Posted on Mar 17, 2015, 1:05 am
#1
I think this guy's case is definitely one where cosmetic lengthening would result in a benefit to his quality of life. He's a good looking guy and the only thing holding him back is his height. His story made me very sympathetic to his struggles. I found it on the r/short sub-reddit.
r/short thread:
People say not to let it define me and be confident, but it's so hard to do this when you're a lot shorter than other guys. Average height where I live (US) is around 5'10" for guys, so I'm almost a foot under this. I was the tiniest kid/teenager ever and the doctor found that I had a treatable growth hormone deficiency around the time I was 12. My dad is 5'11" and my mom is 5'5", so I was predicted to be around 5'4"-5'6" without treatment and 5'10"-5'11" with it. My family is very poor and they figured that the height range wasn't really that short, so my parents decided not to go through with it (the treatment is expensive). I actually remember being upset at the prospect of being 5'5".
I have always been business saavy and got accepted to a competitive business program for high school. When I entered high school as a freshman, I was only 4'7". Teenagers are cruel and high school was tough for me. I was regularly asked why I was so short, if I was a midget, and stuff along those lines. I was getting comments every single day about my height - sometimes jokingly from my friends, other times it’s from teachers or even people I don’t know in the hallway. It took a toll on me. It seemed like it was always on people's minds when I was talking to them. I found out my growth plates were closed when I was 16, and I only measured 4'10.5". I still legitimately believed I'd be at least 5'4" up until that point and was so upset.
College was better, or maybe I just got used to my height. People still said things to me, but they weren't usually so upfront about it anymore. One time I was walking around campus though and this random jackass walks up to me and says "Hey man. You know, every time you come out on the streets and walk around, everybody is looking at you and thinking 'Damn, look how short that man is.' I just wanted you to be aware of that." I don't think the guy even went to the school, but still. This is probably more extreme than the stuff many of you have to deal with.
I majored in business in college and graduated last year. Long story short, I've been living at home for almost a year now and after 30+ interviews have not gotten a single job offer, even after having what I'd call mostly great interviews. It might not have been "you're too short to work here", but it's implied. I'll give you a story. For one interview I'm expected to meet up with one interviewer and one other interviewee at a local coffee shop. The interviewer gets there and calls me and the other guy up, so we go meet him at the front and the 3 of us go stand in line. The interviewer is probably 6'5", and the other interviewee is about 6'4". The two of them were talking and basically at eye level and I'm standing there like an idiot feeling like a little kid. Anyone could tell the decision was made before I had the chance to say a word by the look on the interviewers face when he looked at the two of us.
Another time I interviewed with these 2 men, it went great, and as I'm leaving I need to use the bathroom on the way out. Well the interviewers think I left, because they are walking past the bathroom and I randomly start hearing them say "Holy , that guy was like a midget." to which the other guy says "Do we need to put a 'you must be this tall to interview' sign outside the door?"
It's like this that make it hard for me to continue looking for jobs on a daily basis. I feel like no matter what I do, I can’t get people to take me seriously. What are my options here - I need to get a job that's not working at McDonalds, but it seems like my height is an instant deal-breaker nearly every time. If you want to see what I look like (if this helps the cause at all), here's the thread I posted earlier in r/Rateme.
http://www.reddit.com/r/short/comments/2z3u15/411_male_here_24_years_old_i_try_to_be_confident/
r/rateme thread:
1) Headshot: http://i.imgur.com/lfUZeQT.jpg
2) At a party: http://i.imgur.com/DTx6FxH.jpg
3/4) These guys are all around 5'7"-5'11":
http://i.imgur.com/NwXXMRP.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/bIA3Oea.jpg
I have a college degree in business/sales and have been on over 30+ interviews in the past year with no success. I have excellent credentials and social/interviewing skills, but employers just don’t seem to want a 4’11” guy representing them in sales. I also have little/no luck with girls - I go to bars often and no girl is willing to give me the time of day. So I'd like you guys to rate me and be honest
Thanks.
http://www.reddit.com/r/Rateme/comments/2z3g8s/m24_im_only_411_and_my_height_has_made_it/
r/short thread:
People say not to let it define me and be confident, but it's so hard to do this when you're a lot shorter than other guys. Average height where I live (US) is around 5'10" for guys, so I'm almost a foot under this. I was the tiniest kid/teenager ever and the doctor found that I had a treatable growth hormone deficiency around the time I was 12. My dad is 5'11" and my mom is 5'5", so I was predicted to be around 5'4"-5'6" without treatment and 5'10"-5'11" with it. My family is very poor and they figured that the height range wasn't really that short, so my parents decided not to go through with it (the treatment is expensive). I actually remember being upset at the prospect of being 5'5".
I have always been business saavy and got accepted to a competitive business program for high school. When I entered high school as a freshman, I was only 4'7". Teenagers are cruel and high school was tough for me. I was regularly asked why I was so short, if I was a midget, and stuff along those lines. I was getting comments every single day about my height - sometimes jokingly from my friends, other times it’s from teachers or even people I don’t know in the hallway. It took a toll on me. It seemed like it was always on people's minds when I was talking to them. I found out my growth plates were closed when I was 16, and I only measured 4'10.5". I still legitimately believed I'd be at least 5'4" up until that point and was so upset.
College was better, or maybe I just got used to my height. People still said things to me, but they weren't usually so upfront about it anymore. One time I was walking around campus though and this random jackass walks up to me and says "Hey man. You know, every time you come out on the streets and walk around, everybody is looking at you and thinking 'Damn, look how short that man is.' I just wanted you to be aware of that." I don't think the guy even went to the school, but still. This is probably more extreme than the stuff many of you have to deal with.
I majored in business in college and graduated last year. Long story short, I've been living at home for almost a year now and after 30+ interviews have not gotten a single job offer, even after having what I'd call mostly great interviews. It might not have been "you're too short to work here", but it's implied. I'll give you a story. For one interview I'm expected to meet up with one interviewer and one other interviewee at a local coffee shop. The interviewer gets there and calls me and the other guy up, so we go meet him at the front and the 3 of us go stand in line. The interviewer is probably 6'5", and the other interviewee is about 6'4". The two of them were talking and basically at eye level and I'm standing there like an idiot feeling like a little kid. Anyone could tell the decision was made before I had the chance to say a word by the look on the interviewers face when he looked at the two of us.
Another time I interviewed with these 2 men, it went great, and as I'm leaving I need to use the bathroom on the way out. Well the interviewers think I left, because they are walking past the bathroom and I randomly start hearing them say "Holy , that guy was like a midget." to which the other guy says "Do we need to put a 'you must be this tall to interview' sign outside the door?"
It's like this that make it hard for me to continue looking for jobs on a daily basis. I feel like no matter what I do, I can’t get people to take me seriously. What are my options here - I need to get a job that's not working at McDonalds, but it seems like my height is an instant deal-breaker nearly every time. If you want to see what I look like (if this helps the cause at all), here's the thread I posted earlier in r/Rateme.
http://www.reddit.com/r/short/comments/2z3u15/411_male_here_24_years_old_i_try_to_be_confident/
r/rateme thread:
1) Headshot: http://i.imgur.com/lfUZeQT.jpg
2) At a party: http://i.imgur.com/DTx6FxH.jpg
3/4) These guys are all around 5'7"-5'11":
http://i.imgur.com/NwXXMRP.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/bIA3Oea.jpg
I have a college degree in business/sales and have been on over 30+ interviews in the past year with no success. I have excellent credentials and social/interviewing skills, but employers just don’t seem to want a 4’11” guy representing them in sales. I also have little/no luck with girls - I go to bars often and no girl is willing to give me the time of day. So I'd like you guys to rate me and be honest
Thanks.http://www.reddit.com/r/Rateme/comments/2z3g8s/m24_im_only_411_and_my_height_has_made_it/

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