Yeah, I know how it is, I lived amoung chineses for a time. The guys never cared about my height, cause I was cool and foreign, but never saw a girl looking me.
But please, don't give up, maybe everyone is born with a challenge, dwarfs, short guys, down's, really ugly people, people who can't walk, tallk, blind, etc. So heads up, work hard, study hard, save money as fk and go get your maximum. But do not suicide, work in your self buddy!
Maybe you can move to another country, like japan or other short ones. I always wanted to live at China or SK, but with my height even after LL I'm no that comfortable, so yeah. Talk to the CLL doctor and see everything.
How many of you thought about killing yourself at some point?
If you think she's the one, talk to her about your problems, but careful to not be so needy and etc. Keep the relation happy too. Maybe she has problems too and you two can overcome everything. If she leaves, she's not the one, and be happy.
Stay safe, stop trying to not be alive, try to think that yoour life is a super hard challenge, that tall and beautiful people have the easiest life, and that after everyone dies, you had the most challenging life, and at any relegion you would be higher value than them, so don't quit please.
Yeah, true.
I think that 16cm is maximum, so you would be like 158cm+14/16cm= 172/174cm. That's more than japanese average.
And yes, it all depends at your body and comitiment, so start streching hard every day, and getting into good shape
Quote from: Future Skycraper on May 03, 2021, 11:46:25 AMIf you think she's the one, talk to her about your problems, but careful to not be so needy and etc. Keep the relation happy too. Maybe she has problems too and you two can overcome everything. If she leaves, she's not the one, and be happy.
Stay safe, stop trying to not be alive, try to think that yoour life is a super hard challenge, that tall and beautiful people have the easiest life, and that after everyone dies, you had the most challenging life, and at any relegion you would be higher value than them, so don't quit please.
She is only 140cm(can't taller in the least bit)and as old as me so she can't do anything but forgive my height.And she can accept men from 155cm to 165cm.I can always start and remain a happy talk with her so I don't need to suspect her love not like 155cm+ girls' loves to me.
In my hometown 175cm is really a good height even for millenials.Once I did military physical examination and in the end the average height of my peers who volunteered to be soldiers is only 170cm and no one was taller than 180cm.So I don't think 175cm is 'very short'(nearly all of Chinese netizens are calling 175cm tall men like this) as a millenial male.
I also have good appearance and rich family possession(The reason why I dind't grow tall is IUGR(intrautrine growth retardation,not genes or nultritions) so it's not hard for me to marry a woman there.
But I can't accept the truth that I didn't grow to genetically inherited height because of uncontrolled reasons.How poor I am!
Wow you're tall for her. That's good, mate!
Gotcha! Well, since you come from a rich family, you should consider getting a good doctor to get the maximum you want with less complications. And yes, 175cm is definetly not so short, it's more than average in lots of countries.
LOL porr you! In my case, my dad and mom are short, and doctor was kinda ty, so...
Quote from: Future Skycraper on May 03, 2021, 01:43:46 PMWow you're tall for her. That's good, mate!
Gotcha! Well, since you come from a rich family, you should consider getting a good doctor to get the maximum you want with less complications. And yes, 175cm is definetly not so short, it's more than average in lots of countries.
LOL porr you! In my case, my dad and mom are short, and doctor was kinda ty, so...
Thank u.But in my country 140cm tall girls are usually discriminating men under 175.I dunno what they are thinking.
I think couples with more than 15cm height difference are weird against scientific two genders' average heights.If a couple's height difference is 15cm then one's skull top point can only reach to the other's nose bottom.I dunno why many Chinese short girls think 175-180cm tall males can only match 140-150cm tall females and 180cm+ tall males can match 150-160cm tall females.
Im really convinced many girls are in very very high self-esteems and self-confidences that they don't believe 160cm tall male can be juxtaposed with 148-150cm tall females.And they also think,beautycamed them are real them.
Quote from: Coeus on May 03, 2021, 04:52:15 AMI counted them wrong.
I tried jumping for 4 times and hanging for 2 times all at just 15 simply cuz of height.I'm also suffering from slight muscae volitantes.
Even in my gf's companion I've been also considering suicide for nearly 1 yr(only half year romance with my gf at present).
I'm also planning on gold nanoparticle muscae volitantes treatments coming in 5 yrs to kill all of the floaters in my eyeballs,which are also annoying me at the same time with my height dysphoria.
But I think solvable problems cannot be called problems like muscae volitantes.But height will be permanent pain that can not be killed by just medicine and fking shrinks for men.
What are floaters in eyeballs
Quote from: Canon on May 05, 2021, 10:08:34 PMWhat are floaters in eyeballs
U can know information about them googling pictures.
This is the reason because people should be serious when talking about this surgery. Journalists and bloggers should avoid to scare people about it with false myths, because this surgery is a hope for a lot of people who feel that they have the wrong* body. The procedure is not easy, it have some risks (that can be avoided or fixed most of times), but it is doable, and an increasing number of people are doing it.
*I don't mean that being short is wrong, I mean that a short body is wrong when the person doesn't like it. This "wrong" depends strongly on the feelings of the person.
Not to dump negative junks into this post but I really wanna admit:I'm suicidal per sec.
Yeah it's fking true height really sucks and it's kinda chronic and fatal disease but not thought as disease by ppl except u.
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