That's rough. 
Having friends that pointing out my lack of height was enough for me, I don't think I could handle it if I had my family pointing it out as well.
Quote from: BilateralDamage on January 15, 2014, 12:09:20 AMThat's rough.
Having friends that pointing out my lack of height was enough for me, I don't think I could handle it if I had my family pointing it out as well.
It can be a pain, but the worst of it comes from my mother. One would think that at 5'0 she'd be a bit more understanding, but she's the one making comments like 'you better marry a tall girl or my grandchildren will be midgets' or when she gets really mad at me deciding to disparage me for my height as her way of being insulting. With that behavior it's like she's asking me to put her in a home.
Jk about putting her in a home lol. But really, it's frustrating having a parent that gives you your genetics act like it's your fault.
I'm 5'7 the tallest in my family, but my cousins from my mother side is usually 5'9 to 5'10, it always make me jealous of their height
Quote from: jenslarsen on January 14, 2014, 10:36:44 AMHeh, seems like you can't really escape those tall people anymore unless you go to Asia or Latin America or something. But I'll probably just be content with being a place where not almost all women are between 5'4" and 5'8". Only around 10% of women are below 5'3" here, but in any place with a significant Asian population that figure would increase a lot, at least doubling my dating pool.
The women you had success with at 5'6", were they Asian or also white/other ethnicities?
Thanks again.
Hey Jen,
Everyone's preference for girls changes over time. Our success is a reflection of where we spend the most time building our nest.
When I was a University student in Vancouver, my interest was white girl. My target was big, tall, beautiful, innocent, University white girl with shoulder length hair. I find white women attractive at that time because they have nice body. Unfortunately, I was also very inexperienced. So I ended up with only 3 girlfriends during my University years. One of them was really hot and beautiful. She worked at the gym. Loves to read and ride pony. She was 5'6. I can tell you right now Canadian women are very generous to short men. A lot of time, I find women who are a lot taller than me, but I can feel that she probably wouldn't mind my height. One time I was sitting in class, and there was this 5'11 brunette hottie sitting next to me and she was elbowing me and touching me. I was really nervous at that time.
My taste changes when Vancouver held the 2010 winter olympic. I went to this Korean drinking party and met a Korean female casanova (I was told). She was very good at making men fall in love with her. My Korean friend told me to be careful. But I didn't listen. Every night she would call me and we would chat for about an hour over the phone. She would say things like, my (insert my name). And I would fall for it. A month later, she went back to Korea and I was broken. Ever since then from 2010 to end of 2012, I have been finding Korean/Japanese women to bust. My number must of been in the 50s. I wished I had spent all those time wasted doing something productive with my life instead, like studying and saving up money for LL.
Vancouver is a very friendly city with nice weather. People like to be outside. Though it may be easier, I never use the internet for dating. I like things to be natural and unplanned. I would go to the coffee shop or hang out at the library to study. Another reason I choose these locations was my target was beautiful, young, innocent, student with shoulder's length hair.
Every once in a while in Vancouver, you would get a freebie, like a girl would just fall into you for sex. This happens to me at the club and sometime at the coffee shop. But I don't count these as successful conquest. My Italian roommate and I went to this Irish club in downtown. And there was this fairly attractive drunk brunette who was interested in my roommate (he was handsome). He wasn't interested so he passed her on to me. I said, I rather save myself for someone more challenging, so I also pass it on to the next guy. And he passed her on to some other guy.
When you meet women at the coffee shop or library, everything is about eye signal and body language. One time I met this girl at the coffee shop. She was looking over at me, and I return the glare but quickly look away when she noticed. Then she looked back at me and I smiled. She smiled. Then I proceed to walk up to her. We had a conversation. Then I suggest if she wants to go see a movie. She agreed. But when she got to my car, I asked if she wanted to see a movie at my home. She also agreed. I took her to my home and we had sex. Afterward I asked her, why she was so easy. She said, she doesn't know.
I was 5'6 during all these time and unattractive. I know guys who are attractive who would have a lot easier time with girls. Everything for me was about scheming, planning, preparation and strategizing.
So I think if you come to Vancouver, your chance should be okay too at 5'7. I think there should be someone for everyone. And the type of girl that you end up with will be depended on where you choose to build your nest.
Today, I was jogging at the gym. I plan on rewriting my LL diary sometime this weekend and posting it on this forum. Stay tune!
Awesome post Small G
I think that there is something about you that girls like. Yes chicks might be forgiving of short guys in your city but I think its more likely that they see some thing about you that u haven't figured out.
You r also right about our taste for women changing over time.
I have always liked big booty chicks but now I'm kinda looking lot at the slim tall girls. Not sure if its to do with me spending so much time in LL forums. Maybe in my head I am already 6 inches taller and I have adjusted my taste for women.
I cant wait to do LL and cheat mother nature. Punch above my god given weight level and date girls who were never meant to be in my dating pool.
Quote from: Smallguy on January 15, 2014, 06:00:52 AMSo I ended up with only 3 girlfriends during my University years. One of them was really hot and beautiful.
My number must of been in the 50s.
I was 5'6 during all these time and unattractive. I know guys who are attractive who would have a lot easier time with girls.
Are you serious? 
Have you slept with 50 women and had at least three girlfriends? I think that's really impressive regardless of height. I've been with WAY WAY fewer, but it's also because I haven't been too aggressive about pursuing. Maybe it'd be easier for me if there actually were a significant amount of Asian women here, like in Vancouver... I primarily want a serious relationship and not hookups though. I just know women abroad seem to give me much more attention without any effort from my part, and at home the short girls are in very short (he-he!) supply. Sounds like your height wasn't a big dating/sex life issue, at least, and I'm starting to wonder if mine is not either, at least if I go the right places. Well, obviously it IS an issue because most Scandinavian 5'5+ women here (at least 60%) probably wouldn't like my height, but if I gave it my all, I still wonder how well I would do. Guess it's time to try to forget about height for a while and really get out there to find out once and for all how much my height limits me. Personally I'd never even consider LL if I had gotten that many women. I'd be way more optimistic then.
Thanks again, it's always interesting to hear other guy's experiences!
Quote from: Adriano on January 15, 2014, 08:22:09 AMAwesome post Small G
I think that there is something about you that girls like. Yes chicks might be forgiving of short guys in your city but I think its more likely that they see some thing about you that u haven't figured out.
You r also right about our taste for women changing over time.
I have always liked big booty chicks but now I'm kinda looking lot at the slim tall girls. Not sure if its to do with me spending so much time in LL forums. Maybe in my head I am already 6 inches taller and I have adjusted my taste for women.
I cant wait to do LL and cheat mother nature. Punch above my god given weight level and date girls who were never meant to be in my dating pool.
Thanks for the compliment.
You should pursue your dream now that you are at your peak physical performance. If you're unlucky, you may not even walk after LL. And the procedure usually takes a toll on your mentality and body. I know a guy who developed a lot of wrinkles on his face after LL (or maybe he lied about his true age). So he certainly not improving his chance for girls.
Unless you are mentally handicap or very physically deformed, I believe anyone in this day and age can get girls if you are willing to put the time and effort into this activity.
Beside being 5'6 in a world of 5'11, I have many other physical defects. But had I allow those excuses to get the better part of me, then you wouldn't have experience any joy in your life. You have to make the best out of what little you got. That means dressing up professionally, be well-groomed and physically fit, and have a nice pleasant manner for a guy at 5'6.
From 2010, for me, a lot of time it was about scheming for sex. I never attract nobody. For example, I would try to get the number of contact up (like 2-3 girls per week at the coffee shop). Then if I lose one, I still have other contacts so I won't feel as bad. Because being rejected really takes a toll of your motivation. And of course, time is important. It's really bad if you waste your time of this one chick and nothing happens, that's like putting all your eggs into big basket. I would screen out my target through texting and meet only the one I feel is a good potential victim. To avoid wasting time I spend a lot of time screen and choosing my target and location of meeting. I would also some students to drive them home after a party. And the weather would be very cold and we would have this fare-well hug. After the hug, she would feel so warm, and then I ask, can we hug for a little bit longer? She agrees. Then I would kiss her neck like a vampire until she becomes all horny and can't refuse anymore. hehehe 
Quote from: jenslarsen on January 15, 2014, 05:21:44 PMAre you serious? Have you slept with 50 women and had at least three girlfriends? I think that's really impressive regardless of height. I've been with WAY WAY fewer, but it's also because I haven't been too aggressive about pursuing. Maybe it'd be easier for me if there actually were a significant amount of Asian women here, like in Vancouver... I primarily want a serious relationship and not hookups though. I just know women abroad seem to give me much more attention without any effort from my part, and at home the short girls are in very short (he-he!) supply. Sounds like your height wasn't a big dating/sex life issue, at least, and I'm starting to wonder if mine is not either, at least if I go the right places. Well, obviously it IS an issue because most Scandinavian 5'5+ women here (at least 60%) probably wouldn't like my height, but if I gave it my all, I still wonder how well I would do. Guess it's time to try to forget about height for a while and really get out there to find out once and for all how much my height limits me. Personally I'd never even consider LL if I had gotten that many women. I'd be way more optimistic then.
Thanks again, it's always interesting to hear other guy's experiences!
Oh yeah, women, especially the younger ones, don't like to be serious and be pursued aggressively. They like to have fun and experience life before settling down. That's why you will feel that you have better chance of having sex with a girl than having a serious relationship with her.
Actually, before I felt my height was a major obstacle with dating. But now that I'm 3 inches taller, I haven't met any girl for a year. So I really think, any 5'6 guy with normal intelligent and average looks can get girls if you're willing to put the time and effort into finding one. But of course, being in Vancouver where the average height is lower because of the majority Asian population here really helps too.
If you're interested, I can take a video of what downtown Vancouver looks like. Then you can have a feel for what this city is like.
Quote from: Kilokahn on January 14, 2014, 11:46:02 PMI got the raw end of the deal in the height genetics card. All my half-siblings are much taller than me and it makes going to social gatherings with them tough because there's always some assclown who has to point out the obvious.
Oldest half-brother: 6'1
Next oldest half-brother: 6'3
Younger half-brother: 6'2
Oldest half-sister: 5'9
Next oldest half-sister: 5'10
Me: 5'5
Their mother was 5'11 and my mother is 5'0. Dammit dad.
That's got to be annoying at best. I'm sorry, Kilo. What is your father's height? You may still carry tall genes and thus have tall children been though those genes weren't expressed in your own body.
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