I am not giving up my life as some guys hostile towards me thinking of me cuz I am spouting a series of extreme viewpoints on this forum and not working on other aspects of my life in great desparates. But I am lost in how to achieve respects and confidences prior to LL and I know some guys will recommend me body building but I also saw some ppl said short men don't deserve body building cuz they are gonna look like a strong 12-13 y.o kid so forget about body building.
But I gotta make a head-up I am not all the time immersed in desparate like I look like on this forum and it's just that everytime I log in this forum that means I am feeling inferior about my height and the rest of my leisure time I am feeling very well.
I worked out three ways:
1.Join in a group/association discussing about some stuffs or holding activities that you are interested in but it's better to partake in those that don't need you to socialize with others offline cuz if offline you will feel outshone about your body and then your height neurosis will crack you up but if you don't need to escape from it then whatever.
2.Reading books, learning some courses, and even solve engineering/scientific problems/puzzles to achieve intelligence confidences, or if you are not a fan of the stuffs in those veins then achieve confidences in some games is another option but it tends to damage your body and sanity if you are addicted to them.
3.Working on your face, through learning knowledges about skincare, dress-up, or even plastic surgeries. I know some guys will retort me that if you are short your face is just a breeze but now that you are suffering from self-consciousnesses led by height neurosis(a sub form of body neurosis) then improving your face can make sense thereof.
Appreciating your guys' extensions!
Best way to achieve respects+confidences when you cannot do LL right away?
Quote from: ilovescience on February 28, 2022, 12:39:52 PMLife can be fun, and it is not about height.
I don't think you are wrong but it is heartbreaking as hell if your height is around or even under -2SD of the average height.
About how to improve your face, I have created a thread before:
http://www.limblengtheningforum.com/index.php?topic=69358.0
Quote from: Audous on March 01, 2022, 01:39:42 PMJoin university societies if you're in university. Fun way to kill time and make friends.
Video Games
Movies
Study random skills
I found it hard to socialize with others or even set up a social circle when you are too feeling inferior about your height like me. I am also attempting to get rid of being lonely but I am always agitated about my being short inducing to others' poking fun at my height or disrespecting me due to my height.. Yeah it pretty sucks as hell but I am changing my tactic——I am fixated on those short guys who have something in common with me. But I found no one. So it's kinda thorny.
Quote from: zaozari on March 03, 2022, 04:12:07 PMUsing elevator shoes some time before surgery may also have the advantage that less people will notice your height gain and starts making questions after LL. After lenghtening, as somebody here suggested, you can start to use again elevator shoes but starting by low height and slowly increasing it again if you wish.
I never used elevators cuz not only will it seem to others you are feeling upset about your height but also they will somehow ruin your proportion if your proportion is not excellent originally
Quote from: zaozari on March 07, 2022, 09:54:13 PMFINALLY A POSITIVE, SMART, SENSIBLE, RESPECTFUL, CONTRIBUTION, elevators apart, compared to all other "Sorcerer" (="PET") 's topics and posts.
Do you really think apart from spouting your so-called 'self-inflicted' theories on this forum I am not really doing anything else LOL?
I am also spending leisure time on solving college Math problems and reading Data Structure textbook and I just have yet to on purpose bring it up but now that you think I am just spewing extreme theories then it's time I gotta inform you of that.
What's more self-value expressing, I am also grinding on my own philosophy book named <Balance and Equality> and I am also designing my second book about humanity, including human's ethnics, laws, mental activities, etc. So what do you think I am doing? Just like a 11/12 y.o kid who at the same time invaded into this forum and keep ruining this forum with chewing Lay's and drinking Cola Cao LOL? If you don't believe I am really working out on random books I can give you the full texts but they are all in Chinese and not translated although I can translate them as well. I just can't spare that much time to do that.
Quote from: zaozari on March 09, 2022, 01:55:36 PMWTF...You changed back to "Sorcerer" again after turning to "PET" first and then to "ManWithLeukemia" in the last days??
You're really nuts and dishonest.
You didn't understand that even after not standing up with you anymore I was still trying to help you in two other topics due to some sympathy and to your psychotic total desperation.
MOD told me not to change my username to the one including distorted ideology so I changed my username back. So what's wrong?
Quote from: virginforeverlmao on March 18, 2022, 09:06:06 PM@Sorcrer what is your current height that makes you feel so bad about yourself?
162cm, which imo is not better than those situations that I was describing.
Quote from: virginforeverlmao on March 18, 2022, 09:33:57 PMokay, 1,62m indeed is not an easy height. If you can afford LL, you can try to reach 1,70m.
Else I can only tell you to try to improve other traits that women look for in men. 
Some women will notice that. Create the best version of yourself. Make that your ultimate goal
and work towards it.
Dont just throw your life away because of one characteristic you dont have.
There is more to a human being than height. Instead focus on the good things.
Yeah it's too emasculating that I'd rather sacrifice 95% of my life time for being 188+cm and I don't wanna live at this height for a lifetime. That's too distressing and debilitating. I am rn really convinced dying young is not the worst at all unless you are living a happy life.
But all negative ventations aside. I concur with your suggestions to me here and I am not giving up and I am really working on other attributes of myself. I am a big fan of Physics, Math, Philsophy and Music. So I am not a midget without any bonus like someone here is thinking of me.
I am also grinding on my own book named <Balance and Equality> but due to the Graduate Entrance Examination I can't work on it with full concentrations. I shared it with several friends and they all gave a thumb-up. So I think if I can toil through it I can achieve great societal respects and self-confidences.
Quote from: zaozari on March 09, 2022, 10:42:26 PMYou, you are all wrong. You are a walking cancer dreaming powerlessly about getting longer legs. Your record in this forum is a comic tragedy for psychiatric textbooks.
IMO it's very normal to have mental illnesses as a manlet tbh.
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