Dads are the problem with this operation, they dont acccept or is just my case?

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Pussyslayer hahahaha, there should be a movie.

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For me it is worse, because result my father too complex. It is a size close to mine (5'8 ") his sister is tall (5'7") and now he is just talking about it. It is worst of all, my parents don't stop to control the heightof my brother; They think my problem is BTW, they force me to do stuff like me dress, go out, etc. then I dont care. I hate. I stopped the pool because of it, and as if they did not know they keep asking me to accompany them and I refuse as they yell at me. When I listen to my father, I feel all the people he knows are at least 6'5. So I stopped to talk to them. Mom forces me to go see a psychologist, I stopped at the first appointment because I dont think I have problems. Already when my aunt to broach the subject with me I felt bad. In France it is not everyday to see women of this height. Plus she still has big heels, she's 5'11 with.
I feel it will be very hard, I think do the operation without their talk.

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theophilo, sometimes you want things than other near people dont want, because the dont understand; so save money and do it by yourself, if you are 18+ you can do it without their agreement, and you can work for money.

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Quote from: theophilo on August 04, 2016, 04:56:16 PMFor me it is worse, because result my father too complex. It is a size close to mine (5'8 ") his sister is tall (5'7") and now he is just talking about it. It is worst of all, my parents don't stop to control the heightof my brother; They think my problem is BTW, they force me to do stuff like me dress, go out, etc. then I dont care. I hate. I stopped the pool because of it, and as if they did not know they keep asking me to accompany them and I refuse as they yell at me. When I listen to my father, I feel all the people he knows are at least 6'5. So I stopped to talk to them. Mom forces me to go see a psychologist, I stopped at the first appointment because I dont think I have problems. Already when my aunt to broach the subject with me I felt bad. In France it is not everyday to see women of this height. Plus she still has big heels, she's 5'11 with.
I feel it will be very hard, I think do the operation without their talk.

To be perfectly honest i didn't even said anything to my parents that i plan to do something like that(even when i could get refunded LL).

If you feel bad about it i can tell you that my parents don't even care that i have ongoing depression(which doesn't suprise me since they were abusive towards me until my suicide attempt). Mom keeps braging that it's everything in my head(orly) and i can just "start" being happy(which isn't truth since my depression isn't entirely my choice because im suffering from Hypothyroidism which is altering your mood).

And btw you should go to psychologist since you have a problem, your relations with parents and how you feel bad about your height.
Trust me talking helps.

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Quote from: YourSpaceBoyfriend on August 04, 2016, 05:23:16 PMMom keeps braging that it's everything in my head(orly) and i can just "start" being happy(which isn't truth since my depression isn't entirely my choice because im suffering from Hypothyroidism which is altering your mood).

She's probably just trying to be helpful. I hope so anyway.

My mom is on the opposite side of the "it's all in your head" argument.

Today she told me that I was lucky I found a woman that accepts me for my shortness and that I had better hold on to her otherwise "good luck finding another one like that"

My dad said "He's not even short!"

My mom just glared at him like he was retarded.

I started counting out loud using my fingers. Mom said "What are you doing?"

I said "Counting all the women I have f*cked that didn't give a sh*t about my height...hang on, might take me awhile"

She called me a pig. So I said, "Look who's talking, now why don't you go f*ck yourself"

Then I walked out to my car that was sitting in the driveway of the house I bought her, and left.

She's dead to me.

Parents man... 

Edit: Now she is texting me repeatedly with apologies. I'm a 32 year old man, I am waaayyy past this drama from her. Don't need it.

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Your mom is a bad person, nobody in this fking world should be name by their defects or qualities, there is when discriminations arises. Height is a luck matter, so what can we do?

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That's insane, CC. If you choose to do LL make sure her bad parenting doesn't influence the decision.
My dad used to take some jabs at my height but it was all in good fun. He's 5'4 too so meh.

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Quote from: CCMidwest on August 04, 2016, 07:35:04 PM
Today she told me that I was lucky I found a woman that accepts me for my shortness and that I had better hold on to her otherwise "good luck finding another one like that"

Aren't you like 5"8?

Comon, what your mom said is pure non sense, let alone coming from a mom.

*Edited* She's still your mom and you should forgive her.

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Quote from: onemorefoot on August 04, 2016, 07:51:08 PMYour mom is a bad person, nobody in this fking world should be name by their defects or qualities, there is when discriminations arises. Height is a luck matter, so what can we do?

Quote from: Penguinn on August 04, 2016, 07:51:51 PMThat's insane, CC. If you choose to do LL make sure her bad parenting doesn't influence the decision.
My dad used to take some jabs at my height but it was all in good fun. He's 5'4 too so meh.

Thanks guys. The feelz man! the feelz! lol

I'm used to it from her. Clear into my early 20's she would buy me pants that were too long, or shoes that were too big, and tell me I'd grow into them because "that's what real men do...they get big"

Really? There's not a single guy on her side of the family that is over 5'5!

Penguinn, I hear ya on not letting it influence my decision. I'll have to do some serious soul searching to figure out if it is.

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Quote from: NoRegrets on August 04, 2016, 07:58:19 PMAren't you like 5"8?

Comon, what your mom said is pure non sense, let alone coming from a mom.

Yeah, just a hair under 5'8. I'm at 5'7 if I squat heavy, which is often.

It is non-sense, for sure.