Quote from: Mulholland Dr on February 04, 2022, 09:33:22 AMMate you gotta know I am a college student and my house must be maintained for 5 yrs to go up the price to that can afford for LL and that's why I am still haunting on here and despair is residing in my life rn.
I have gone for psys for 5 times for psychiatric helps but the outcome was just nothing and as I realize more and more detriments my height is bringing to me I am also becoming more and more desperate and at a loss what to do except waiting for that house inflating its own price spontaneously thanks to China's economic inflation and I hope you can have some sympathy from my experiences.
Say the prices doesn't inflate to the level you want or worse price goes down what is your backup plan?
HELP: Concerns about height/happiness of future children/son (gf is short)
Quote from: Highest on February 04, 2022, 10:54:49 AMSay the prices doesn't inflate to the level you want or worse price goes down what is your backup plan?
Then just make money
Quote from: Mulholland Dr on February 04, 2022, 09:33:22 AMMate you gotta know I am a college student and my house must be maintained for 5 yrs to go up the price to that can afford for LL and that's why I am still haunting on here and despair is residing in my life rn.
I have gone for psys for 5 times for psychiatric helps but the outcome was just nothing and as I realize more and more detriments my height is bringing to me I am also becoming more and more desperate and at a loss what to do except waiting for that house inflating its own price spontaneously thanks to China's economic inflation and I hope you can have some sympathy from my experiences.
I have sympathy but hold on, be a man!
Take advantage of those 5 years to do something less stressing that exposes you less (without hidding). If psys aren't doing any good chose other psy approach (hypnotherapy, positive psychology, etc.) and try, try, try other things which make you feel respected and cared of, like biodance, yoga, sports, find something you are surely good at.
I understand your despair, I tried psys for more than 20 years, I am neurotic, I still haven't the money to LL and will be money flat at a certain age after doing just one segment of LL while I am 5,00"". Yes: I am 152 cm! I need two segments, money, more time, luck and elevator shoes. The only positive point is that if my final safe height is less than 170 cm, I will be happy enough.
But still, with 152cm I had 3 wonderful girlfriends 3cm taller who could see something beyond my body, I could at the time show my good spirit and inteligence altough I still lost them not because of my height or them but because of my neurosis. I lost decades of my life. You probably are half older than me or so. The more negativity you spread around, the less people can understand or help. Use this forum to help you find the best solutions, keep sure that in 5 years LL will be even saffer. Be an adult, raise your head, look ahead! But please don't fking bring so much poison here. You yourself get self empoisened and cultivate hate against you.
Quote from: zaozari on February 03, 2022, 09:47:40 PMThis is a Limb lengthening forum, not a family planning website neither for whom think of slightly short or short people (ie, the users and even his future sons) as handicapped or abnormal in any special country.
I think you dislike me for personal reasons and see me as an douchbag, which I'm not. Yes, it's a limb lengthening forum, but why does it exist and why here are mostly male user? Because of these ty societies. If height weren't an issue, this place and this surgery wouldn't exist. So I think it's okay to talk about the think i posted in the off-topic section.
Following is a different topic than my original post, but I have to say it:
It seriously needs a "height positivity campaign", just like body positivity, which almost only includes women. Check out the image search on google of "bodyposivitiy", it's 99% female only. There is a furniture store in my country that stopped selling bathroom scales this week because of body positivity, so that overweight people cannot let themselves be put under pressure when seeing their wight. The company uses it to apply, but only puts women in the pictures. I don't want to evaluate the campaign at all and see it neutrally, but something like that is needed for the topic of height. It would be great if none of that were a problem, as were other physical traits.
Of course I don't dislike you for personal reasons, altough it's true you create me antipathy and even hostility towards you. I think I made clear why. We kind of live in different planets.
It irritates me also that you don't see that you are in reality, although totally convinced of your good intentions, more worried about yourself, not your future sons. And even this is an anonymous forum it shocks me your disrespect (no other word for it) you feel deeply inside and express publicly towards your wife.
The woman who probably loves you, lives with you, who smiles every morning at you, who makes love to you, maybe who cooks for you and maybe even cleans your **it in the toilet while you watch TV (ok, this sounds personal, you're right dammit!)
I forgot to say I agree on your second point. Decades from now, even certain current feminists and sociologists will eventually understand that heightism is a part of machism: one more point "obliging" women to be inferior and weaker. Biological dimorphismt don't explain it all. There's even domestic violence against men.
Heightism is also a primitive atavic manifestation of remembrance from the times when we were kids and looked up at adults. Many tall people live like prisoneers of that "animal" rational. But of course there's not any societal reality or explanation that "works" in 2022, or even 2032, to make society more "inteligent" and advanced. And definitly able to not make allmost all short people feel bad.
Quote from: zaozari on February 04, 2022, 07:58:59 AMOr kill yourself, you already said.
What on earth are you waiting to do LL? Why haven't you killed yourself yet (fortunately)?
Why do you prefer to have diseases where you don't speak, don't think, don't move, can't feed, urinate or defecate by yourself? What on earth are you doing on this forum? Don't you understand how insulting and hurting you are for most short users (and pathologically disrespectful for yourselfasca human being)? Don't you realize, or people around you, that you need urgent help?
PLEASE TALK ASAP TO A PSY, A FRIEND, A BROTHER, A PRIEST, HELP LINE, or either a DEPRESSIVE or SHORT PEOPLE SELF HELP GROUP!
I really need to say one more thing to you as a short man, LL mate.
I am not a doctor but I have scientific background, I unfortunately know something about psychology and even psychiatry. I am a patient and I know support groups .
This introduction is to say I fear you may leaving the neurosis zone and entering into the psychotic field.
Please tell a good reputated professional everything you write here. That you think recurrently of suicide, that you wish you were a tall disabled guy, etc. It's not even ridiculous going to an urgence hospital and tell a doctor you feel that bad and delusional. TALK, TALK, TALK. YOU ARE IN A DANGEROUS ZONE (or otherwise playing with everybody else here, specially me).
Don't worry about your son. Be selfish.
What son? Maybe you should tell him "Don't worry about your wife. Be selfish". After all, what's a woman? Speciall a f****** 155 cm woman! F*** "for the good and the bad times". "Be hypocrite". Why not a "traitor" too?
Who's telling him not to worry with his future son? He hardly will be less than 173,5 cm . And is it a tragedy if he would be a few centimetres shorter probably only in case proper follow up is not made in childhood? The "father" is already being "selfish". He just can't stand the idea of managing such a "tragedy". That's the only issue here. There are really people who need to invent problems.
Quote from: Itsme on February 04, 2022, 12:27:07 PMI think you dislike me for personal reasons and see me as an douchbag, which I'm not. Yes, it's a limb lengthening forum, but why does it exist and why here are mostly male user? Because of these ty societies. If height weren't an issue, this place and this surgery wouldn't exist. So I think it's okay to talk about the think i posted in the off-topic section.
Following is a different topic than my original post, but I have to say it:
It seriously needs a "height positivity campaign", just like body positivity, which almost only includes women. Check out the image search on google of "bodyposivitiy", it's 99% female only. There is a furniture store in my country that stopped selling bathroom scales this week because of body positivity, so that overweight people cannot let themselves be put under pressure when seeing their wight. The company uses it to apply, but only puts women in the pictures. I don't want to evaluate the campaign at all and see it neutrally, but something like that is needed for the topic of height. It would be great if none of that were a problem, as were other physical traits.
The problem is that this campaign won’t change the mind of the opposite sex. Sure it might make women feel better about themselves, but it definitely isn’t going to make men want to bang fat chicks.
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