being lonely but I am always agitated about my being short inducing to others' poking fun at my height or disrespecting me due to my height.. Yeah it pretty sucks as hell but I am changing my tactic——I am fixated on those short guys who have something in common with me. But I found no one. So it's kinda thorny.

Wear those 3 inch thick shoes and then socialise, they look like normal shoes and they give you 5-6cm of height.

https://shoesthatmakeyoutaller.com/shoes/elevator-tennis-shoes?attribute_pa_color=black&attribute_pa_height-increase=39in&attribute_pa_size=95&currency=AUD&gclid=CjwKCAiAyPyQBhB6EiwAFUuakvbe-p3EBI0CK71dsdkBPNGGBr0ufTiNRmaaDsyElpMl9Sem4V-iWBoCw4QQAvD_BwE