Have you guys experienced this too?

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Quote from: IwannaBeTaller on November 29, 2016, 09:41:04 PMI never had a girlfriend, so I can't comment on what that feels like. But I absolutely think that if you have a lot going on in your life, be it a happy relationship or a successful job/occupation to keep you busy, your height problems can easily fade away for some time, even if you have serious height neurosis. I've seen this when I had stuff going on, before that, I was afraid my height problems would keep me from being concentrated and productive, but when I need concentration, the height problems can fade away because they have to, luckily. However, this is not a permanent solution. Sooner or later they will come back. My dad always tells me to concentrate on other things, other people than myself, but this is not really helpful, because you are with yourself all the time in your life. Sooner or later your bad thoughts will resurface, at least in my experience.

This is very true,atleast for me.Like,i could concentrate on other things or be happy and forget about height just for those moments.But maybe after 15 min or 3 hours or a day those height related thoughts will come back and fk up your mood really hard.

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Very normal... Each time i am seeing someone I want to do LL but much less. When I leave the relationship I want to do LL again like before. Has to do with low self worth feeling which anyone with any appearance related insecurity has. And since in the end we all care about height because of women (And please stop lying to yourself that women are not the number 1 reason by far as I doubt anyone in here beleive the bullcrap how height has any effect on your life besides the dating scene...), once you are with a woman/women you feel better with yourself and thus the height thingy gets calmed down

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I agree with you 100% Tibike

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Quote from: TIBIKE200 on November 30, 2016, 09:34:49 AMVery normal... Each time i am seeing someone I want to do LL but much less. When I leave the relationship I want to do LL again like before. Has to do with low self worth feeling which anyone with any appearance related insecurity has. And since in the end we all care about height because of women (And please stop lying to yourself that women are not the number 1 reason by far as I doubt anyone in here beleive the bullcrap how height has any effect on your life besides the dating scene...), once you are with a woman/women you feel better with yourself and thus the height thingy gets calmed down

I can honestly say it's not women. Once you hit the 30 year range you have a better idea of what's really important. You also see a lot of good looking girls with ugly guys and vice versa. Also if your goal is to actually be in a committed monogamous relationship there really is no reason to a "ladies man". But if you just want to get laid in a superficial way focus on money and status.

And I'm by no means trying to say I'm not vain, it's just that my reasons aren't about women at all