How to cope with girls' consistently questioning my height?

  Head-up: I am not an incel so don't think of me as an incel who is interested in cracking short men up. Just throw this question here to ask for some answers.
  About 1 week ago I joined a Depression group where a clutch of Depression patients gather there sharing their life events, depressive thoughts, updating photos of their pets by texting or group-voicing to mitigate their Depressions. By accident I ran into a girl who was also the starter of our chats where we had known a lot of informations about each other and I can detect she is indistinctly faling in love with me cuz my voice and personalities are very similar to her deskmate during her junior school life so maybe that is the reason why she crushed on me so easily, also totally out of my expectations.
  TBH I am not interested in her at all and I wanna get rid of her but I am always trying to be nice so I don't think it is a good move to unfriend her straightforwards, instead I am just indulging her a series of sorta annoying texts.
  Alright the prequel of story is sketchily all that I write above but what made me fly into a rage was that she harshed to inquire how exactly tall I am! And I don't dare tell her my exact height and she told me that that was alright and her ex was only around 165cm(in light of how crazily obsessed with heights China's Genzs are, I think his real height is the same as mine, 162cm at night barefoot) after I told her I was suffering from Depression cuz I am so short(but fortunately I am feeling far better rn so everybody no need to worry about my Depression thx . The final answer I gave to her was 'I am nearly your ex's height' and it's lucky for me not to be devastated for one more time cuz of my height.
  But here is a question worthy of being raised here: How to deal with girls' questions about your height? Refuse to answer? Just inflate your height as much as possible? Or tell them straightforwards that you are short and you are only 160+cm?
  Hope I can achieve some excellent answers here

早点做吧，我能理解，我170都想着重生，你比我更痛苦，做完手术一切就会改变

Remain positive, don't show in your face any negative signal. Then: if she's a nice person reply with a question: " does it really matter ? ". If  you don't care about her, she's not gentle or shouldn't even have asked, reply with another answer: " I really don't know. How fat are you?" . Always keep smiling and try to lead the conversation afterwards, maybe with an innocent joke or (better) improvise about something related to the context you're all in.

Quote from: Chinese Actor on February 17, 2022, 09:05:24 PM早点做吧，我能理解，我170都想着重生，你比我更痛苦，做完手术一切就会改变

170只是个低于平均身高2-3cm的身高（全国而言），想着重生干嘛？
170 is just under China's average height by 2-3cm, why you are contemplating on kiling urself?

Tell the truth to anyone who asks.  She'll instantly know your true height if you ever meet.  And if you never meet, who cares if she knows you're short?

Quote from: zaozari on February 17, 2022, 09:08:27 PMRemain positive, don't show in your face any negative signal. Then: if she's a nice person reply with a question: " does it really matter ? ". If  you don't care about her, she's not gentle or shouldn't even have asked, reply with another answer: " I really don't know. How fat are you?" . Always keep smiling and try to lead the conversation afterwards, maybe with an innocent joke or (better) improvise about something related to the context you're all in.

Good advice. But sometimes some girls are really that toxic that they wouldn't like to let go of topics about how tall you actually are LOL. So the rest advices about leading the conversations with jokes or stuffs relevant to the context will misfire in some extremises but most of what you say can make a lot of senses thx!
But all the details I mention above are asking for resolutions online but as for offline I think any considerate girl wouldn't inquire my height so bluntly.

Quote from: Medium Drink Of Water on February 17, 2022, 09:32:13 PMTell the truth to anyone who asks.  She'll instantly know your true height if you ever meet.  And if you never meet, who cares if she knows you're short?

Just trying to avoid achieving very provocative rude words from some extremely toxic girls LOL.

I think it's best to hear that stuff and get used to it.

Quote from: Medium Drink Of Water on February 17, 2022, 10:00:39 PMI think it's best to hear that stuff and get used to it.

Yeah I am kinda accustomed to it (I think 'callous to' is a better expression).. But I don't wanna have a mental breakdown all of a sudden when I am in a good mood.. That is very devastating and pretty leaving a bad taste on my mouth.

I am now barefoot 179 cm, and almost 180 cm first thing in morning,(and prob 183 cm if i was an astronaut under zero G conditions!! lol), I have no hesitation saying I am 5 11 (180.3 cm), i can't believe anyone but the most height aware Nazi who is almost your exact height could tell any different.