Handling rejection by girls for being short

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Quote from: wants2growtaller on June 16, 2021, 02:00:56 AMHeighjt is just one characteristics of the person. Its not the whole thing. But because we live in a world that treats people based on what they look like and that judges people by everything humans make it seem like if a person is tall or short thats all they are. We dont live in a kind world. We live in the animal kingdom. Where the strong survivles and the weak get left behind.

Honestly, just shut up.

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Quote from: wants2growtaller on June 16, 2021, 02:00:56 AMHeight is just one characteristics of the person. Its not the whole thing. But because we live in a world that treats people based on what they look like and that judges people by everything humans make it seem like if a person is tall or short that's all they are. We don't live in a kind world. We live in the animal kingdom. Where the strong survivles and the weak get left behind.

Being short is very tough.  I WAS 5'1" and still only 5'4", so I understand and can relate to how difficult it is.  Short men are in a position where we must improvise, strategize, compromise and realize much more than the average man.  This very fact also makes us shorter men, stronger in so many ways.  If you can harness the inner strength that difficulty presents in life; you'll surprise yourself on just how great life can get.  I'll emphasize again that a great life, one much better than even the tall man, is still attainable.  I'm living proof of that.   I'm wealthy, attractive to many woman, and I'm powerful. 

One must do everything they they can to not miss great opportunities in life because one is so obsessed with their height.   This is easier said than done.  CLL is an awesome procedure that can help to remedy the height issue.  While we wait for CLL, do not hesitate to refine yourself. Focus on the aspects of your life you CAN control.  You'll thank yourself for it in the future.  If I can do it; so can everyone else.

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Quote from: Realistic on May 12, 2021, 04:11:52 AMHow do you guys handle rejection by women for being short?
How do you move on?
For me, it stays with me for a long time esp. when I see that most of my friends are able to get dates much more easily..


I usually try to distract by focusing on work


It stays with you MENTALLY, F*ck anyone that tries to tell you otherwise. The only way you can combat that is by being rich and once you get rich you start to see that women ain’t sh*t. I’m 5’7 and muscular with a beard. I know I look good, I’ve been with hundreds of women but there are some women that are “out of my reach” only because they’re taller than me. It’s tough.

If you can save up for Limb Lengthening...Do it...if not I don’t really know what else you can do about it.

Also you have to remember women are not sh**t naturally...and you’ll always be in more demand than a woman. The world was built and is run by men. But we have sexual needs and that’s where women come in.

Don’t be too harsh on yourself. You don’t have to do anything to get your mind just let the   pass. It’s a man world.

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Quote from: daikioni on May 12, 2021, 04:27:50 AMIf you were 6 feet the same girl will still reject you.You cant be liked by everyone and everyone has flaws.
Bonus advice stop bitching about being rejected by girls on the internet nobody cares.A therapist can listen to your problems and help with your problems!
I hope you have a pleasant day!

There’s saying that goes IF YOU HAVE NOTHING GOOD TO SAY, say nothing. Your response is highly unnecessary and adds 0 value to the topic.

Typical internet gangster. That   sounds like something someone said to you so stop recycling material. Bit**h *Ss

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Quote from: Fiveandsomething on June 16, 2021, 08:56:26 PMThere’s saying that goes IF YOU HAVE NOTHING GOOD TO SAY, say nothing. Your response is highly unnecessary and adds 0 value to the topic.

Typical internet gangster. That   sounds like something someone said to you so stop recycling material. Bit**h *Ss

He is correct doe, this person seriously needs a shrink


Quote from: wants2growtaller on June 16, 2021, 02:00:56 AMHeighjt is just one characteristics of the person. Its not the whole thing. But because we live in a world that treats people based on what they look like and that judges people by everything humans make it seem like if a person is tall or short thats all they are. We dont live in a kind world. We live in the animal kingdom. Where the strong survivles and the weak get left behind.

Tall ≠ strong

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Quote from: YourSpaceBoyfriend on June 17, 2021, 12:05:18 PMTall ≠ strong

With everything else being equal, then the taller is stronger.

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I don’t know if this helps you guys or not.  I was 5’9 originally and height was almost never a reason for rejection for me.  So for those who have a notion that women require 6’ or higher, most don’t know what 6’ looks like irl since most men lie about height.  Most women thought I was 5’10-11.  I know tons of guys 5’7-8 barefoot who are doing fine with dating.  But they also lie and add an inch to their height.  I imagine it is tough dating below 5’6 but the older you get the less it matters.  Same with being tall.  It matters a lot in your 20s and then becomes less important.

So for those of you with a goal of getting to “average” for your country, your rejection rate for your height will be negligible once you’re average.  Except for dating sites, but those aren’t at all like irl dating anyways.  I met much prettier, nicer, smarter women in person than I ever did on dating sites.  Especially if you’re short I would avoid dating sites.  The prettiest girl I’ve ever been with was taller than me.

I know this is a sensitive topic and I know I probably sound annoying as a 5’9 guy telling shorter men to keep their chins up… but please try to stay optimistic.  Get taller for yourself.  Dating improvements will follow

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I 100% agree, try to focus on the things in your immediate locus of control:

1- Healthy/Workout/Diet
2- Money
3- Low debt

and when you do, you will acquire that $$$ for LL.

5'7 guy and have dated girls that were 5'10 to 6 ft, its all about your attitude and confidence.
I personally am seeking LL not to get to that magical 6ft, but closer to average.

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Quote from: Montreal172 on June 17, 2021, 07:04:20 PMI 100% agree, try to focus on the things in your immediate locus of control:

1- Healthy/Workout/Diet
2- Money
3- Low debt

and when you do, you will acquire that $$$ for LL.

5'7 guy and have dated girls that were 5'10 to 6 ft, its all about your attitude and confidence.
I personally am seeking LL not to get to that magical 6ft, but closer to average.

A very healthy attitude.  I do admit you will probably have an easier time dating once you’re 5’10 but if you were doing fine before I doubt it will be major.  Your height will go from being a small barrier to being a non issue or even a very small plus.  5’10 barefoot men constantly claim 5’11 or 6’ anyways.  You’ll be in a really good spot.

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Quote from: TSF2025 on June 17, 2021, 05:55:24 PMWith everything else being equal, then the taller is stronger.

That's actually a bad example. Powerlifters can pack more muscle for its weight(to be in certain class) thats why a lot of them are actually short.

It's easy to see if u look at it logically, ofc if u have someone 190cm tall and 170cm the shorter one can pack more muscle in its package if they both weight idk like 70-80kgs.

Lower center of gravity helps too in typical street fight + its even better if u have long reach comparing to your height