Hello,
I know one of the reasons most men do the CLL is to improve their dating life.
I feel its OK to acknowledge it. For those who have finished the procedure and are fully recovered ¿do you feel the extra inhces it have really improved your dating life?
I would like to hear your expereriences.
Quote from: TheAlchemist on February 25, 2020, 06:53:13 AM@Fox and futureller:
I know how you feel. We all have self-doubt, insecurity and fear of failure. Before LL I had nights where I would go out and say to myself, 'I'm too short, other guys are taller, other guys are richer, other guys are just better. I just don't have it. So why bother. I just want to chill and give up on the idea of getting the women I truly desire because I'm not the ideal male archetype.' When I noticed myself adopting this negative mindset I had to slap myself out of it. I knew and accepted height mattered in society, the world wasn't fair, we aren't all born equal, I didn't deny it, but I also didn't surrender to it. I embraced it.
I am so glad I embraced it. Having height neurosis and STILL persevering to get the women I wanted was like living life as a video game with the difficulty set at hard. This gave me the opportunity to build around other positive aspects of my life like my career, lifestyle, personality, fitness and conversational skills so that even as a below average in height man with severe height neurosis, I still viewed myself as a high value man.....with that mindset an amazing thing happened, women started seeing me as a high value man too.
For the majority of my adult life, living with height neurosis, I acted as though I was never going to get LL and optimized life as best I could with what I had and what was in my control. And it worked. I lived a life of abundance with women despite being below average in height. Suddenly when the stars aligned and I was fortunate enough to move forward with LL, doing LL became a huge enhancement to what was already a high value man, instead of marking the beginning of a high value man. That same video game of life difficulty level setting was suddenly adjusted down to 'easy' and I couldn't be happier. The point I'm trying to make is LL isn't going to transform us into casanovas, it can only enhance an already existing casanova.
If you view LL as some sort of delayed gratification plan to life that you are waiting for to change things upside down, you will lose. Start living life now because you are capable today.
Hi man, glad you are doing great now. Indeed you went from average height to tall.
However I believe you had this advantage since the begining, at 1.75 cm + shoe lifts you where pretty much in the normal height zone since the start.
I myself suffer as well from height neurosis at 165 cm, reaching 175 cm would take me from the short zone to "normal" zone. I might never reach tall but at 175 cm I do believe no women would consider you undeatable if your exceed in other areas, as you did before doing CLL. 175 is not considered short anywhere except in the netherlands.
Quote from: BetzLandLiberator on March 09, 2020, 11:36:29 AMIf you are 165cm like I was you don't suffer height neurosis, you suffer REAL discrimination because of heightism. Any man bellow the 5% percentile suffers from it. It's not a neurosis because it's not only in your head.
I hate that Paley created (and patients accepted) this crap theory that EVERY single CLL only suffers from Height dysphoria/neurosis and not real discrimination.
This is a well researched topic, height discrimination is real and brutal.
Hi man, nice to see someone about my height having a great outcome after CLL. Can you confirm me if the 10 cm you did where entirely femur, or was it femur + tibia. ¿ How old are you, and when did you had the CLL? I expect to have 7 cm femur in 2021.
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