I feel like crap. All you guys have the same leg length as me (76 cm). However, all of you are like 5'6-5'7 with wingspans of up to 5'10. My sitting height is 78 cm, my shoulders are extremely narrow (15 inches wide), and my wingspan is of 5'3. I feel like crap I wish I was dead.
Listen buddy, I feel for you, but still realize that there are many men who are your height and live happy lives. We (the limb lengthening forum) are a small subset of people who place way too much value on height.
I saw a guy shorter than you in a wheelchair at a concert with a smoking hot girl by his side and he was having a blast.
You have to make some compromises. Try to do other things like meditation, running, cycling, and swimming which I guarantee will make you feel great if you keep at it.
You may win over a girl's heart if she sees that you are not bothered by your height. My heart melts when I see a girl with a disability who is happy, kind, and makes the best out of it (not saying you have a disability, but just saying...). I'm weird like that, I know, but believe me, there are so many kind people who don't give a flying fcuk about your height, of superficial matters in general.
Once you have a more positive and balanced outlook, than maybe consider CLL, but first you must realize that height does not = life.
Some people have easy paths to happiness in life, some have difficult paths. I suggest you see a psychologist, because he/she may be able to direct you towards the right path.
LWM, you and endomorphisme appear to be in the same position. Maybe he can help you cope with stress techniques because he's experienced the same discrimination due to his height and proportions.
And ditch the sad frog 
Quote from: Deepak Chopra on April 08, 2015, 12:10:22 AMLWM, you and endomorphisme appear to be in the same position. Maybe he can help you cope with stress techniques because he's experienced the same discrimination due to his height and proportions.
Who is endomorphisme?
Quote from: LittleWhiteMan on April 08, 2015, 08:15:47 PM Who is endomorphisme?
I don't know how you manage to scroll pass his name
but he is pretty awesome.
Quote from: LittleWhiteMan on April 07, 2015, 11:57:37 PMI feel like crap. All you guys have the same leg length as me (76 cm). However, all of you are like 5'6-5'7 with wingspans of up to 5'10. My sitting height is 78 cm, my shoulders are extremely narrow (15 inches wide), and my wingspan is of 5'3. I feel like crap I wish I was dead.
I know that your situation is difficult. But the only you can do is to try to improve it with what you have. You will never be tall or average. But you could improve youar actual body with LL.
I think that you could be 5'6 and dont look very disproportionate
Quote from: NewHeights on April 08, 2015, 12:09:28 AMListen buddy, I feel for you, but still realize that there are many men who are your height and live happy lives. We (the limb lengthening forum) are a small subset of people who place way too much value on height.
I saw a guy shorter than you in a wheelchair at a concert with a smoking hot girl by his side and he was having a blast.
You have to make some compromises. Try to do other things like meditation, running, cycling, and swimming which I guarantee will make you feel great if you keep at it.
You may win over a girl's heart if she sees that you are not bothered by your height. My heart melts when I see a girl with a disability who is happy, kind, and makes the best out of it (not saying you have a disability, but just saying...). I'm weird like that, I know, but believe me, there are so many kind people who don't give a flying fcuk about your height, of superficial matters in general.
Once you have a more positive and balanced outlook, than maybe consider CLL, but first you must realize that height does not = life.
Some people have easy paths to happiness in life, some have difficult paths. I suggest you see a psychologist, because he/she may be able to direct you towards the right path.
That short guy on a wheelchair you saw might have been having a blast, but you do not know if he was truly happy. OK, he has a smoking hottie next to him, so what?. Go find yourself a hot girl and let your height be... Will you be able to accept that?
Quote from: sadboy on April 09, 2015, 10:48:01 PMThat short guy on a wheelchair you saw might have been having a blast, but you do not know if he was truly happy. OK, he has a smoking hottie next to him, so what?. Go find yourself a hot girl and let your height be... Will you be able to accept that?
I really can't tell you what was going through his head, I can only tell you what I saw. You can tell a lot about someone by the look on their face and the way they carry themselves actually.
You are right though, I can only make an educated guess based on what I observed, so I could have been wrong about that guy. However, you are making a less educated assumption that he is miserable just because he's short and crippled. A wise man once said, "you live your whole life in the confines of your head".
I have known many people with disabilities, many people who are very short, many who are ugly, and many who are tall.
I can tell you that there are happy and sad people in all of those groups.
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