man 15 years is just way too long.You cant know what time will bring till then.Maybe you will be billionare after you do LL and start working in like 5-10 years :)You should get your surgery if you really want imo.
Quote from: TIBIKE200 on October 09, 2016, 10:31:29 PMYou said everything started after the end of a relationship.
I can relate to the feeling of unworthingness or whatever since I like every other single man or women had a rough breakup at some point in our past... A harsh breakup can really mess up your self worth and self image.... Be sure that you are not projecting your sorrow for the lost relationship into invented insecurities... One thing is to want to become taller... Another is to suffer because you arent already tall
I knew I was short since I was 18 but I wasn't really fussed since I wasn't mocked for it and had a great partner but as more and more people started to comment and so did my partner and her parents that's when it started and when we broke up and I entered the dating world and got the shock of my life when I experienced women's obsession over height and thing's haven't got better since so now it's time to do something drastic about it to solve the issue once and for all and I can put all this behind me.
I'm definitely suffering :/
And you are 5 8" 
Quote from: Random Hero on October 10, 2016, 07:55:33 PMI knew I was short since I was 18 but I wasn't really fussed since I wasn't mocked for it and had a great partner but as more and more people started to comment and so did my partner and her parents that's when it started and when we broke up and I entered the dating world and got the shock of my life when I experienced women's obsession over height and thing's haven't got better since so now it's time to do something drastic about it to solve the issue once and for all and I can put all this behind me.
I'm definitely suffering :/
mocked? as more and more people started to comment? Dude wtf?!You are not a midget for crying out loud..
I dont understand,do you live in netherlands or some tall af country?
Quote from: Random Hero on October 10, 2016, 07:55:33 PMI knew I was short since I was 18 but I wasn't really fussed since I wasn't mocked for it and had a great partner but as more and more people started to comment and so did my partner and her parents that's when it started and when we broke up and I entered the dating world and got the shock of my life when I experienced women's obsession over height and thing's haven't got better since so now it's time to do something drastic about it to solve the issue once and for all and I can put all this behind me.
I'm definitely suffering :/
Its your mental issue, did they called you short? i guess not.
why you don't say anything about tall guy get rejected, are they short too?
Quote from: Peaceout on October 10, 2016, 08:02:42 PMmocked? as more and more people started to comment? Dude wtf?!You are not a midget for crying out loud..
I dont understand,do you live in netherlands or some tall af country?
He has England in his signature.
I'm not mocked for my 5'5 and i'm living in an average taller country.
Quote from: Bigpoppapump on October 09, 2016, 04:20:54 PMIts a tough question
Height neurosis or short stature is beyond horrible it truly is and i sympathise i can relate to your story and have a lot of sympathy. I suffered the exact same things, women would say 'yeah your handsome, good looking etc but youre too short' etc etc etc. its as frustrating as hell! You feel bitter and angry and it eventually consumes your life.
Even just reading this my jaw clenches and my muscles tense with anger and frustration; you've obviously experienced the same prejudice as I have.
Do I want to be bitter about it all my life? absolutely not if their is a 'cure'...even if it is ~£55,000! haha
Quote from: Bigpoppapump on October 09, 2016, 04:20:54 PMIf you want the surgery done id either do it now or not at all. You must realise though that this surgery comes at costs not just money wise it would be great if that was all it was but it isnt. At 5-8 id advise you to do 5cms on tibias or something similar on femurs, there are pros and cons to both that you must be aware of. Doing tibias you will eventually lose dorsiflexion at a certain point, you may very well be able to regain some but not much or anynat all if you overlengthen. Dorsiflexion is critical for a number of movements for the body and without it walking will become very awkward. Running properly will be a thing of the past. A number of gym movements will become very difficult if not impossible to do safely. If you are into athletic things think very hard about this surgery. If you are an individual who is like the rest of the population who gets up works, goes hime watches soaps, then goes to bed and does this year after year then fine go get it as the difference to your life is minimal.
I'm defiantly doing femur as that is what Dr. Guichet performs; going to research 'Dorsiflexion' non the less as it's a term I havn't come across yet.
I used to row but a rowing club wasn't the wisest thing to join with height neurosis for obvious reasons so I just weight train at the gym four days a week now...just another example how it affects my daily life 
Quote from: Bigpoppapump on October 09, 2016, 04:20:54 PMThe problem with these boards is any questions regardingthe issues caused by this surgery are generally not answered or ignored. There are too many folk on here that obsess over nonsense like proportions when there is far bigger things to worry about, like making sure you dont overlengthen and screw yourself up. You wont guve a fk about your arms being 1" too short for your body if you cant walk properly again.
I agree that the forum is bias towards the surgery but that is to be expected as very few people will expose themselves if they have failed at something (in this case suffered complications) even under an alias on a forum however there are rare exceptions like Unicorn who have gone into great detail about what appears to be a very arduous experience...it does make me wonder how many people have experienced the same issues faced by Unicorn though.
Quote from: Bigpoppapump on October 09, 2016, 04:20:54 PMIf you had cash like a million there would be plenty of women who would be keen on you, theres little difference between a woman who goes for a guy whos rich or one who goes for one who is tall simply because they are either rich or tall. Both will fail as money can only buy so much happiness but someone who is tall will eventually be surplus to requirements as well as the height thing will grow old similar to the material posessions they bought with your money either way both types of women are not the types you want.
I dont get women whongo for for guys simply because they are tall, its the equivalent of guys going with women because they have big tits but literally nothing else going for them
Hope to god I don't fall for one of these women! haha I sort of get that women directly relate height with strength and want to feel protected it's just a natural instinct so I don't necessarily blame them for it...it's just sh*t for guys below average height!
Quote from: Random Hero on October 10, 2016, 08:26:29 PMhaha I sort of get that women directly relate height with strength and want to feel protected it's just a natural instinct so I don't necessarily blame them for it...it's just sh*t for guys below average height!
It's barely natural instinct. Height is mostly glorified by media and hollywood.
Quote from: Random Hero on October 10, 2016, 08:26:29 PMEven just reading this my jaw clenches and my muscles tense with anger and frustration; you've obviously experienced the same prejudice as I have.
Do I want to be bitter about it all my life? absolutely not if their is a 'cure'...even if it is ~£55,000! haha
That type of girls won't date you anymore but it's good, you wouldn't really want to date that type of person.
Quote from: The Kaiser on October 09, 2016, 08:20:32 PM80 mm is 3.25" inches. you need more time then. 7 cm you can gain it in two months with Guichet, then you can go back immediately but its preferable to stay an extra week there so lets say 65 days for 7 cm. good luck
80mm/25.4mm=3.15" trust me I'm an engineer 
Didn't think to bother mentioning the additional 0.15" but it appears people on here are budding metrologist's and like to be exact haha 
65 days will do me perfectly! 
and ty!
Quote from: Random Hero on October 10, 2016, 08:36:13 PM80mm/25.4mm=3.15" trust me I'm an engineer
Didn't think to bother mentioning the additional 0.15" but it appears people on here are budding metrologist's and like to be exact haha
65 days will do me perfectly! and ty!
but then you will be in crutches for one or two months, but its ok you can go and have work. but 65 days i meant with Guichet, because he usually cut 1 cm in the first day, and lets assume no complication occured
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