Cortavious Romious | MMA Highlights | Heart over Height | 5'3''

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Being short is universally unattractive to women. Short men struggle with dating. There are no exceptions.

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I love that video. To be fair, no one wants to be labeled a flip-flopper once they hear that he's a famous author, millionaire, etc. Picking a tall guy as a first choice is harmless, it's simply labeled as preference (and not necessarily dislike for the other men). But choosing another guy who wasn't her first pick because of additional info, now that makes her sound shallow.

But what one of the women said is truly shocking. She says that the only reason she'd pick the shortest guy is if all the other guys were murderers. I'm sure that there's a heavy dose of hyperbole, since I doubt she'd want to date a man who beats women and steals for a living, but it's really showing how instinctive some people can be about preference.

To be fair, all of these women were taller than the man, and they were of similar height. If they had a woman that was the same height as the shortest man, or maybe shorter, she may have been inclined to consider him. Ethnicities can vary preference as well, some cultures value height more than others.

Dating short isn't a dealbreaker for every woman, but dating shorter is very different. Women get judged for dating shorter guys, and other men constantly hit on her as if the boyfriend is invisible. And on the other side of the coin is very tall women and their dating experience. It can be very difficult to find men who are taller than them; many men are also intimidated and tend to date women who are shorter than them as well. When it comes to online dating, many women filter short men while men filter taller women.

In any case, short stature isn't a death sentence, it's just life on a harder setting. Some do fine, some thrive, some get lucky, but many struggle.

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Some of you need therapy here. That will help way more with women than other things.

Quote from: MrHandsome on December 26, 2017, 11:50:53 PMShort men struggle with dating.

Sure, but why are you obsessing over this? You're 5'8. You don't even live or go through life in the same manner as men 5'5 and under.

Get the plastic surgery if you want it (that helps if done well), but thinking you need things like penile enlargement to date is absolutely crazy.

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Quote from: Tiger9898 on December 26, 2017, 10:46:00 PMMaybe, but I knew him before this post. What makes me nervous is some people' s opinion about short guys like "they can't compete for girls or other things.  My height is 163 cm and my uncle's son height is also 163.  I accept that I am not at dating girls because of my self confidence.  But my uncle' son is really very good at dating girls because of his high self confidence.  I know height plays an important role in dating. But self confidence also plays an important role as much as height. I will do LL this year to boost my self con and I hope it will work. I just kindly ask all of you please don't humiliate short guys with some words(in terms of disadvantages in dating girls). It really affects them psychologically when they read this forum ( also me as we begin to feel useless)
I don't humiliate anyone, I just say that short guys (less than 5.7, not even that short as this 5.3 ft man) have a very tough time in dating and they are almost invisible to good looking women even if they have a good face or a built body.
Thats the reality and my role here is to speak the truth, not to write that everything is ok if you have confidence even if younare short and all these bs because clearly they are lies.
After all, we are here because we acknowledge how a big disadvantage it is to be short and plan to do (or did) LL.
So no, I don't care if someone feels humiliated when I write that short men are invisible for women because I broke my legs to change my height and I wouldn't have done something so extreme if I didn't believe that height is very important.

So if someone wants to feel ok with his short stature he is free to not listen my words and continue happily his life.
However, I don't think that a happy short man would have been in that forum, so from the moment he is here he may knows that my words are true and just want to change his body, not see some random 5.3 guys who happened to win another lunatic on the ring and feel good about it. Because this won't change at all the way women first and society secondly view short men which is more humiliating than thw words of a former short man (me) who tried hard to change all these.

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Quote from: Body Builder on December 27, 2017, 02:24:15 AMI don't humiliate anyone, I just say that short guys (less than 5.7, not even that short as this 5.3 ft man) have a very tough time in dating and they are almost invisible to good looking women even if they have a good face or a built body.
Thats the reality and my role here is to speak the truth, not to write that everything is ok if you have confidence even if younare short and all these bs because clearly they are lies.
After all, we are here because we acknowledge how a big disadvantage it is to be short and plan to do (or did) LL.
So no, I don't care if someone feels humiliated when I write that short men are invisible for women because I broke my legs to change my height and I wouldn't have done something so extreme if I didn't believe that height is very important.

So if someone wants to feel ok with his short stature he is free to not listen my words and continue happily his life.
However, I don't think that a happy short man would have been in that forum, so from the moment he is here he may knows that my words are true and just want to change his body, not see some random 5.3 guys who happened to win another lunatic on the ring and feel good about it. Because this won't change at all the way women first and society secondly view short men which is more humiliating than thw words of a former short man (me) who tried hard to change all these.

Let's just say 5'5" and under and I'm with you on this.

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So. You mean that after the surgery which will make me 169 cm(172 maybe with shoe lifts), I will still have confidence problem?

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Quote from: Body Builder on December 26, 2017, 06:07:11 PMI think that being attractive to women is more important to any man than beating some lunatics in a cage and when you are out of it noone giving a   about you because you are ugly or too short.

So I can't understand why someone should care if a 5.3 fighter beat some opponents in a ring and not how he can look better to the opposite gender.

Well said.

On the other hand there are some people who are in love with their job. This man's biggest passion may be beating some lunatics in a cage. It might be more important to him than attracting women. But not for me or you.

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Quote from: Tiger9898 on December 27, 2017, 08:54:01 AMSo. You mean that after the surgery which will make me 169 cm(172 maybe with shoe lifts), I will still have confidence problem?
I don't know, this is mainly up to you.
Personally I am not completely happy with anything less than my country's average (1.78) and although I am ok with my 1.75 morning height, I still have issues.
So for me 1.69 (which is about my pre LL height) is not enough. Maybe for you it is though.


Jexus yes, for him it could be very important. I just wanted to say that it doesn't change anything for the way I think and how society see short men than one capable fighter is 5.3.

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In my country, average male height is 171 and believe me most girls don't care about your height if you are above 170 and educated( also a little bit handsome). I would like to be 175 but i need 7 cm femur+ 6 cm tibia lengthening in order to be 175 which will make me look ugly with so long legs. So it seems like there is no way for me to lengthen more than 7 cm(

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Quote from: myloginacct on December 27, 2017, 01:37:53 AMSome of you need therapy here. That will help way more with women than other things.

Sure, but why are you obsessing over this? You're 5'8. You don't even live or go through life in the same manner as men 5'5 and under.

Get the plastic surgery if you want it (that helps if done well), but thinking you need things like penile enlargement to date is absolutely crazy.

5'8 is still short where I live objectively and also my penis is average (not enough for women these days given that they can just meet some above average well hung guy).

Also I am the shortest one out of my brothers which bothers me as well.

I know what it is like to be 5'5 or under. It sucks balls honestly. My face is actually above average, but that doesn't cut it these days with women. Anyway I have a lot of work cut out for me, that's for sure.